A Man's happiness is his own doing. Attraction is being happy and contempt within yourself as a Man.
A man is happy when he is doing what he enjoys in life and is on the path of happiness. He is solid and robust in himself. He has a fearlessness, goes about being honest and is contempt in speaking his own mind. He connects with others through honesty. He communicate to others what he likes and through doing so remains in High Self Esteem.
No other person can take away a mans happiness, only himself. Protecting his own happiness should be his primary objective. A Man who is happy is a man who is attractive and vibrant.
He holds a good energy within himself that he gives out to the world.
5 tips to raise and keep your Self Esteem high
1) Do the things that give you the most pleasure and joy. Eg. playing sport, going to gym, hanging out with friends.
2) Engage in male banter. Banter is testing each others ego. Ego check for guys. If you have a healthy ego you will remain unchanged and on your path. If you get knocked by banter you are not engaging in banter correctly.
3) Smile and enjoy everything you do. If you aren't enjoying the process of doing something then make it fun and enjoyable for yourself.
4) Listen to music that makes you tap or dance. The music that makes you feel alive inside.
5) Get outside in the sunlight. Sunlight gives our skin Vitamin D important for mental health.
6) Compliment others for things you like about them. eg. Compliment a woman for looking fantastic in your eyes and being desirable to you. Tell a friend something you respect about him in accordance to the way you like to live as well.
7) Do not allow people especially girls to mother you. A man's self esteem is his own. It is important that he is in control of his own self esteem. When someone mothers you, its often their own insecurities coming out onto you. You do what makes you happy. If others are giving you advice this is a red flag. They are trying to control your life or they are in the belief that you are unhappy or threatening their own. Healthy people give advice to others only in the objective of helping others to preserve their own happiness.
8) Be grateful to others who cater to your needs and desires.
9) Preserve your sexual energy and evoke it. You can preserve you sexual energy by not masturbating so much and eating healthy. Things like beer promote more testosterone. Evoke sexual energy by complimenting a woman on how she makes you feel and by enjoying her.
10) Knowledge of self. Know what you like and know what you dislike. The more you know what you like and dislike the more time you spend doing the things you enjoy.
With High Self Esteem you are bullet proof in a world full of people who are very insecure about themselves. When you are secure in yourself that energy is attractive to be around.
Its all about practising Self happiness and going about in the world. As hard as it may sound Nobody cares for you, only you can care for yourself. You should be deeply in love with yourself. Every successful person in life has become successful through the love from themselves. When you love yourself and are secure with yourself you have a greater connection with others who can feel that energy coming off you.
Go forth and enjoy every single thing you do is this world and do everything for yourself.
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Monday, 18 November 2013
Wednesday, 13 November 2013
Act normal - Be Yourself
You might have had that discussion with a Father, Uncle or elder where you ask them the big question: How do you get girls to like me? You get a really mind fucking answer. Be Yourself. Something that girls preach to guys.
I say its a mind fuck because to the nice guys out there it will keep you being the same. To all the asshole and jerks out there. Rock on. You've got more of a chance with being yourself and attracting girls.
In my last article Penis Identity - Formulation of Being a Man we explained the importance knowing what it means to be a Man and I gave out an important exercise to do. If you've not read this article I'd like you to read it.
Be Yourself. What does that mean? It means that you must be a Man and you must show your own character.
Live honest and be the person you are meant to be. Be true to yourself. When it comes to interacting with people be normal. Act normal.
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I say its a mind fuck because to the nice guys out there it will keep you being the same. To all the asshole and jerks out there. Rock on. You've got more of a chance with being yourself and attracting girls.
In my last article Penis Identity - Formulation of Being a Man we explained the importance knowing what it means to be a Man and I gave out an important exercise to do. If you've not read this article I'd like you to read it.
Be Yourself. What does that mean? It means that you must be a Man and you must show your own character.
Live honest and be the person you are meant to be. Be true to yourself. When it comes to interacting with people be normal. Act normal.
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Honesty - The Language of being an Attractive Man
If you were told to only learn just one thing to do well with life and women. It's always be honest. I remember an old acquaintance once told me a story. He told me when he was growing up he admired his grandfather. He had his life in order and was loved by those who cared about him and also had fewer good friends. One day he asked his Grandfather what is the secret to be him. He told him being a Man. Major part of being a Man is being honest.
"You must be able to look a person in the eyes and tell them what you honesty think about them."
I like to think of this as the key to anyone life. Always be honest. People talk about having good body language, improving confidence and being an attractive guy. You might as well forget it. You have to master honesty in order to be a better person. You have to communicate what you are thinking about.
Always be honest! Sometimes you might not say what you are thinking but allow yourself to think it. I know this sounds completely stupid. But media and social pressure can suppress our thoughts.
Allow yourself to have any thoughts. Allow them to surface.
Be honest. If you find this hard? I have an exercise for you.
A day of honesty - Honest exercise
Commit to a day of being honest with the objective of only being honest not being pleasing (only being honest). Speak your mind. Whatever you say stand behind it. If you say you will do something go through with it and do it. Become honest then people trust your character, your consistency and can trust you.
