Showing posts with label Women. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Women. Show all posts

Saturday, 30 November 2013

Qualities of a Relationship Worthy Woman - The One you want to lock-in

Men are alot more simple than women in needs. The quality of a woman all comes down to the way she treats you as a Man. The one quality that makes a woman of high value to her man is how she respects him. Its the respect she shows towards him that makes her extremely worthy to a Man.

I always believe a woman tests you all the time. She tests for your strength and for your presence. When a Man demands respect from his woman she respects him. He must respect himself in order to demand respect from her. 

Here are a list of the most important things we look for in women who are relationship potential:

1) Respect: She respects him greatly and does not test him too much. Makes her more feminine to him which makes him very attracted towards her.

2) Trust: She trusts him and never questions his own freedom. She allows him to go about doing what he enjoys and encourages him.

3) Nurturing and caring: She is nurturing and caring towards others. this quality is something us men find worthy in a woman and when we see it we feel that she would be a good mother to our children.

4) Social circle: A womans social circle tells alot about her to us. When it comes to having a relationship a woman that has a healthy social circle is attractive. If she has a social circle and hangs out with alot of males we don't find her worthy of being a girlfriend unless she changes.


Wednesday, 20 November 2013

Never Stop Admiring the Beauty of a Woman

A healthy man is attracted to the beauty of a woman. How many times can you recall seeing or talking to a woman and being in awe of her beauty. The way she looks and the way she smells. Her beauty and her feminine energy radiating off of her. But you refuse to see and feel her within you. You disregard and ignore the feeling rather than tap into it and utilise that sexual feeling you are having towards her and enjoy her.

Whether you are single, married, or in a relationship you should never stop admiring the beauty of a woman. I believe if you do, you die a little inside. Men were born to sow their seeds in many different fields and it does not mean we have to, yet we must understand that our minds are programmed to seek out and explore other women.

Women like to be desired by Men. They spend alot of time making themselves look pretty and beautiful. They want to attract you!

Women work hard for the attention of a Man. Every healthy women loves a genuine compliment from a Man.

So I'm telling you this for your own good.

Never stop admiring the beauty of a Woman.

Wednesday, 6 November 2013

SEX - The most important thing in a relationship



As men we are very black and white when it comes to expressing what we feel. We tell things straight up and don't beat around the bush. Well some of us! There are those who lie, who make things alot more confusing in a relationship. Then there are women. The one thing you learn with women is what they are saying isn't necessarily exactly what is reality. They come at things on an emotional level which changes like the wind. There is usually a deeper level and that deeper level is connected to SEX.

The one thing that solves relationships and makes things harmonious is SEX. Long passionate, filth rough, intimate slow, cheeky and daring. SEX solves everything in a relationship. I would say it solves 99% of the problems. When couples argue they talk about things that don't really matter very much. They beat around the bush and don't talk about SEX.

If you have ever been in a disruptive relationship where both are at each others throat arguing and bickering then next minute break out into passionate sex which rinses clear things until the next arguement.



We seek to fulfil our sexual desires by other means. Women watch what we consider to be junk television, getting their fix of drama and fantasy. While us men surf the internet looking for porn to satisfy their desires to dominate and procreate. Society has gone to the extreme allowing us to experience these things virtually without another person present. This is considered normal. We've become lazy and our desires are not met as they should be.

I know that when I'm in a relationship I would have sex 3 or 4 times a day if it was possible. My desire for the other person sexually is great and I find myself being compelled towards sex.

Communication is the key to our relationship. When it comes to satisfying each other sexually, each must communicate what they want from each other and be spontaneous and open to going for it. Sex is animalistic and should be a natural thing. Not too much thinking should come into it. As a man it is up to us to action and escalate things towards our mutual desire.

There needs not be a taboo when it comes to sex. Society created taboos and I believe it has hurt us more than set ourselves free.

As men we need to take precaution use protection and not fear sex rather we should enjoy it. We must remember that we hold the keys to having great sex and those keys hold the success to the relationship.

Enjoy

Mark

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Monday, 28 October 2013

Always Compliment a Woman - 5 tips to help you become fearless

Guy are attracted by beauty and girls are attracted to how a guy makes them feel. Honesty is the best way forward.

When a guy sees a woman and something about the way she appears to him makes his desires run wild this is a good thing, this is natural.

