Now moved to www.realmanmindset.com I started writing this blog to help guys better their own lives. I share the things I know to be true. Internalising what I'm saying and you can enjoy your own success. To the critical minded please discreetly fuck off. I have no time for anyone not willing to listen and learn. You have to understand that in order for you to progress, it involves your trust and with new knowledge. Mistakes are natural and a huge part of the process. Best wishes Mark
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Friday, 6 December 2013
Pimp Mode - Be like Ice
You walk into the bar. Your sex drive is high and you have an air of dominance. In your mind you feel like the king and you want to have sex with a desirable girl. You act like the king. The king does not ask and demands.
I'm laughing so hard at reading this right now and it sounds like some kind of animalistic thing you'd see on the discovery channel. But what I'd like you to do is tap into that sexual energy you have as a man. That energy that gives you focus and intent. The energy which makes you polarising to woman. These women enjoy looking at you in the eyes and feeling that manliness coming out of you. She feels how secure you are about yourself and begins to feel attraction.
You are in pimp mode. If you are working 9-5 job week days and you venture out into the night in the weekend and perhaps occasionally you go mid-week with friends and you want to be good with women, you need to harvest this energy. Expressing confidence and dominance from within yourself. I am Man and I am enough.
5 Tips to Conjure Sexual Confidence and get into Pimp Mode:
1) Stop watching Porn and stop masturbating. This will kill your sexual confidence and will give you terrible side-effects that will kill your drive for a woman.
2) Exercise. Go to the gym or do push-up and sit-ups at home. This increase testosterone which is the hormone in us Men that is linked to our own sex drive.
3) Self Love. There is not a person around you who is better than you. You are a magnet and chicks just love your manliness. Your masculinity makes them wet. Just being in the presence of a woman and looking into her eyes she becomes attracted to you. Harvest these beliefs and know that they are true. Love yourself well and others will too.
4) Eye contact. When you are around attractive girls and communicating with them make sure you are looking at them in the eyes. You are the man, you've got nothing to hide. You are accepted for who you are and you are happy within yourself. She will love looking into your eyes and will become trusting of you.
5) Join a Club/sport/hobbyist group. This will get you outside your head. Being active and about will get you talking to other people. Connecting and conversing. You will be immersed in something you are passionate about and the people you meet will be like-minded sharing that passion.
Men cultivate your sex drive, it is your force with this world. Go forth and be polarising.
I'm laughing so hard at reading this right now and it sounds like some kind of animalistic thing you'd see on the discovery channel. But what I'd like you to do is tap into that sexual energy you have as a man. That energy that gives you focus and intent. The energy which makes you polarising to woman. These women enjoy looking at you in the eyes and feeling that manliness coming out of you. She feels how secure you are about yourself and begins to feel attraction.
You are in pimp mode. If you are working 9-5 job week days and you venture out into the night in the weekend and perhaps occasionally you go mid-week with friends and you want to be good with women, you need to harvest this energy. Expressing confidence and dominance from within yourself. I am Man and I am enough.
5 Tips to Conjure Sexual Confidence and get into Pimp Mode:
1) Stop watching Porn and stop masturbating. This will kill your sexual confidence and will give you terrible side-effects that will kill your drive for a woman.
2) Exercise. Go to the gym or do push-up and sit-ups at home. This increase testosterone which is the hormone in us Men that is linked to our own sex drive.
3) Self Love. There is not a person around you who is better than you. You are a magnet and chicks just love your manliness. Your masculinity makes them wet. Just being in the presence of a woman and looking into her eyes she becomes attracted to you. Harvest these beliefs and know that they are true. Love yourself well and others will too.
4) Eye contact. When you are around attractive girls and communicating with them make sure you are looking at them in the eyes. You are the man, you've got nothing to hide. You are accepted for who you are and you are happy within yourself. She will love looking into your eyes and will become trusting of you.
