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Don Jon - Watch & Learn about Masculine ways

One of the most interesting things about Don Jon is the transformation of Jon around Barbara. His cocky confident exterior changes from a guy who is very sure of himself and what he wants into a guy who satisfies Barbara needs and desires instead of his own to get in her pants again and again. The relationship gets worse as Jon has to cover up his habits simple because Barbara does not like it. Jons masculinity and purpose fades as he becomes less sure of himself and his frustrations.

The last dialogue between Jon and Barbara makes it all clear when he realises she's selfish and is out for only herself.

Ultimately the good woman that changes a man is not one like Barbara but rather a woman like Esther who gives lovingly and openly with trust in the man. It makes him feel like the Man he truly should, that being one who is present and happy.

Jon mentions that him and Esther might not be the picture perfect couple in the eyes of society yet its a relationship much more full than any other he has had before and he wishes to continue as long as it will last.

The one message I got from the movie is to keep on your purpose and never forget yourself as being important. Don't sacrifice your own self for the stake of the pursuit of lust and desire.

You must stay true to yourself and find the girl who recognises you for who you are and worships you for who you are.

That lady who comes into your life is worth keeping.

Only Think About Sex - Key to Arousal

Alot of smart people are talk about arousal as being a state and I agree entirely. They mention Mirror neurons and how as human beings we have the ability to tap into other people states and emotions just by looking at them. As new aged Men you are taught to be less sexual and not to think of women as object of sex. The reality is as a Man in pursuit of a woman you only need them for sex and everything else is pure time wasting. The only time you need a woman for something other than sex is if she is a business partner or your wife (take care of your children).

This is a huge wake up call to all you men out there. Don't let a woman talk you out of sleeping with her, she will look down on you as a lesser man for not pursuing her to the bedroom.

I want you to do one thing and that is to be creative. I want you to imagine her pleasing you sexually. Giving you a blowjob, lying down naked on your bed with her ass in the air, kissing you passionately, and feeling the pleasure that you both are having in the company of each other.

I believe if you focus on her and make sure you are turned on by her then she will be too.

Just like a woman when her pussy gets wet, when your dick is hard your instincts take over and you both become aroused.

If by chance she does not become aroused and want you then you focus on another girl and feel into her femininity.

As advanced human beings we forget that we are animals. We too are part of the animal kingdom. Intimacy is a natural thing we need to allow ourselves to enjoy.

All the best

Pimp Mode - Be like Ice

You walk into the bar. Your sex drive is high and you have an air of dominance. In your mind you feel like the king and you want to have sex with a desirable girl. You act like the king. The king does not ask and demands. 

I'm laughing so hard at reading this right now and it sounds like some kind of animalistic thing you'd see on the discovery channel. But what I'd like you to do is tap into that sexual energy you have as a man. That energy that gives you focus and intent. The energy which makes you polarising to woman. These women enjoy looking at you in the eyes and feeling that manliness coming out of you. She feels how secure you are about yourself and begins to feel attraction.

You are in pimp mode. If you are working 9-5 job week days and you venture out into the night in the weekend and perhaps occasionally you go mid-week with friends and you want to be good with women, you need to harvest this energy. Expressing confidence and dominance from within yourself. I am Man and I am enough.

5 Tips to Conjure Sexual Confidence and get into Pimp Mode:

1) Stop watching Porn and stop masturbating. This will kill your sexual confidence and will give you terrible side-effects that will kill your drive for a woman.

2) Exercise. Go to the gym or do push-up and sit-ups at home. This increase testosterone which is the hormone in us Men that is linked to our own sex drive.

3) Self Love. There is not a person around you who is better than you. You are a magnet and chicks just love your manliness. Your masculinity makes them wet. Just being in the presence of a woman and looking into her eyes she becomes attracted to you. Harvest these beliefs and know that they are true. Love yourself well and others will too.

4) Eye contact. When you are around attractive girls and communicating with them make sure you are looking at them in the eyes. You are the man, you've got nothing to hide. You are accepted for who you are and you are happy within yourself. She will love looking into your eyes and will become trusting of you.

