Showing posts with label self development. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self development. Show all posts
Wednesday, 18 June 2014
Friday, 6 December 2013
Pimp Mode - Be like Ice
You walk into the bar. Your sex drive is high and you have an air of dominance. In your mind you feel like the king and you want to have sex with a desirable girl. You act like the king. The king does not ask and demands.
I'm laughing so hard at reading this right now and it sounds like some kind of animalistic thing you'd see on the discovery channel. But what I'd like you to do is tap into that sexual energy you have as a man. That energy that gives you focus and intent. The energy which makes you polarising to woman. These women enjoy looking at you in the eyes and feeling that manliness coming out of you. She feels how secure you are about yourself and begins to feel attraction.
You are in pimp mode. If you are working 9-5 job week days and you venture out into the night in the weekend and perhaps occasionally you go mid-week with friends and you want to be good with women, you need to harvest this energy. Expressing confidence and dominance from within yourself. I am Man and I am enough.
5 Tips to Conjure Sexual Confidence and get into Pimp Mode:
1) Stop watching Porn and stop masturbating. This will kill your sexual confidence and will give you terrible side-effects that will kill your drive for a woman.
2) Exercise. Go to the gym or do push-up and sit-ups at home. This increase testosterone which is the hormone in us Men that is linked to our own sex drive.
3) Self Love. There is not a person around you who is better than you. You are a magnet and chicks just love your manliness. Your masculinity makes them wet. Just being in the presence of a woman and looking into her eyes she becomes attracted to you. Harvest these beliefs and know that they are true. Love yourself well and others will too.
4) Eye contact. When you are around attractive girls and communicating with them make sure you are looking at them in the eyes. You are the man, you've got nothing to hide. You are accepted for who you are and you are happy within yourself. She will love looking into your eyes and will become trusting of you.
5) Join a Club/sport/hobbyist group. This will get you outside your head. Being active and about will get you talking to other people. Connecting and conversing. You will be immersed in something you are passionate about and the people you meet will be like-minded sharing that passion.
Men cultivate your sex drive, it is your force with this world. Go forth and be polarising.
I'm laughing so hard at reading this right now and it sounds like some kind of animalistic thing you'd see on the discovery channel. But what I'd like you to do is tap into that sexual energy you have as a man. That energy that gives you focus and intent. The energy which makes you polarising to woman. These women enjoy looking at you in the eyes and feeling that manliness coming out of you. She feels how secure you are about yourself and begins to feel attraction.
You are in pimp mode. If you are working 9-5 job week days and you venture out into the night in the weekend and perhaps occasionally you go mid-week with friends and you want to be good with women, you need to harvest this energy. Expressing confidence and dominance from within yourself. I am Man and I am enough.
5 Tips to Conjure Sexual Confidence and get into Pimp Mode:
1) Stop watching Porn and stop masturbating. This will kill your sexual confidence and will give you terrible side-effects that will kill your drive for a woman.
2) Exercise. Go to the gym or do push-up and sit-ups at home. This increase testosterone which is the hormone in us Men that is linked to our own sex drive.
3) Self Love. There is not a person around you who is better than you. You are a magnet and chicks just love your manliness. Your masculinity makes them wet. Just being in the presence of a woman and looking into her eyes she becomes attracted to you. Harvest these beliefs and know that they are true. Love yourself well and others will too.
4) Eye contact. When you are around attractive girls and communicating with them make sure you are looking at them in the eyes. You are the man, you've got nothing to hide. You are accepted for who you are and you are happy within yourself. She will love looking into your eyes and will become trusting of you.
5) Join a Club/sport/hobbyist group. This will get you outside your head. Being active and about will get you talking to other people. Connecting and conversing. You will be immersed in something you are passionate about and the people you meet will be like-minded sharing that passion.
Men cultivate your sex drive, it is your force with this world. Go forth and be polarising.
Monday, 18 November 2013
High Self Esteem - Key to Success - 10 ways to increase your own Self Esteem
A Man's happiness is his own doing. Attraction is being happy and contempt within yourself as a Man.
