To all the men reading this article I want you to read this all carefully and take in everything being expressed. If you have to read it twice then so be it. The things write are for your knowledge and wisdom. If it feels all new to you and hits you like a bolt of lightning giving you a shock to your core then GOOD!
In the animal kingdom there exists two purposes in life and maybe three if you are lower on the food chain. To Eat, Fuck and run (if you are in danger of getting eaten). Animals are incredible.. They go about doing their thing and they don't seem to exhibit much trouble in their life. They aren't complicated beings like we are. They are simple and they live a life that is uncomplicated and there is only one prick that can ruin it for them and that's us. We use our brains. We change the environment focusing on our own species survival and strength.
What we forget is that we are animal. Its in our DNA. We have brains that make us smarter than other animals yet we are still animal like them. We should only have two things in our mind. Eat and fuck. We don't have to think about running because our ancestors have helped us to the top of the food chain. You could say no that's not true....I have to get an education. I have to work. I have to do this and that. You will find it ultimately leads to being able to eat and fuck.
So when you are going about getting those two things you have to focus and go about doing it. Easy right? You focus in your job and you focus when playing sport yet when it comes to women a guys focus goes wayward or completely out the window. Either fear comes in or a sense of shame in the pursuit of a woman.
To understand this you have to realise that there should not be a senses of shame or fear when in the pursuit of a beautiful desirable woman. You are born to do it! If your father didn't do it you wouldn't have been born and he wouldn't have been born if his father didn't this is just reality of life. I believe you have the right to pursue as many women as you desire however you won't desire alot of them. You simply won't find them attractive. One way or another you won't find some girls attractive. That's natural. If you look at a girl and feel attracted to her you pursue her.
This lead me to my main topic of this write up.
Who cares what she's thinking about. Ok first a little background story.
I remember being young losing sleeping over chasing beautiful young women. I would be a gentlemen and small talk them for awhile, they would walk off in a friendly manner and I'd then chase them around. I began to focusing on courting girls and being more present and creating the action with the girl was the way to fast forward the relationship with a woman. On a subconscious level I didn't know it but I was leading them physically moving them and playful grabbing them in dominant ways with the focus on only myself and having fun. I realise the one thing in the past that was really getting me in my head was listening to the woman. When I listen to the woman I began to try to think about what she was thinking about. It was a complete mind trap.
When it comes to a relationships with women you can only think about one person and that person is YOU! Only you. When a girl asks me something I'd reply to them with "I" statements.
You are the most important person in the interaction after all you are the one who the survival of the species depends on. Don't forget that. You are the most important person in the interaction and deep down every girl know this. You just have to believe this and go forth getting her. You are more valuable than her.
When I began to not listen to girls and signalling to them that i'm the most important person within the interaction I began to have way more fun. I was able to lead interaction towards what a man and woman ultimately want each other for...Sex.
In your mind you should look at a desirable girl just like you look at a yummy looking bit of steak. You start cooking it and you think about how its going to taste when you are devouring it. When its cooked enough you then eat. Simple right?
Apply the same thing to women. You see her. You desire her. You go about getting her. You focus and you get. Just like that piece of Steak. You lead the steak to the BBQ. You cook it and then you eat it. The steak won't cook itself for you and jump on your plate. You have to do the work for yourself and the steak becomes tasty for you. The girl is not different.
When you focus on the girl you get her by not listening to what she says. I would say that the majority of what a girl says is entirely based on her emotional state and depending on how she feels. But I don't know what a girl is thinking about and as a man neither should you we are not females. You have to focus on what you want to do with her and slowly or adventurously go forth getting towards that plan. Now don't think for a second that she does know you are pursuing her. Girls know you are so just enjoy the process and go through with it. ITS EXPECTED OF YOU!
PS. If a girl says No and really doesn't like you don't worry about it. She's not that kind of steak that you are after. Move on you've got genes to spread!
All the best
Mark
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