Tuesday 14 January 2014

Don Jon - Watch & Learn about Masculine ways

One of the most interesting things about Don Jon is the transformation of Jon around Barbara. His cocky confident exterior changes from a guy who is very sure of himself and what he wants into a guy who satisfies Barbara needs and desires instead of his own to get in her pants again and again. The relationship gets worse as Jon has to cover up his habits simple because Barbara does not like it. Jons masculinity and purpose fades as he becomes less sure of himself and his frustrations.

The last dialogue between Jon and Barbara makes it all clear when he realises she's selfish and is out for only herself.

Ultimately the good woman that changes a man is not one like Barbara but rather a woman like Esther who gives lovingly and openly with trust in the man. It makes him feel like the Man he truly should, that being one who is present and happy.

Jon mentions that him and Esther might not be the picture perfect couple in the eyes of society yet its a relationship much more full than any other he has had before and he wishes to continue as long as it will last.

The one message I got from the movie is to keep on your purpose and never forget yourself as being important. Don't sacrifice your own self for the stake of the pursuit of lust and desire.

You must stay true to yourself and find the girl who recognises you for who you are and worships you for who you are.

That lady who comes into your life is worth keeping.

Monday 13 January 2014

Only Think About Sex - Key to Arousal

Alot of smart people are talk about arousal as being a state and I agree entirely. They mention Mirror neurons and how as human beings we have the ability to tap into other people states and emotions just by looking at them. As new aged Men you are taught to be less sexual and not to think of women as object of sex. The reality is as a Man in pursuit of a woman you only need them for sex and everything else is pure time wasting. The only time you need a woman for something other than sex is if she is a business partner or your wife (take care of your children).

This is a huge wake up call to all you men out there. Don't let a woman talk you out of sleeping with her, she will look down on you as a lesser man for not pursuing her to the bedroom.

I want you to do one thing and that is to be creative. I want you to imagine her pleasing you sexually. Giving you a blowjob, lying down naked on your bed with her ass in the air, kissing you passionately, and feeling the pleasure that you both are having in the company of each other.

I believe if you focus on her and make sure you are turned on by her then she will be too.

Just like a woman when her pussy gets wet, when your dick is hard your instincts take over and you both become aroused.

If by chance she does not become aroused and want you then you focus on another girl and feel into her femininity.

As advanced human beings we forget that we are animals. We too are part of the animal kingdom. Intimacy is a natural thing we need to allow ourselves to enjoy.

All the best