A Man's happiness is his own doing. Attraction is being happy and contempt within yourself as a Man.
A man is happy when he is doing what he enjoys in life and is on the path of happiness. He is solid and robust in himself. He has a fearlessness, goes about being honest and is contempt in speaking his own mind. He connects with others through honesty. He communicate to others what he likes and through doing so remains in High Self Esteem.
No other person can take away a mans happiness, only himself. Protecting his own happiness should be his primary objective. A Man who is happy is a man who is attractive and vibrant.
He holds a good energy within himself that he gives out to the world.
5 tips to raise and keep your Self Esteem high
1) Do the things that give you the most pleasure and joy. Eg. playing sport, going to gym, hanging out with friends.
2) Engage in male banter. Banter is testing each others ego. Ego check for guys. If you have a healthy ego you will remain unchanged and on your path. If you get knocked by banter you are not engaging in banter correctly.
3) Smile and enjoy everything you do. If you aren't enjoying the process of doing something then make it fun and enjoyable for yourself.
4) Listen to music that makes you tap or dance. The music that makes you feel alive inside.
5) Get outside in the sunlight. Sunlight gives our skin Vitamin D important for mental health.
6) Compliment others for things you like about them. eg. Compliment a woman for looking fantastic in your eyes and being desirable to you. Tell a friend something you respect about him in accordance to the way you like to live as well.
7) Do not allow people especially girls to mother you. A man's self esteem is his own. It is important that he is in control of his own self esteem. When someone mothers you, its often their own insecurities coming out onto you. You do what makes you happy. If others are giving you advice this is a red flag. They are trying to control your life or they are in the belief that you are unhappy or threatening their own. Healthy people give advice to others only in the objective of helping others to preserve their own happiness.
8) Be grateful to others who cater to your needs and desires.
9) Preserve your sexual energy and evoke it. You can preserve you sexual energy by not masturbating so much and eating healthy. Things like beer promote more testosterone. Evoke sexual energy by complimenting a woman on how she makes you feel and by enjoying her.
10) Knowledge of self. Know what you like and know what you dislike. The more you know what you like and dislike the more time you spend doing the things you enjoy.
With High Self Esteem you are bullet proof in a world full of people who are very insecure about themselves. When you are secure in yourself that energy is attractive to be around.
Its all about practising Self happiness and going about in the world. As hard as it may sound Nobody cares for you, only you can care for yourself. You should be deeply in love with yourself. Every successful person in life has become successful through the love from themselves. When you love yourself and are secure with yourself you have a greater connection with others who can feel that energy coming off you.
Go forth and enjoy every single thing you do is this world and do everything for yourself.
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