A man is happy when he is doing what he enjoys in life and is on the path of happiness. He is solid and robust in himself. He has a fearlessness, goes about being honest and is contempt in speaking his own mind. He connects with others through honesty. He communicate to others what he likes and through doing so remains in High Self Esteem.
No other person can take away a mans happiness, only himself. Protecting his own happiness should be his primary objective. A Man who is happy is a man who is attractive and vibrant.
He holds a good energy within himself that he gives out to the world.
5 tips to raise and keep your Self Esteem high
1) Do the things that give you the most pleasure and joy. Eg. playing sport, going to gym, hanging out with friends.
2) Engage in male banter. Banter is testing each others ego. Ego check for guys. If you have a healthy ego you will remain unchanged and on your path. If you get knocked by banter you are not engaging in banter correctly.
3) Smile and enjoy everything you do. If you aren't enjoying the process of doing something then make it fun and enjoyable for yourself.
4) Listen to music that makes you tap or dance. The music that makes you feel alive inside.
5) Get outside in the sunlight. Sunlight gives our skin Vitamin D important for mental health.
6) Compliment others for things you like about them. eg. Compliment a woman for looking fantastic in your eyes and being desirable to you. Tell a friend something you respect about him in accordance to the way you like to live as well.
7) Do not allow people especially girls to mother you. A man's self esteem is his own. It is important that he is in control of his own self esteem. When someone mothers you, its often their own insecurities coming out onto you. You do what makes you happy. If others are giving you advice this is a red flag. They are trying to control your life or they are in the belief that you are unhappy or threatening their own. Healthy people give advice to others only in the objective of helping others to preserve their own happiness.
8) Be grateful to others who cater to your needs and desires.
9) Preserve your sexual energy and evoke it. You can preserve you sexual energy by not masturbating so much and eating healthy. Things like beer promote more testosterone. Evoke sexual energy by complimenting a woman on how she makes you feel and by enjoying her.
10) Knowledge of self. Know what you like and know what you dislike. The more you know what you like and dislike the more time you spend doing the things you enjoy.
With High Self Esteem you are bullet proof in a world full of people who are very insecure about themselves. When you are secure in yourself that energy is attractive to be around.
Its all about practising Self happiness and going about in the world. As hard as it may sound Nobody cares for you, only you can care for yourself. You should be deeply in love with yourself. Every successful person in life has become successful through the love from themselves. When you love yourself and are secure with yourself you have a greater connection with others who can feel that energy coming off you.
Go forth and enjoy every single thing you do is this world and do everything for yourself.
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A man is happy when he is doing what he enjoys in life and is on the path of happiness. He is solid and robust in himself. He has a fearlessness, goes about being honest and is contempt in speaking his own mind. He connects with others through honesty. He communicate to others what he likes and through doing so remains in High Self Esteem.
No other person can take away a mans happiness, only himself. Protecting his own happiness should be his primary objective. A Man who is happy is a man who is attractive and vibrant.
He holds a good energy within himself that he gives out to the world.
5 tips to raise and keep your Self Esteem high
1) Do the things that give you the most pleasure and joy. Eg. playing sport, going to gym, hanging out with friends.
2) Engage in male banter. Banter is testing each others ego. Ego check for guys. If you have a healthy ego you will remain unchanged and on your path. If you get knocked by banter you are not engaging in banter correctly.
3) Smile and enjoy everything you do. If you aren't enjoying the process of doing something then make it fun and enjoyable for yourself.
4) Listen to music that makes you tap or dance. The music that makes you feel alive inside.
5) Get outside in the sunlight. Sunlight gives our skin Vitamin D important for mental health.
6) Compliment others for things you like about them. eg. Compliment a woman for looking fantastic in your eyes and being desirable to you. Tell a friend something you respect about him in accordance to the way you like to live as well.
7) Do not allow people especially girls to mother you. A man's self esteem is his own. It is important that he is in control of his own self esteem. When someone mothers you, its often their own insecurities coming out onto you. You do what makes you happy. If others are giving you advice this is a red flag. They are trying to control your life or they are in the belief that you are unhappy or threatening their own. Healthy people give advice to others only in the objective of helping others to preserve their own happiness.
8) Be grateful to others who cater to your needs and desires.