Somewhere guys thought it was wrong to compliment a woman. I believe if you are genuine and come from a honest place then your compliments will be always spot on.

You like what you see and you let her know what you like about her.

A woman's beauty is a fantastic thing and needs to be admired. Women go to lengths to pretty themselves up for guys.

They make themselves look great for you and you don't even notice? There has to be something wrong when as a Man can't speak his mind.

Let her know what you think about her. Tell her what you like about the way she looks. If you are attracted to her then you let her know! Whatever comes into your mind when you see her come right out and say it to her.

I've only ever had girls blush when I tell them how they look to me. I've never been hit or loud mouthed back. You speak the truth, you have nothing to fear.

Honesty can turn a girl on.


Here are 5 tips to help you when complimenting a woman:

1) Examine her. Take in her beauty.

2) Let her run into your body. Allow your mind to wander and be turned on by her presence.

3) Don't think what she might think about your compliment. Don't second guess yourself. There is no such thing as fear. She is just a woman and you don't need to put her on a pedestal. 

4) Tell her what you like about her. Give her that compliment. Compliment is anything that you like about her.

5) Enjoy her and don't fall back on what you say. Own what you've said, no need to defend yourself and if she blushes that's perfect. You've just hit her sweet spot where she doesn't know what to say and her mind has come out of autopilot response.

You should only compliment a woman when it is genuine and when there is something about her that turns you on. Hallow compliments women easily see through. Only give genuine compliments to a woman. Honesty spoken allows great things to happen.

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Thursday, 24 October 2013

The Rules of meeting

As males with testosterone pumping through our body when it comes to meeting a girl we act like a bull behind a gate already to unleash ourselves on them. We want to get the girl right away and bed her as soon as possible. This can be detrimental when it comes to getting with woman.
We forget our manners. We forget she's a person. We also forget she's got things other than you on her mind. 

When meeting a woman for the first time you have to always be considerate towards her while directing her towards your ultimate goal of being with her. When your mum said that manners are important. She was right. Particularly when you meet an attractive girl for the first time. You meet her, you then talk to her and then you direct her by giving your number and telling her what you'd like to do next with her. Then she has the power to pursuit you if she liked you.

1)Meet
Hi my name is.... 

2)Talk
I couldn't help take my eyes off you and had to come say hello.

3)Direct
Here is my number I'd like to hang out with you some time. Enjoy the rest of your evening.

Simple and authentic. Doing this makes a statement and takes away any games that girls like to play with a guy.

Mark

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Learn to say No - The importance of boundaries

You are obligated to live a fulfilled life according to you own needs and desires. Knowledge of your needs and wants is knowing thy self. Knowledge of what you want and what you don't want. This is crucial to being a Man. For he who knows what he wants focuses on them and forgets the rest.

Saying no is crucial when interacting in the world. Achieving your desired outcome happens by focusing on the goal and moving towards that goal and sticking to the path you originally set out. As men you live in no grey zone. You live in Black and white. Clear cut.

Knowledge of needs and desires = Knowledge of self = Act towards fulfilment of desires

If the desire is towards a woman and it is not met. The process starts again with the pursuit of the desires being met by another woman who wants the same desires as you.
Abundance is the correct mentality. You don't force something to happen. It requires both to have the same desire and need to make the natural click.

You want a Ferrari, you walk into a car yard selling Honda's you have lost already. You want a Ferrari you go to the dealership that sells Ferraris. Or else you will be sold a Honda and you have to deal with the fact that it wasn't what you wanted. This should be a fail. However you might walk into a dealership that sells both Ferrari's and Honda's.
"Sir we have a great Honda Civic that you can drive away today"
"No I have come to look at your Ferrari's"
"Ahh ok then please come this way sir"

Man to Woman communication.

You: "Wow you a god damn sexy" give her a twirl
Her: "How about you buy me a drink"
You: "No I'm not buying you a drink..we are having a dance"
If she follows your lead. You know she likes you. If She doesn't and resists you. You walk. She's not the girl you need. You've heard that cliché before. Watch out she's taking you for your money. These girls exist. They prey on guys who give them things. You refuse to be one of these men by saying no and having boundaries. A woman wants a man who has these boundaries because she can respect him.