5) Join a Club/sport/hobbyist group. This will get you outside your head. Being active and about will get you talking to other people. Connecting and conversing. You will be immersed in something you are passionate about and the people you meet will be like-minded sharing that passion.  

Men cultivate your sex drive, it is your force with this world. Go forth and be polarising.

Never Stop Admiring the Beauty of a Woman

A healthy man is attracted to the beauty of a woman. How many times can you recall seeing or talking to a woman and being in awe of her beauty. The way she looks and the way she smells. Her beauty and her feminine energy radiating off of her. But you refuse to see and feel her within you. You disregard and ignore the feeling rather than tap into it and utilise that sexual feeling you are having towards her and enjoy her.

Whether you are single, married, or in a relationship you should never stop admiring the beauty of a woman. I believe if you do, you die a little inside. Men were born to sow their seeds in many different fields and it does not mean we have to, yet we must understand that our minds are programmed to seek out and explore other women.

Women like to be desired by Men. They spend alot of time making themselves look pretty and beautiful. They want to attract you!

Women work hard for the attention of a Man. Every healthy women loves a genuine compliment from a Man.

So I'm telling you this for your own good.

Never stop admiring the beauty of a Woman.

High Self Esteem - Key to Success - 10 ways to increase your own Self Esteem

A Man's happiness is his own doing. Attraction is being happy and contempt within yourself as a Man.

A man is happy when he is doing what he enjoys in life and is on the path of happiness. He is solid and robust in himself. He has a fearlessness, goes about being honest and is contempt in speaking his own mind. He connects with others through honesty. He communicate to others what he likes and through doing so remains in High Self Esteem.

No other person can take away a mans happiness, only himself. Protecting his own happiness should be his primary objective. A Man who is happy is a man who is attractive and vibrant.

He holds a good energy within himself that he gives out to the world.

5 tips to raise and keep your Self Esteem high

1) Do the things that give you the most pleasure and joy. Eg. playing sport, going to gym, hanging out with friends.

2) Engage in male banter. Banter is testing each others ego. Ego check for guys. If you have a healthy ego you will remain unchanged and on your path. If you get knocked by banter you are not engaging in banter correctly.

3) Smile and enjoy everything you do. If you aren't enjoying the process of doing something then make it fun and enjoyable for yourself.

4) Listen to music that makes you tap or dance. The music that makes you feel alive inside.

5) Get outside in the sunlight. Sunlight gives our skin Vitamin D important for mental health.

6) Compliment others for things you like about them. eg. Compliment a woman for looking fantastic in your eyes and being desirable to you. Tell a friend something you respect about him in accordance to the way you like to live as well.

7) Do not allow people especially girls to mother you. A man's self esteem is his own. It is important that he is in control of his own self esteem. When someone mothers you, its often their own insecurities coming out onto you. You do what makes you happy. If others are giving you advice this is a red flag. They are trying to control your life or they are in the belief that you are unhappy or threatening their own. Healthy people give advice to others only in the objective of helping others to preserve their own happiness.

8) Be grateful to others who cater to your needs and desires.

9) Preserve your sexual energy and evoke it. You can preserve you sexual energy by not masturbating so much and eating healthy. Things like beer promote more testosterone. Evoke sexual energy by complimenting a woman on how she makes you feel and by enjoying her.

10) Knowledge of self. Know what you like and know what you dislike. The more you know what you like and dislike the more time you spend doing the things you enjoy.

With High Self Esteem you are bullet proof in a world full of people who are very insecure about themselves. When you are secure in yourself that energy is attractive to be around.
Its all about practising Self happiness and going about in the world. As hard as it may sound Nobody cares for you, only you can care for yourself. You should be deeply in love with yourself. Every successful person in life has become successful through the love from themselves. When you love yourself and are secure with yourself you have a greater connection with others who can feel that energy coming off you.

Go forth and enjoy every single thing you do is this world and do everything for yourself.