9) Preserve your sexual energy and evoke it. You can preserve you sexual energy by not masturbating so much and eating healthy. Things like beer promote more testosterone. Evoke sexual energy by complimenting a woman on how she makes you feel and by enjoying her.
10) Knowledge of self. Know what you like and know what you dislike. The more you know what you like and dislike the more time you spend doing the things you enjoy.
With High Self Esteem you are bullet proof in a world full of people who are very insecure about themselves. When you are secure in yourself that energy is attractive to be around.
Its all about practising Self happiness and going about in the world. As hard as it may sound Nobody cares for you, only you can care for yourself. You should be deeply in love with yourself. Every successful person in life has become successful through the love from themselves. When you love yourself and are secure with yourself you have a greater connection with others who can feel that energy coming off you.
Go forth and enjoy every single thing you do is this world and do everything for yourself.
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Tuesday, 12 November 2013
The Ultimate Goal - Be a Man of Value
Your birth right is to become a Man. Your ultimate quest in life is to become a Man of Value.
To understand what it means to be a Man of Value we need to dig deep and unearth things to gain clarity and understanding.
We have talked about being a Man, we've defines what it is to be a Man and we've discussed about having your needs and desires met.
A Man of Value is a man who lives his life in his own principles, isn't afraid to let others know what they are and is mature and open minded when it comes to other peoples affairs.
He does not get caught up in emotions or gossip for the sake of making others look bad he does not need to engage in that at all.
I have listen to a few dating mentors who have offered valid advice on women and manhood.
They all offer the same advice when taking the journey of becoming a Man of principle.
Traits found in a Man of Value:
1) Believes he is the most important person in the relationship not the woman.
2) Thinks for himself. Does not try to please the woman for his own benefit.
3) Does not lie.
4) Tells the truth. Live fully honest.
5) Is not afraid of what others might think of him.
6) Does not engage in gossip. Has trust of others and is accepting.
7) Does not engage in bad mouthing others.
In the presence of a Woman:
8) Will not discuss past relationships with other women and politely says "I do not talk about other women" and keeps his relationships private. Giving women trust in himself that whatever happens he will not talk to others about what happened.
9) Takes full responsibility of what happens between himself and the woman. From Wearing protections, initiating sex etc. Even explains to her that he is of full responsibility for what ever happens in the interaction.
10) Is not afraid to discipline what he sees to be unfit behaviours of a women in a non-violent way. Also rewards good behaviour which is just as important.
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To understand what it means to be a Man of Value we need to dig deep and unearth things to gain clarity and understanding.
We have talked about being a Man, we've defines what it is to be a Man and we've discussed about having your needs and desires met.
A Man of Value is a man who lives his life in his own principles, isn't afraid to let others know what they are and is mature and open minded when it comes to other peoples affairs.
He does not get caught up in emotions or gossip for the sake of making others look bad he does not need to engage in that at all.
I have listen to a few dating mentors who have offered valid advice on women and manhood.
They all offer the same advice when taking the journey of becoming a Man of principle.
Traits found in a Man of Value:
1) Believes he is the most important person in the relationship not the woman.
2) Thinks for himself. Does not try to please the woman for his own benefit.
3) Does not lie.
4) Tells the truth. Live fully honest.
5) Is not afraid of what others might think of him.
6) Does not engage in gossip. Has trust of others and is accepting.
7) Does not engage in bad mouthing others.
In the presence of a Woman:
8) Will not discuss past relationships with other women and politely says "I do not talk about other women" and keeps his relationships private. Giving women trust in himself that whatever happens he will not talk to others about what happened.
9) Takes full responsibility of what happens between himself and the woman. From Wearing protections, initiating sex etc. Even explains to her that he is of full responsibility for what ever happens in the interaction.
10) Is not afraid to discipline what he sees to be unfit behaviours of a women in a non-violent way. Also rewards good behaviour which is just as important.
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Thursday, 31 October 2013
*Must Read* Stages of Self - Dependence, Independence and Interdependence
We all have a life journey which can be considered very similar. We are born to a Mother and Father who we depend upon. Who teaches us the ways of being. As men our fathers teach us what it is to be a Man and what it means to carry the family name.