Know what you want from any relationship with a woman and go forth to the path of fulfilment. Don't forget that she is just like you. She has the same wants and desires. Man to woman communication is always towards sex. Both Men and Women have the driving need for sex. A woman might have wants for others things to fulfil her own happiness. This is her own pursuit endeavour . Your job is to only focus on the need for sex that you both have. Its your job to make her feel special by treating her as woman who has that need.

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Saturday, 19 October 2013

Equality and effect on Men in society

When it comes to attraction beauty is in the eye of the beholder. A man will like the look of one woman and another man will not. We are animals and our instincts run deep within our own DNA. However in a society where Men are becoming less dominant and where women are becoming more dominant some men are suffering silently. Genetically Men and women are different. Their purpose for living are different. Men are born to procreate or sow the seed and women are born to nurture the offspring. Both Men and Women enjoy sex for pleasure and each derive fulfilment from partaking in the act of good sex.

Society today has become very pro female and more and more Men are being forgotten or overlooked. This hurts the males of the future in the way that their minds develop and the way they are taught to interact with the opposite sex.

Equality gave females the rights that men are given from birth. Facts are there are more single women today who are suffering from anxiety and depression than there has ever been since equality was placed in society. Now I don't want to come off as being a female hater because I am anything but one. I love females very much so. But it is apparent that some things are not working in harmony with the way they are supposed to. Rather than being equals women have become more powerful than men. Women have more rights than men particularly when it comes to parenthood or marriage divorce. This isn't just hurting men its hurt women.

Studies into primitive tribes who still exist today show that they are much more happier and functional than our own modern social structure. These tribes live in a harmony between tradition and simple structure. Manhood is gained when a boy reaches puberty, is taken away from the family environment, goes through traditional men only rituals and set forth to fend for himself and create a family of this own. In a western society we lack this structure and often males never reach Manhood and don't understand what it is to be a man operating in the world creating his own reality.

The battling of equality creates alot of friction between the sexes when the fact remains that our biology is unchanged. Women give birth and nurture the young and men are the providers. However this being said with equality parenthood has changed. Both parents work, sending their kids to someone else to look after and raise them and his can cause dysfunction to that child in itself. That's a whole other topic and I don't want to touch on that.

If you have a view on anything raised in this article please leave a comment.

Regard
Mark

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Thursday, 17 October 2013

Self Confidence - Critical to any Success

As I am writing this article I have a relaxed smile upon my face thinking of all the things that make life plain and simply good. All the bullshit of life goes way and you think "damn this life is good". Simple is better. I think we always knew that from the very start of our beginning in life. Along the way our mind picks up on things, we absorb the things that defines us. Maturity is knowing thy self and going into the world unafraid pursuing what we want with confidence.

The one problem today is its so damn noisey. As we are bombarded with things through media and other peoples opinions. We begin to buy into what others tell us to be the right way. Our freedom is dictated by external matters and we begin to not know thy self and rely on others opinions of us to form who we are.

It can be great at the top of the world and then one day you will find yourself come crashing down burning crying like a baby who has had his favourite toy stolen from him and wants it back! External gratification is a dangerous thing. Those who seek it can potentially go insane or soon realise its not all that it plays out to be.

You don't have to take my word for it just have a look at celebrities and their relationship with the media. The media makes them gods then the next day takes it all away leaving them to seek more godliness from them. This is not healthy this is insanity built on hype.

Ones self should be a constant. A man must be a constant in his own world and must love himself to receive love from others. How do you define confidence? Well I believe there is two forms of it. One is fleeting and the other is constant. But the paradox is that the constant interacts with a fleeting world and the fleeting interacts with fleeting chance hoping for a constant.

Those men that rely on external sources for confidence run into more problems then those who self generate from within in a constant wave. The two are miles apart in their own quest. First one wants validation and wants to know he is valid in the world externally and the other believes he is valid and goes forth in his own belief that he is enough.

I would like to address both these two forms of confidence (External confidence and Internal confidence) in further articles. In both these artcles you will gain a greater understand of yourself as a man and you will become conscious in yourself. The purpose is for you to learn and become a more fulfilled individual with greater understanding.

Why is Confidence important?
To be able to interact in the world you must have a level of self confidence. Confidence is attractive and magnetic. Real confidence shows to another person that deep down you have a healthy level of love and respect for your own yourself.