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SEX - The most important thing in a relationship

As men we are very black and white when it comes to expressing what we feel. We tell things straight up and don't beat around the bush. Well some of us! There are those who lie, who make things alot more confusing in a relationship. Then there are women. The one thing you learn with women is what they are saying isn't necessarily exactly what is reality. They come at things on an emotional level which changes like the wind. There is usually a deeper level and that deeper level is connected to SEX.

The one thing that solves relationships and makes things harmonious is SEX. Long passionate, filth rough, intimate slow, cheeky and daring. SEX solves everything in a relationship. I would say it solves 99% of the problems. When couples argue they talk about things that don't really matter very much. They beat around the bush and don't talk about SEX.

If you have ever been in a disruptive relationship where both are at each others throat arguing and bickering then next minute break out into passionate sex which rinses clear things until the next arguement.

We seek to fulfil our sexual desires by other means. Women watch what we consider to be junk television, getting their fix of drama and fantasy. While us men surf the internet looking for porn to satisfy their desires to dominate and procreate. Society has gone to the extreme allowing us to experience these things virtually without another person present. This is considered normal. We've become lazy and our desires are not met as they should be.

I know that when I'm in a relationship I would have sex 3 or 4 times a day if it was possible. My desire for the other person sexually is great and I find myself being compelled towards sex.

Communication is the key to our relationship. When it comes to satisfying each other sexually, each must communicate what they want from each other and be spontaneous and open to going for it. Sex is animalistic and should be a natural thing. Not too much thinking should come into it. As a man it is up to us to action and escalate things towards our mutual desire.

There needs not be a taboo when it comes to sex. Society created taboos and I believe it has hurt us more than set ourselves free.

As men we need to take precaution use protection and not fear sex rather we should enjoy it. We must remember that we hold the keys to having great sex and those keys hold the success to the relationship.

Enjoy

Mark

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The Scorpion and the Frog - Nature cannot be changed

One of my favourite stories that talks about the nature inside that cannot be changed. The nature that is in us as human beings who are animal.

The Scorpion and the Frog One day, a scorpion looked around at the mountain where he lived and decided that he wanted a change. So he set out on a journey through the forests and hills. He climbed over rocks and under vines and kept going until he reached a river. 

The river was wide and swift, and the scorpion stopped to reconsider the situation. He couldn't see any way across. So he ran upriver and then checked downriver, all the while thinking that he might have to turn back. Suddenly, he saw a frog sitting in the rushes by the bank of the stream on the other side of the river. He decided to ask the frog for help getting across the stream. 

 "Hellooo Mr. Frog!" called the scorpion across the water, "Would you be so kind as to give me a ride on your back across the river?" 
"Well now, Mr. Scorpion! How do I know that if I try to help you, you wont try to kill me?"asked the frog hesitantly. 
"Because," the scorpion replied, "If I try to kill you, then I would die too, for you see I cannot swim!" Now this seemed to make sense to the frog. But he asked. 
"What about when I get close to the bank? You could still try to kill me and get back to the shore!" 
"This is true," agreed the scorpion, "But then I wouldn't be able to get to the other side of the river!" 
"Alright then...how do I know you wont just wait till we get to the other side and THEN kill me?" said the frog. 
"Ahh...," crooned the scorpion, "Because you see, once you've taken me to the other side of this river, I will be so grateful for your help, that it would hardly be fair to reward you with death, now would it?!"

So the frog agreed to take the scorpion across the river. He swam over to the bank and settled himself near the mud to pick up his passenger. The scorpion crawled onto the frog's back, his sharp claws prickling into the frog's soft hide, and the frog slid into the river. The muddy water swirled around them, but the frog stayed near the surface so the scorpion would not drown. He kicked strongly through the first half of the stream, his flippers paddling wildly against the current. Halfway across the river, the frog suddenly felt a sharp sting in his back and, out of the corner of his eye, saw the scorpion remove his stinger from the frog's back. A deadening numbness began to creep into his limbs. 

"You fool!" croaked the frog, "Now we shall both die! Why on earth did you do that?" The scorpion shrugged, and did a little jig on the drownings frog's back. 
"I could not help myself. It is my nature." Then they both sank into the muddy waters of the swiftly flowing river.

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