Our life has a natural cycle of self and connection with your chosen partner. Alot of Men out there are stuck in dependence and are seeking a relationship with a woman going straight into Interdependence. This is not going to happen. As a Man you have to stand on your own feet. You have to be able to live without a woman and become independent in order to meet a girl who will move you into Interdependence. Interdependence is a relationship where both individuals are independent and come together to share themselves with each other with an understanding that their own happiness is their own responsibility.
Signs of being in Dependence:
- Listening to others opinions
- Caring what others think of you
- Are in group-think
- Does not like being alone
- Seeks comfort in unfamiliar places
Signs of being in Independence:
- Has formed own set of rules in life
- Enjoys his own company
- Loves own self and does not need to be validation
- Feels they are enough
- Fearless
- Makes own decisions
- Leads own life
- Does not think for others
- Believes he is the most important person in his life.
Signs of being in Interdependence:
- Still independent
- Able to make decision for both in the relationship.
- Does not jeopardise own happiness in relationship.
Stages of Life
1st 2nd 3rd
Dependence => Independence => Interdependence
If you are wanting to attract a woman you must be a strong independent man who is on his own path and journey in his life. If you are stuck in dependence you must transform yourself and life into Independence. With Independence comes confidence and belief in ones own self. Love who you are, set boundaries around you, enjoy your own freedom and be in control of your own self. Men who are independent minded are naturally more attractive, safe, secure, likeable, trustworthy, own their what they say, have purpose and have a compass in life. All the qualities and hallmarks of a Man.
Mark
Our life has a natural cycle of self and connection with your chosen partner. Alot of Men out there are stuck in dependence and are seeking a relationship with a woman going straight into Interdependence. This is not going to happen. As a Man you have to stand on your own feet. You have to be able to live without a woman and become independent in order to meet a girl who will move you into Interdependence. Interdependence is a relationship where both individuals are independent and come together to share themselves with each other with an understanding that their own happiness is their own responsibility.
Signs of being in Dependence:
- Listening to others opinions
- Caring what others think of you
- Are in group-think
- Does not like being alone
- Seeks comfort in unfamiliar places
Signs of being in Independence:
- Has formed own set of rules in life
- Enjoys his own company
- Loves own self and does not need to be validation
- Feels they are enough
- Fearless
- Makes own decisions
- Leads own life
- Does not think for others
- Believes he is the most important person in his life.
Signs of being in Interdependence:
- Still independent
- Able to make decision for both in the relationship.
- Does not jeopardise own happiness in relationship.
Stages of Life
1st 2nd 3rd
Dependence => Independence => Interdependence
If you are wanting to attract a woman you must be a strong independent man who is on his own path and journey in his life. If you are stuck in dependence you must transform yourself and life into Independence. With Independence comes confidence and belief in ones own self. Love who you are, set boundaries around you, enjoy your own freedom and be in control of your own self. Men who are independent minded are naturally more attractive, safe, secure, likeable, trustworthy, own their what they say, have purpose and have a compass in life. All the qualities and hallmarks of a Man.
Mark
Monday, 28 October 2013
Always Compliment a Woman - 5 tips to help you become fearless
Guy are attracted by beauty and girls are attracted to how a guy makes them feel. Honesty is the best way forward.
When a guy sees a woman and something about the way she appears to him makes his desires run wild this is a good thing, this is natural.
Somewhere guys thought it was wrong to compliment a woman. I believe if you are genuine and come from a honest place then your compliments will be always spot on.
You like what you see and you let her know what you like about her.
A woman's beauty is a fantastic thing and needs to be admired. Women go to lengths to pretty themselves up for guys.
They make themselves look great for you and you don't even notice? There has to be something wrong when as a Man can't speak his mind.
Let her know what you think about her. Tell her what you like about the way she looks. If you are attracted to her then you let her know! Whatever comes into your mind when you see her come right out and say it to her.
I've only ever had girls blush when I tell them how they look to me. I've never been hit or loud mouthed back. You speak the truth, you have nothing to fear.
Honesty can turn a girl on.
Here are 5 tips to help you when complimenting a woman:
1) Examine her. Take in her beauty.
2) Let her run into your body. Allow your mind to wander and be turned on by her presence.