5) Join a Club/sport/hobbyist group. This will get you outside your head. Being active and about will get you talking to other people. Connecting and conversing. You will be immersed in something you are passionate about and the people you meet will be like-minded sharing that passion.
Men cultivate your sex drive, it is your force with this world. Go forth and be polarising.
Thursday, 24 October 2013
The Lion - Rules of Attraction
The qualities of a Lion are admirable. He is the king of his pride and he only eats and has sex with any of the females who fulfil his need. He runs the pride based on his presence. He doesn't even need to hunt for his food, he has his females to do that for him. This is the kingdom of the animal. This is the way of life.
We forget that we are no different. We choose to believe as human males we are different from the lion. The truth is we are no different at all. For most of us males we have forgotten the simple fact that we are the lion, that same kind of animal and is within us Men. We are the kings. We are the champions of our own lives. The rulers of our own state of mind. Our mind is of an animal and its only modern society that has complicated our minds, its our minds that have complicated attraction and it is our own animalistic mind that sets us free.
The secret is no secret at all. Switch your thinking off and allow your animal mind to take over. When you do that you go straight up to a woman and tell her what you are thinking. You feel it in your body. She makes you call to the wild. Feel how she makes you excited. You walk up to her and express how you feel.
When you think, you stop that animal in you. You think more than you have to and you die. You die inside. That animal knows it. When you she a female who turns you on and you feel turned on. She's entered your animal body. Get out of your animals way and let the animal go forth and express. You leave her with your contact details and you leave. She knows you like her, you make her feels different just by your approach which is mindless and coming from the lion heart, then you walk off and leave her be. You aren't like most guys out there. You are a champion. You are a Lion.
You take her power away and she has to come to you. You who is the king of your realm.
Just like a Vampire who needs to be invited in. She lets you know. The lion in you takes care of the rest.
Enjoy Gentlemen
Always remember that you are the lion. You are the king of the wilderness. Go looking for the Queen who can take care of your needs and desires. Everything else is silly games that need not be played. You hold all the cards. You are "The Man" that every woman wants to be with.
Any other thoughts going through you mind is false and isn't needed. So get rid of it. Only think like the Lion.
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Monday, 21 October 2013
Confident Men - Part 1: External Confidence Seeker
Here is part one of the two part articles that I am releasing to my readers about male confidence and the fact that there exists two types. The External Confidence seeker and the Internal Confident Man.
External Confidence Seeker
What you are about to read is the honest truth and will set you free in the world. Once you realise that you fit into this archetype, realise its been programmed into you and you can become aware of what's happening and change things for yourself.
The external confidence seeker is a guy who is reactive to the environment he exists within. He is totally at odds with what is going on around him and reacts to what comes his way. He will not only be emotionally attached to girls, he will believe he can read minds of people and be afraid to speak his own mind to those around him. Because of this he tends to be silent and lash out on those closest to him and loves to complain and vent his frustrations of others. Why?
Because he believes that if he invests his time and money into others, he believes that they owe his for that. He believes giving his resources out to the world makes him entitled by others. There is a huge problem...he doesn't communicate very well so those around him, people view him as being very passive and at times erratic in his mood. If things don't go his way eventually this type of guy gets angry and frustrated.
Girls know that there are guys out there that will buy them what they want to be with them. They know that these guys will try buy their validation as a worth sexual partner and she will happily continue dating this guy for his gifts and money. He will not fulfil her need for his leadership and her sexual desire to be wild. But the most important thing is...he will not be overtly sexual with her. This is bad for him. He won't know if she finds him attractive, he doesn't communicate that he is sexually interested in her and instead acts friendly towards her and turns the girl off sexually or worst of all the girl sees him as an opportunity to use him for his money.
5 things these guys need to know:
1) Don't be afraid of what a woman will say to you.
2) Say whats on your mind and tell them what you are thinking. Honesty!
3) Don't use your money or invest into the girl before you get to know her alot better and that means sexually.