I strongly suggest you read The Fountainhead by Ayn Rand as you will probably have one of those aha moments. For those who are not into reading long books then this is not the book for you. Alternatively you can get a copy of the audiobook listen in your down time or dismiss it all together. Ayn Rand is a fantastic advocate of men being in love with themselves first in order to receive love from women. She wrote many books that preach this whole heartedly.

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Mark

Friday, 11 October 2013

*Controversial* Who cares what the Woman is thinking about

To all the men reading this article I want you to read this all carefully and take in everything being expressed. If you have to read it twice then so be it. The things write are for your knowledge and wisdom. If it feels all new to you and hits you like a bolt of lightning giving you a shock to your core then GOOD!

In the animal kingdom there exists two purposes in life and maybe three if you are lower on the food chain. To Eat, Fuck and run (if you are in danger of getting eaten). Animals are incredible.. They go about doing their thing and they don't seem to exhibit much trouble in their life. They aren't complicated beings like we are. They are simple and they live a life that is uncomplicated and there is only one prick that can ruin it for them and that's us. We use our brains. We change the environment focusing on our own species survival and strength.

What we forget is that we are animal. Its in our DNA. We have brains that make us smarter than other animals yet we are still animal like them. We should only have two things in our mind.  Eat and fuck. We don't have to think about running because our ancestors have helped us to the top of the food chain. You could say no that's not true....I have to get an education. I have to work. I have to do this and that. You will find it ultimately leads to being able to eat and fuck.

So when you are going about getting those two things you have to focus and go about doing it. Easy right? You focus in your job and you focus when playing sport yet when it comes to women a guys focus goes wayward or completely out the window. Either fear comes in or a sense of shame in the pursuit of a woman.

To understand this you have to realise that there should not be a senses of shame or fear when in the pursuit of a beautiful desirable woman. You are born to do it! If your father didn't do it you wouldn't have been born and he wouldn't have been born if his father didn't this is just reality of life. I believe you have the right to pursue as many women as you desire however you won't desire alot of them. You simply won't find them attractive. One way or another you won't find some girls attractive. That's natural. If you look at a girl and feel attracted to her you pursue her.

This lead me to my main topic of this write up.

Who cares what she's thinking about. Ok first a little background story.

I remember being young losing sleeping over chasing beautiful young women. I would be a gentlemen and small talk them for awhile, they would walk off in a friendly manner and I'd then chase them around. I began to focusing on courting girls and being more present and creating the action with the girl was the way to fast forward the relationship with a woman. On a subconscious level I didn't know it but I was leading them physically moving them and playful grabbing them in dominant ways with the focus on only myself and having fun. I realise the one thing in the past that was really getting me in my head was listening to the woman. When I listen to the woman I began to try to think about what she was thinking about. It was a complete mind trap.
When it comes to a relationships with women you can only think about one person and that person is YOU! Only you. When a girl asks me something I'd reply to them with "I" statements.
You are the most important person in the interaction after all you are the one who the survival of the species depends on. Don't forget that. You are the most important person in the interaction and deep down every girl know this. You just have to believe this and go forth getting her. You are more valuable than her.

When I began to not listen to girls and signalling to them that i'm the most important person within the interaction I began to have way more fun. I was able to lead interaction towards what a man and woman ultimately want each other for...Sex.

In your mind you should look at a desirable girl just like you look at a yummy looking bit of steak. You start cooking it and you think about how its going to taste when you are devouring it. When its cooked enough you then eat. Simple right?
Apply the same thing to women. You see her. You desire her. You go about getting her. You focus and you get. Just like that piece of Steak. You lead the steak to the BBQ. You cook it and then you eat it. The steak won't cook itself for you and jump on your plate. You have to do the work for yourself and the steak becomes tasty for you. The girl is not different.

When you focus on the girl you get her by not listening to what she says. I would say that the majority of what a girl says is entirely based on her emotional state and depending on how she feels. But I don't know what a girl is thinking about and as a man neither should you we are not females. You have to focus on what you want to do with her and slowly or adventurously go forth getting towards that plan. Now don't think for a second that she does know you are pursuing her. Girls know you are so just enjoy the process and go through with it. ITS EXPECTED OF YOU!

PS. If a girl says No and really doesn't like you don't worry about it. She's not that kind of steak that you are after. Move on you've got genes to spread!

All the best
Mark

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