3) Don't think what she might think about your compliment. Don't second guess yourself. There is no such thing as fear. She is just a woman and you don't need to put her on a pedestal.
4) Tell her what you like about her. Give her that compliment. Compliment is anything that you like about her.
5) Enjoy her and don't fall back on what you say. Own what you've said, no need to defend yourself and if she blushes that's perfect. You've just hit her sweet spot where she doesn't know what to say and her mind has come out of autopilot response.
You should only compliment a woman when it is genuine and when there is something about her that turns you on. Hallow compliments women easily see through. Only give genuine compliments to a woman. Honesty spoken allows great things to happen.
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When a guy sees a woman and something about the way she appears to him makes his desires run wild this is a good thing, this is natural.
Somewhere guys thought it was wrong to compliment a woman. I believe if you are genuine and come from a honest place then your compliments will be always spot on.
You like what you see and you let her know what you like about her.
A woman's beauty is a fantastic thing and needs to be admired. Women go to lengths to pretty themselves up for guys.
They make themselves look great for you and you don't even notice? There has to be something wrong when as a Man can't speak his mind.
Let her know what you think about her. Tell her what you like about the way she looks. If you are attracted to her then you let her know! Whatever comes into your mind when you see her come right out and say it to her.
I've only ever had girls blush when I tell them how they look to me. I've never been hit or loud mouthed back. You speak the truth, you have nothing to fear.
Honesty can turn a girl on.
Here are 5 tips to help you when complimenting a woman:
1) Examine her. Take in her beauty.
2) Let her run into your body. Allow your mind to wander and be turned on by her presence.
3) Don't think what she might think about your compliment. Don't second guess yourself. There is no such thing as fear. She is just a woman and you don't need to put her on a pedestal.
4) Tell her what you like about her. Give her that compliment. Compliment is anything that you like about her.
5) Enjoy her and don't fall back on what you say. Own what you've said, no need to defend yourself and if she blushes that's perfect. You've just hit her sweet spot where she doesn't know what to say and her mind has come out of autopilot response.
You should only compliment a woman when it is genuine and when there is something about her that turns you on. Hallow compliments women easily see through. Only give genuine compliments to a woman. Honesty spoken allows great things to happen.
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Sunday, 27 October 2013
Building Confidence - Self Love
I AM ENOUGH.
This statement is never truer when it comes to gaining respect from others. You must love yourself more than others love you. You are the only person who can love yourself. People who say life is important are right. No one else thinks your life is important only you know it is.
Time is precious. You have little time on this earth so you have to enjoy every minute of it. When you love yourself you demonstrate to others how you want to be treated. A lack of confidence allows others to walk right over you with no hesitation or remorse. They see your value as less than their own. You enjoy any banter and you never lose your self confidence. You are "The Man" you know yourself better than anyone else.
Its not surprising that girls number one attribute in a male is confidence. With self confidence you have less fear and you go for what you want. Having self confidence makes you feel like you are on top of the world. You are always feeling your best.
5 Tips for building self confidence. Do the things you love and make you feel positive.
1) Join a gym or work out at home. It's important for men to be physical and get exercise.
2) Play a sport.
3) Join some kind of club.
4) Eat healthy. Food is huge factor in state of mind.
5) Go out more. Be positive and meet new people. Compliment women tell them what you like about how they look. First impressions count.
The key to confidence is getting out of your head and walking around in a positive mood, allow yourself to appreciate things and communicate to others what you are thinking. Honesty goes a long way. You shouldn't be afraid of what others are thinking. You can only think for yourself.
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Monday, 21 October 2013
Confident Men - Part 1: External Confidence Seeker
Here is part one of the two part articles that I am releasing to my readers about male confidence and the fact that there exists two types. The External Confidence seeker and the Internal Confident Man.
External Confidence Seeker
What you are about to read is the honest truth and will set you free in the world. Once you realise that you fit into this archetype, realise its been programmed into you and you can become aware of what's happening and change things for yourself.
The external confidence seeker is a guy who is reactive to the environment he exists within. He is totally at odds with what is going on around him and reacts to what comes his way. He will not only be emotionally attached to girls, he will believe he can read minds of people and be afraid to speak his own mind to those around him. Because of this he tends to be silent and lash out on those closest to him and loves to complain and vent his frustrations of others. Why?