4) Don't be afraid of thinking dirty thoughts about her, she will be thinking the same thing so let her know and unleash her wild side.
5) Compliment her on how she looks and look her up and down like you are studying every part of her body. Allow yourself to be turned on by her. A girl likes a guy who likes the way they look.
Remember: When a guy doesn't communicate or be firm with a woman then she will play up on him. She will order him around and demand respect by disrespecting him and if he doesn't stand up his happiness is in jeopardy. He needs to command respect from her by being upfront and honest while remaining in a controlled state of mind (A man's happiness is his own.) It's not your job to make her happy, its your job to make her feel special and sexy.
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External Confidence Seeker
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| Referred to as The "Nice guy", "The Friend" and the "Beta male". |
The external confidence seeker is a guy who is reactive to the environment he exists within. He is totally at odds with what is going on around him and reacts to what comes his way. He will not only be emotionally attached to girls, he will believe he can read minds of people and be afraid to speak his own mind to those around him. Because of this he tends to be silent and lash out on those closest to him and loves to complain and vent his frustrations of others. Why?
Because he believes that if he invests his time and money into others, he believes that they owe his for that. He believes giving his resources out to the world makes him entitled by others. There is a huge problem...he doesn't communicate very well so those around him, people view him as being very passive and at times erratic in his mood. If things don't go his way eventually this type of guy gets angry and frustrated.
Girls know that there are guys out there that will buy them what they want to be with them. They know that these guys will try buy their validation as a worth sexual partner and she will happily continue dating this guy for his gifts and money. He will not fulfil her need for his leadership and her sexual desire to be wild. But the most important thing is...he will not be overtly sexual with her. This is bad for him. He won't know if she finds him attractive, he doesn't communicate that he is sexually interested in her and instead acts friendly towards her and turns the girl off sexually or worst of all the girl sees him as an opportunity to use him for his money.
5 things these guys need to know:
1) Don't be afraid of what a woman will say to you.
2) Say whats on your mind and tell them what you are thinking. Honesty!
3) Don't use your money or invest into the girl before you get to know her alot better and that means sexually.
4) Don't be afraid of thinking dirty thoughts about her, she will be thinking the same thing so let her know and unleash her wild side.
5) Compliment her on how she looks and look her up and down like you are studying every part of her body. Allow yourself to be turned on by her. A girl likes a guy who likes the way they look.
Remember: When a guy doesn't communicate or be firm with a woman then she will play up on him. She will order him around and demand respect by disrespecting him and if he doesn't stand up his happiness is in jeopardy. He needs to command respect from her by being upfront and honest while remaining in a controlled state of mind (A man's happiness is his own.) It's not your job to make her happy, its your job to make her feel special and sexy.
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Wednesday, 9 October 2013
What do you want? 5 Things you should think about before going after any girl
As I am writing this I am thinking of all the simple things I want to tell you to "Get a Girl". But I'd be an idiot if I didn't start with one simple question. WHAT DO YOU WANT?
Do you want a girlfriend, a friend relationship with benefits, a wife or do you want a one night stand?
This is incredibly important. Why?
I believe the more you know what you want in life in general the more you can direct your own choices and destiny. YOU become the leader of your own life!
SO..What do you want from the woman? For you to be attracted to that woman you are after what are the qualities she has for your liking?
Physical qualities: eg. Big hips, Big Breasts, Brown hair, long legs.
Energy qualities: eg. Excitable, relaxed, adventurous, high energy.
When you know what you want in a woman and become conscious of looking for it, when you see her you get turned on. Your mind says "There she is...shes mine" you become horny. Because of this I believe you are more likely to take action. When the animal brain takes over it wants the girl and doesn't think too much else!
What do you want the woman for?
This is a huge question! I don't think enough guys think about this one well enough. I know I do. I WANT HER FOR SEX.
