As I am writing this I am thinking of all the simple things I want to tell you to "Get a Girl". But I'd be an idiot if I didn't start with one simple question. WHAT DO YOU WANT?
Do you want a girlfriend, a friend relationship with benefits, a wife or do you want a one night stand?
This is incredibly important. Why?
I believe the more you know what you want in life in general the more you can direct your own choices and destiny. YOU become the leader of your own life!
SO..What do you want from the woman? For you to be attracted to that woman you are after what are the qualities she has for your liking?
Physical qualities: eg. Big hips, Big Breasts, Brown hair, long legs.
Energy qualities: eg. Excitable, relaxed, adventurous, high energy.
When you know what you want in a woman and become conscious of looking for it, when you see her you get turned on. Your mind says "There she is...shes mine" you become horny. Because of this I believe you are more likely to take action. When the animal brain takes over it wants the girl and doesn't think too much else!
What do you want the woman for?
This is a huge question! I don't think enough guys think about this one well enough. I know I do. I WANT HER FOR SEX.
I'd like to think I'm pretty good at most things and I don't need her to tell me what to do.
I like it when a girl cooks for me. I like it when a girl gives me a massage after a workout or a game of sport. I like a girl that does things for me. BUT... I like a girl for one primary reason.. I'm attracted to her and want to FUCK her.
Too many guys make the mistake of going for a girl subtly having the want for sex rather than driving that car that has sex all over it! I mean to say that you need to be HONEST with a girl.
When you are honest you lead her. Every girl stresses the same thing about a guy...he needs to communicate better.
Yeah it's true we speak less words daily than women do. I like to think we do because we are more direct and upfront in our dialogue and don't beat around the bush with things. To be a good communicator to a woman doesn't take rocket science or massive amount of brain power. When you know what you want you direct your life and you communicate better to others and particularly to women.
I'm going to keep it simple here fellow brothers. Learn what you like and what you don't like.
Know what you want in a woman. Keep it simple. If you are not sure then you better work harder than the rest of us and get out there and experience the women only then will you begin to understand what you are after.
5 things you should do for yourself:
1) Make a list of physical qualities you like in a woman
2) Make a list of character qualities you like in a woman?
3) Ask yourself what you want a girl for right now and remember this can change.
4) Don't be scared to communicate your intentions to the girl and what you like about her be it physical or character based. Make a statement of observation then pursuit past it.
5) Refine from the above and become clear as to What you are after in a woman.
Now once you've done this you can be conscious and clear about the type of woman you want and go get her unapologetically knowing she's your type.
Mark
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Now moved to www.realmanmindset.com I started writing this blog to help guys better their own lives. I share the things I know to be true. Internalising what I'm saying and you can enjoy your own success. To the critical minded please discreetly fuck off. I have no time for anyone not willing to listen and learn. You have to understand that in order for you to progress, it involves your trust and with new knowledge. Mistakes are natural and a huge part of the process. Best wishes Mark
Wednesday, 9 October 2013
What do you want? 5 Things you should think about before going after any girl
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Attracting women,
Attraction,
Being a Man,
dating females,
Men,
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