Because he believes that if he invests his time and money into others, he believes that they owe his for that. He believes giving his resources out to the world makes him entitled by others. There is a huge problem...he doesn't communicate very well so those around him, people view him as being very passive and at times erratic in his mood. If things don't go his way eventually this type of guy gets angry and frustrated.
Girls know that there are guys out there that will buy them what they want to be with them. They know that these guys will try buy their validation as a worth sexual partner and she will happily continue dating this guy for his gifts and money. He will not fulfil her need for his leadership and her sexual desire to be wild. But the most important thing is...he will not be overtly sexual with her. This is bad for him. He won't know if she finds him attractive, he doesn't communicate that he is sexually interested in her and instead acts friendly towards her and turns the girl off sexually or worst of all the girl sees him as an opportunity to use him for his money.
5 things these guys need to know:
1) Don't be afraid of what a woman will say to you.
2) Say whats on your mind and tell them what you are thinking. Honesty!
3) Don't use your money or invest into the girl before you get to know her alot better and that means sexually.
4) Don't be afraid of thinking dirty thoughts about her, she will be thinking the same thing so let her know and unleash her wild side.
5) Compliment her on how she looks and look her up and down like you are studying every part of her body. Allow yourself to be turned on by her. A girl likes a guy who likes the way they look.
Remember: When a guy doesn't communicate or be firm with a woman then she will play up on him. She will order him around and demand respect by disrespecting him and if he doesn't stand up his happiness is in jeopardy. He needs to command respect from her by being upfront and honest while remaining in a controlled state of mind (A man's happiness is his own.) It's not your job to make her happy, its your job to make her feel special and sexy.
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External Confidence Seeker
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| Referred to as The "Nice guy", "The Friend" and the "Beta male". |
The external confidence seeker is a guy who is reactive to the environment he exists within. He is totally at odds with what is going on around him and reacts to what comes his way. He will not only be emotionally attached to girls, he will believe he can read minds of people and be afraid to speak his own mind to those around him. Because of this he tends to be silent and lash out on those closest to him and loves to complain and vent his frustrations of others. Why?
Because he believes that if he invests his time and money into others, he believes that they owe his for that. He believes giving his resources out to the world makes him entitled by others. There is a huge problem...he doesn't communicate very well so those around him, people view him as being very passive and at times erratic in his mood. If things don't go his way eventually this type of guy gets angry and frustrated.
Girls know that there are guys out there that will buy them what they want to be with them. They know that these guys will try buy their validation as a worth sexual partner and she will happily continue dating this guy for his gifts and money. He will not fulfil her need for his leadership and her sexual desire to be wild. But the most important thing is...he will not be overtly sexual with her. This is bad for him. He won't know if she finds him attractive, he doesn't communicate that he is sexually interested in her and instead acts friendly towards her and turns the girl off sexually or worst of all the girl sees him as an opportunity to use him for his money.
5 things these guys need to know:
1) Don't be afraid of what a woman will say to you.
2) Say whats on your mind and tell them what you are thinking. Honesty!
3) Don't use your money or invest into the girl before you get to know her alot better and that means sexually.
4) Don't be afraid of thinking dirty thoughts about her, she will be thinking the same thing so let her know and unleash her wild side.
5) Compliment her on how she looks and look her up and down like you are studying every part of her body. Allow yourself to be turned on by her. A girl likes a guy who likes the way they look.
Remember: When a guy doesn't communicate or be firm with a woman then she will play up on him. She will order him around and demand respect by disrespecting him and if he doesn't stand up his happiness is in jeopardy. He needs to command respect from her by being upfront and honest while remaining in a controlled state of mind (A man's happiness is his own.) It's not your job to make her happy, its your job to make her feel special and sexy.
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Thursday, 17 October 2013
Self Confidence - Critical to any Success
As I am writing this article I have a relaxed smile upon my face thinking of all the things that make life plain and simply good. All the bullshit of life goes way and you think "damn this life is good". Simple is better. I think we always knew that from the very start of our beginning in life. Along the way our mind picks up on things, we absorb the things that defines us. Maturity is knowing thy self and going into the world unafraid pursuing what we want with confidence.
