One of the most interesting things about Don Jon is the transformation of Jon around Barbara. His cocky confident exterior changes from a guy who is very sure of himself and what he wants into a guy who satisfies Barbara needs and desires instead of his own to get in her pants again and again. The relationship gets worse as Jon has to cover up his habits simple because Barbara does not like it. Jons masculinity and purpose fades as he becomes less sure of himself and his frustrations.
The last dialogue between Jon and Barbara makes it all clear when he realises she's selfish and is out for only herself.
Ultimately the good woman that changes a man is not one like Barbara but rather a woman like Esther who gives lovingly and openly with trust in the man. It makes him feel like the Man he truly should, that being one who is present and happy.
Jon mentions that him and Esther might not be the picture perfect couple in the eyes of society yet its a relationship much more full than any other he has had before and he wishes to continue as long as it will last.
The one message I got from the movie is to keep on your purpose and never forget yourself as being important. Don't sacrifice your own self for the stake of the pursuit of lust and desire.
You must stay true to yourself and find the girl who recognises you for who you are and worships you for who you are.
That lady who comes into your life is worth keeping.
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