You might realise that you lie alot. You say the exact opposite of what you are thinking. Due to guilt or a fear of being judged. DO NOT HAVE THIS! It not only imprisons you, it imprisons those around you and makes them feel like they can say whatever they are thinking.
The more honest you are the more you find people are exactly the same as you. You realise people are being suppressed and by your very nature of being unfiltered you release them. Suppression leads to anxiety which causes havoc on your body. You will have a much more relaxed life, you will have the people in your life who fulfils yours needs. People who you thought were good friends may drift apart with you naturally and you realise they weren't serving you at all.
Honesty brings out boldness, kindness, genuine compliments, creativity, intelligence, and all the good things. Honesty also tells others what you don't like. Tells other about your own personal boundaries crucial to getting respect from others.
Mark
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"You must be able to look a person in the eyes and tell them what you honesty think about them."
I like to think of this as the key to anyone life. Always be honest. People talk about having good body language, improving confidence and being an attractive guy. You might as well forget it. You have to master honesty in order to be a better person. You have to communicate what you are thinking about.
Always be honest! Sometimes you might not say what you are thinking but allow yourself to think it. I know this sounds completely stupid. But media and social pressure can suppress our thoughts.
Allow yourself to have any thoughts. Allow them to surface.
Be honest. If you find this hard? I have an exercise for you.
A day of honesty - Honest exercise
Commit to a day of being honest with the objective of only being honest not being pleasing (only being honest). Speak your mind. Whatever you say stand behind it. If you say you will do something go through with it and do it. Become honest then people trust your character, your consistency and can trust you.
You might realise that you lie alot. You say the exact opposite of what you are thinking. Due to guilt or a fear of being judged. DO NOT HAVE THIS! It not only imprisons you, it imprisons those around you and makes them feel like they can say whatever they are thinking.
The more honest you are the more you find people are exactly the same as you. You realise people are being suppressed and by your very nature of being unfiltered you release them. Suppression leads to anxiety which causes havoc on your body. You will have a much more relaxed life, you will have the people in your life who fulfils yours needs. People who you thought were good friends may drift apart with you naturally and you realise they weren't serving you at all.
Honesty brings out boldness, kindness, genuine compliments, creativity, intelligence, and all the good things. Honesty also tells others what you don't like. Tells other about your own personal boundaries crucial to getting respect from others.
Mark
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Friday, 11 October 2013
*Controversial* Who cares what the Woman is thinking about
To all the men reading this article I want you to read this all carefully and take in everything being expressed. If you have to read it twice then so be it. The things write are for your knowledge and wisdom. If it feels all new to you and hits you like a bolt of lightning giving you a shock to your core then GOOD!
In the animal kingdom there exists two purposes in life and maybe three if you are lower on the food chain. To Eat, Fuck and run (if you are in danger of getting eaten). Animals are incredible.. They go about doing their thing and they don't seem to exhibit much trouble in their life. They aren't complicated beings like we are. They are simple and they live a life that is uncomplicated and there is only one prick that can ruin it for them and that's us. We use our brains. We change the environment focusing on our own species survival and strength.
What we forget is that we are animal. Its in our DNA. We have brains that make us smarter than other animals yet we are still animal like them. We should only have two things in our mind. Eat and fuck. We don't have to think about running because our ancestors have helped us to the top of the food chain. You could say no that's not true....I have to get an education. I have to work. I have to do this and that. You will find it ultimately leads to being able to eat and fuck.
So when you are going about getting those two things you have to focus and go about doing it. Easy right? You focus in your job and you focus when playing sport yet when it comes to women a guys focus goes wayward or completely out the window. Either fear comes in or a sense of shame in the pursuit of a woman.
To understand this you have to realise that there should not be a senses of shame or fear when in the pursuit of a beautiful desirable woman. You are born to do it! If your father didn't do it you wouldn't have been born and he wouldn't have been born if his father didn't this is just reality of life. I believe you have the right to pursue as many women as you desire however you won't desire alot of them. You simply won't find them attractive. One way or another you won't find some girls attractive. That's natural. If you look at a girl and feel attracted to her you pursue her.
This lead me to my main topic of this write up.
Who cares what she's thinking about. Ok first a little background story.
I remember being young losing sleeping over chasing beautiful young women. I would be a gentlemen and small talk them for awhile, they would walk off in a friendly manner and I'd then chase them around. I began to focusing on courting girls and being more present and creating the action with the girl was the way to fast forward the relationship with a woman. On a subconscious level I didn't know it but I was leading them physically moving them and playful grabbing them in dominant ways with the focus on only myself and having fun. I realise the one thing in the past that was really getting me in my head was listening to the woman. When I listen to the woman I began to try to think about what she was thinking about. It was a complete mind trap.
When it comes to a relationships with women you can only think about one person and that person is YOU! Only you. When a girl asks me something I'd reply to them with "I" statements.