I'd like to think I'm pretty good at most things and I don't need her to tell me what to do.
I like it when a girl cooks for me. I like it when a girl gives me a massage after a workout or a game of sport. I like a girl that does things for me. BUT... I like a girl for one primary reason.. I'm attracted to her and want to FUCK her.
Too many guys make the mistake of going for a girl subtly having the want for sex rather than driving that car that has sex all over it! I mean to say that you need to be HONEST with a girl.
When you are honest you lead her. Every girl stresses the same thing about a guy...he needs to communicate better.
Yeah it's true we speak less words daily than women do. I like to think we do because we are more direct and upfront in our dialogue and don't beat around the bush with things. To be a good communicator to a woman doesn't take rocket science or massive amount of brain power. When you know what you want you direct your life and you communicate better to others and particularly to women.
I'm going to keep it simple here fellow brothers. Learn what you like and what you don't like.
Know what you want in a woman. Keep it simple. If you are not sure then you better work harder than the rest of us and get out there and experience the women only then will you begin to understand what you are after.
5 things you should do for yourself:
1) Make a list of physical qualities you like in a woman
2) Make a list of character qualities you like in a woman?
3) Ask yourself what you want a girl for right now and remember this can change.
4) Don't be scared to communicate your intentions to the girl and what you like about her be it physical or character based. Make a statement of observation then pursuit past it.
5) Refine from the above and become clear as to What you are after in a woman.
Now once you've done this you can be conscious and clear about the type of woman you want and go get her unapologetically knowing she's your type.
Mark
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Do you want a girlfriend, a friend relationship with benefits, a wife or do you want a one night stand?
This is incredibly important. Why?
I believe the more you know what you want in life in general the more you can direct your own choices and destiny. YOU become the leader of your own life!
SO..What do you want from the woman? For you to be attracted to that woman you are after what are the qualities she has for your liking?
Physical qualities: eg. Big hips, Big Breasts, Brown hair, long legs.
Energy qualities: eg. Excitable, relaxed, adventurous, high energy.
When you know what you want in a woman and become conscious of looking for it, when you see her you get turned on. Your mind says "There she is...shes mine" you become horny. Because of this I believe you are more likely to take action. When the animal brain takes over it wants the girl and doesn't think too much else!
What do you want the woman for?
This is a huge question! I don't think enough guys think about this one well enough. I know I do. I WANT HER FOR SEX.
I'd like to think I'm pretty good at most things and I don't need her to tell me what to do.
I like it when a girl cooks for me. I like it when a girl gives me a massage after a workout or a game of sport. I like a girl that does things for me. BUT... I like a girl for one primary reason.. I'm attracted to her and want to FUCK her.
Too many guys make the mistake of going for a girl subtly having the want for sex rather than driving that car that has sex all over it! I mean to say that you need to be HONEST with a girl.
When you are honest you lead her. Every girl stresses the same thing about a guy...he needs to communicate better.
Yeah it's true we speak less words daily than women do. I like to think we do because we are more direct and upfront in our dialogue and don't beat around the bush with things. To be a good communicator to a woman doesn't take rocket science or massive amount of brain power. When you know what you want you direct your life and you communicate better to others and particularly to women.
I'm going to keep it simple here fellow brothers. Learn what you like and what you don't like.
Know what you want in a woman. Keep it simple. If you are not sure then you better work harder than the rest of us and get out there and experience the women only then will you begin to understand what you are after.
5 things you should do for yourself:
1) Make a list of physical qualities you like in a woman
2) Make a list of character qualities you like in a woman?
3) Ask yourself what you want a girl for right now and remember this can change.
4) Don't be scared to communicate your intentions to the girl and what you like about her be it physical or character based. Make a statement of observation then pursuit past it.
5) Refine from the above and become clear as to What you are after in a woman.
Now once you've done this you can be conscious and clear about the type of woman you want and go get her unapologetically knowing she's your type.
Mark
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