The one problem today is its so damn noisey. As we are bombarded with things through media and other peoples opinions. We begin to buy into what others tell us to be the right way. Our freedom is dictated by external matters and we begin to not know thy self and rely on others opinions of us to form who we are.
It can be great at the top of the world and then one day you will find yourself come crashing down burning crying like a baby who has had his favourite toy stolen from him and wants it back! External gratification is a dangerous thing. Those who seek it can potentially go insane or soon realise its not all that it plays out to be.
You don't have to take my word for it just have a look at celebrities and their relationship with the media. The media makes them gods then the next day takes it all away leaving them to seek more godliness from them. This is not healthy this is insanity built on hype.
Ones self should be a constant. A man must be a constant in his own world and must love himself to receive love from others. How do you define confidence? Well I believe there is two forms of it. One is fleeting and the other is constant. But the paradox is that the constant interacts with a fleeting world and the fleeting interacts with fleeting chance hoping for a constant.
Those men that rely on external sources for confidence run into more problems then those who self generate from within in a constant wave. The two are miles apart in their own quest. First one wants validation and wants to know he is valid in the world externally and the other believes he is valid and goes forth in his own belief that he is enough.
I would like to address both these two forms of confidence (External confidence and Internal confidence) in further articles. In both these artcles you will gain a greater understand of yourself as a man and you will become conscious in yourself. The purpose is for you to learn and become a more fulfilled individual with greater understanding.
Why is Confidence important?
To be able to interact in the world you must have a level of self confidence. Confidence is attractive and magnetic. Real confidence shows to another person that deep down you have a healthy level of love and respect for your own yourself.
I strongly suggest you read The Fountainhead by Ayn Rand as you will probably have one of those aha moments. For those who are not into reading long books then this is not the book for you. Alternatively you can get a copy of the audiobook listen in your down time or dismiss it all together. Ayn Rand is a fantastic advocate of men being in love with themselves first in order to receive love from women. She wrote many books that preach this whole heartedly.
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The one problem today is its so damn noisey. As we are bombarded with things through media and other peoples opinions. We begin to buy into what others tell us to be the right way. Our freedom is dictated by external matters and we begin to not know thy self and rely on others opinions of us to form who we are.
It can be great at the top of the world and then one day you will find yourself come crashing down burning crying like a baby who has had his favourite toy stolen from him and wants it back! External gratification is a dangerous thing. Those who seek it can potentially go insane or soon realise its not all that it plays out to be.
You don't have to take my word for it just have a look at celebrities and their relationship with the media. The media makes them gods then the next day takes it all away leaving them to seek more godliness from them. This is not healthy this is insanity built on hype.
Ones self should be a constant. A man must be a constant in his own world and must love himself to receive love from others. How do you define confidence? Well I believe there is two forms of it. One is fleeting and the other is constant. But the paradox is that the constant interacts with a fleeting world and the fleeting interacts with fleeting chance hoping for a constant.
Those men that rely on external sources for confidence run into more problems then those who self generate from within in a constant wave. The two are miles apart in their own quest. First one wants validation and wants to know he is valid in the world externally and the other believes he is valid and goes forth in his own belief that he is enough.
I would like to address both these two forms of confidence (External confidence and Internal confidence) in further articles. In both these artcles you will gain a greater understand of yourself as a man and you will become conscious in yourself. The purpose is for you to learn and become a more fulfilled individual with greater understanding.
Why is Confidence important?
To be able to interact in the world you must have a level of self confidence. Confidence is attractive and magnetic. Real confidence shows to another person that deep down you have a healthy level of love and respect for your own yourself.
I strongly suggest you read The Fountainhead by Ayn Rand as you will probably have one of those aha moments. For those who are not into reading long books then this is not the book for you. Alternatively you can get a copy of the audiobook listen in your down time or dismiss it all together. Ayn Rand is a fantastic advocate of men being in love with themselves first in order to receive love from women. She wrote many books that preach this whole heartedly.
If you find this article helpful? Pass on the knowledge by sharing and liking this article. Don't forget to subscribe to our RSS feed to receive updates on new articles.
Mark
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