You are the most important person in the interaction after all you are the one who the survival of the species depends on. Don't forget that. You are the most important person in the interaction and deep down every girl know this. You just have to believe this and go forth getting her. You are more valuable than her.
When I began to not listen to girls and signalling to them that i'm the most important person within the interaction I began to have way more fun. I was able to lead interaction towards what a man and woman ultimately want each other for...Sex.
In your mind you should look at a desirable girl just like you look at a yummy looking bit of steak. You start cooking it and you think about how its going to taste when you are devouring it. When its cooked enough you then eat. Simple right?
Apply the same thing to women. You see her. You desire her. You go about getting her. You focus and you get. Just like that piece of Steak. You lead the steak to the BBQ. You cook it and then you eat it. The steak won't cook itself for you and jump on your plate. You have to do the work for yourself and the steak becomes tasty for you. The girl is not different.
When you focus on the girl you get her by not listening to what she says. I would say that the majority of what a girl says is entirely based on her emotional state and depending on how she feels. But I don't know what a girl is thinking about and as a man neither should you we are not females. You have to focus on what you want to do with her and slowly or adventurously go forth getting towards that plan. Now don't think for a second that she does know you are pursuing her. Girls know you are so just enjoy the process and go through with it. ITS EXPECTED OF YOU!
PS. If a girl says No and really doesn't like you don't worry about it. She's not that kind of steak that you are after. Move on you've got genes to spread!
All the best
Mark
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In the animal kingdom there exists two purposes in life and maybe three if you are lower on the food chain. To Eat, Fuck and run (if you are in danger of getting eaten). Animals are incredible.. They go about doing their thing and they don't seem to exhibit much trouble in their life. They aren't complicated beings like we are. They are simple and they live a life that is uncomplicated and there is only one prick that can ruin it for them and that's us. We use our brains. We change the environment focusing on our own species survival and strength.
What we forget is that we are animal. Its in our DNA. We have brains that make us smarter than other animals yet we are still animal like them. We should only have two things in our mind. Eat and fuck. We don't have to think about running because our ancestors have helped us to the top of the food chain. You could say no that's not true....I have to get an education. I have to work. I have to do this and that. You will find it ultimately leads to being able to eat and fuck.
So when you are going about getting those two things you have to focus and go about doing it. Easy right? You focus in your job and you focus when playing sport yet when it comes to women a guys focus goes wayward or completely out the window. Either fear comes in or a sense of shame in the pursuit of a woman.
To understand this you have to realise that there should not be a senses of shame or fear when in the pursuit of a beautiful desirable woman. You are born to do it! If your father didn't do it you wouldn't have been born and he wouldn't have been born if his father didn't this is just reality of life. I believe you have the right to pursue as many women as you desire however you won't desire alot of them. You simply won't find them attractive. One way or another you won't find some girls attractive. That's natural. If you look at a girl and feel attracted to her you pursue her.
This lead me to my main topic of this write up.
Who cares what she's thinking about. Ok first a little background story.
I remember being young losing sleeping over chasing beautiful young women. I would be a gentlemen and small talk them for awhile, they would walk off in a friendly manner and I'd then chase them around. I began to focusing on courting girls and being more present and creating the action with the girl was the way to fast forward the relationship with a woman. On a subconscious level I didn't know it but I was leading them physically moving them and playful grabbing them in dominant ways with the focus on only myself and having fun. I realise the one thing in the past that was really getting me in my head was listening to the woman. When I listen to the woman I began to try to think about what she was thinking about. It was a complete mind trap.
When it comes to a relationships with women you can only think about one person and that person is YOU! Only you. When a girl asks me something I'd reply to them with "I" statements.
You are the most important person in the interaction after all you are the one who the survival of the species depends on. Don't forget that. You are the most important person in the interaction and deep down every girl know this. You just have to believe this and go forth getting her. You are more valuable than her.
When I began to not listen to girls and signalling to them that i'm the most important person within the interaction I began to have way more fun. I was able to lead interaction towards what a man and woman ultimately want each other for...Sex.
In your mind you should look at a desirable girl just like you look at a yummy looking bit of steak. You start cooking it and you think about how its going to taste when you are devouring it. When its cooked enough you then eat. Simple right?
Apply the same thing to women. You see her. You desire her. You go about getting her. You focus and you get. Just like that piece of Steak. You lead the steak to the BBQ. You cook it and then you eat it. The steak won't cook itself for you and jump on your plate. You have to do the work for yourself and the steak becomes tasty for you. The girl is not different.
When you focus on the girl you get her by not listening to what she says. I would say that the majority of what a girl says is entirely based on her emotional state and depending on how she feels. But I don't know what a girl is thinking about and as a man neither should you we are not females. You have to focus on what you want to do with her and slowly or adventurously go forth getting towards that plan. Now don't think for a second that she does know you are pursuing her. Girls know you are so just enjoy the process and go through with it. ITS EXPECTED OF YOU!
PS. If a girl says No and really doesn't like you don't worry about it. She's not that kind of steak that you are after. Move on you've got genes to spread!
All the best
Mark
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