Don Jon - Watch & Learn about Masculine ways

One of the most interesting things about Don Jon is the transformation of Jon around Barbara. His cocky confident exterior changes from a guy who is very sure of himself and what he wants into a guy who satisfies Barbara needs and desires instead of his own to get in her pants again and again. The relationship gets worse as Jon has to cover up his habits simple because Barbara does not like it. Jons masculinity and purpose fades as he becomes less sure of himself and his frustrations.

The last dialogue between Jon and Barbara makes it all clear when he realises she's selfish and is out for only herself.

Ultimately the good woman that changes a man is not one like Barbara but rather a woman like Esther who gives lovingly and openly with trust in the man. It makes him feel like the Man he truly should, that being one who is present and happy.

Jon mentions that him and Esther might not be the picture perfect couple in the eyes of society yet its a relationship much more full than any other he has had before and he wishes to continue as long as it will last.

The one message I got from the movie is to keep on your purpose and never forget yourself as being important. Don't sacrifice your own self for the stake of the pursuit of lust and desire.

You must stay true to yourself and find the girl who recognises you for who you are and worships you for who you are.

That lady who comes into your life is worth keeping.

Only Think About Sex - Key to Arousal

Alot of smart people are talk about arousal as being a state and I agree entirely. They mention Mirror neurons and how as human beings we have the ability to tap into other people states and emotions just by looking at them. As new aged Men you are taught to be less sexual and not to think of women as object of sex. The reality is as a Man in pursuit of a woman you only need them for sex and everything else is pure time wasting. The only time you need a woman for something other than sex is if she is a business partner or your wife (take care of your children).

This is a huge wake up call to all you men out there. Don't let a woman talk you out of sleeping with her, she will look down on you as a lesser man for not pursuing her to the bedroom.

I want you to do one thing and that is to be creative. I want you to imagine her pleasing you sexually. Giving you a blowjob, lying down naked on your bed with her ass in the air, kissing you passionately, and feeling the pleasure that you both are having in the company of each other.

I believe if you focus on her and make sure you are turned on by her then she will be too.

Just like a woman when her pussy gets wet, when your dick is hard your instincts take over and you both become aroused.

If by chance she does not become aroused and want you then you focus on another girl and feel into her femininity.

As advanced human beings we forget that we are animals. We too are part of the animal kingdom. Intimacy is a natural thing we need to allow ourselves to enjoy.

All the best

Dirty Talk - Whispering into her ear

All woman are beautiful creatures they are incredible Mothers and loyal lovers to the right man. Well who is this Man? What does he possess that makes her want to be his lover? It's simple. The man brings out the lover in her. He sees the Whore within her and bring it out in her. He know that if he doesn't then she will not be attracted towards him. But there is one problem. Social programming tell her that being a Whore in front of her friends and others will make her vulnerable to shaming, the very thing that subdues women from displaying attraction towards a man. 

For a Man who feels attraction towards a woman its important you know that in order to make her feel like a woman in your presence, you must protect her reputation as a good girl and be wild with her in private.

One way of doing this very thing is to make the attraction between you and her a secret. Build anticipation and build the fantasy in her mind.

Whispering into her left ear (left ear being tap to emotions) will evoke sensual feelings towards you. It will turn her on.

5 Tips for when Whisper into her left ear:

1) Examine her and pick up on what turns you on about her. Then let her know. It can be erotic or subtly erotic.

2) Does she smell girly and nice. Tell her she smells incredible. Smell in one thing girls love to know.

3) Speak slowly and commanding.

4) If you feel comfortable with her something to do is while looking her in the eyes use your finger brush her hair behind her ear before you whisper into her ear.

5) After you have whisper into her left ear. Hold eye contact with her and even have a cheeky smile on your face. If you are in a group setting continue conversation with others normally smiling and occasionally looking back at her. Or if you feel in total dominance you don't need to smile just remain unphased. You now hold a secret between both of you.

This will not only turn you on being in your power as a man towards her but will of course make her become turned on. She will react by being silent and non-resistant, start blushing or hold onto you more tightly in anticipation.

Pimp Mode - Be like Ice

You walk into the bar. Your sex drive is high and you have an air of dominance. In your mind you feel like the king and you want to have sex with a desirable girl. You act like the king. The king does not ask and demands. 

I'm laughing so hard at reading this right now and it sounds like some kind of animalistic thing you'd see on the discovery channel. But what I'd like you to do is tap into that sexual energy you have as a man. That energy that gives you focus and intent. The energy which makes you polarising to woman. These women enjoy looking at you in the eyes and feeling that manliness coming out of you. She feels how secure you are about yourself and begins to feel attraction.

You are in pimp mode. If you are working 9-5 job week days and you venture out into the night in the weekend and perhaps occasionally you go mid-week with friends and you want to be good with women, you need to harvest this energy. Expressing confidence and dominance from within yourself. I am Man and I am enough.

5 Tips to Conjure Sexual Confidence and get into Pimp Mode:

1) Stop watching Porn and stop masturbating. This will kill your sexual confidence and will give you terrible side-effects that will kill your drive for a woman.

2) Exercise. Go to the gym or do push-up and sit-ups at home. This increase testosterone which is the hormone in us Men that is linked to our own sex drive.

3) Self Love. There is not a person around you who is better than you. You are a magnet and chicks just love your manliness. Your masculinity makes them wet. Just being in the presence of a woman and looking into her eyes she becomes attracted to you. Harvest these beliefs and know that they are true. Love yourself well and others will too.

4) Eye contact. When you are around attractive girls and communicating with them make sure you are looking at them in the eyes. You are the man, you've got nothing to hide. You are accepted for who you are and you are happy within yourself. She will love looking into your eyes and will become trusting of you.

5) Join a Club/sport/hobbyist group. This will get you outside your head. Being active and about will get you talking to other people. Connecting and conversing. You will be immersed in something you are passionate about and the people you meet will be like-minded sharing that passion.  

Men cultivate your sex drive, it is your force with this world. Go forth and be polarising.

SEX - The most important thing in a relationship

As men we are very black and white when it comes to expressing what we feel. We tell things straight up and don't beat around the bush. Well some of us! There are those who lie, who make things alot more confusing in a relationship. Then there are women. The one thing you learn with women is what they are saying isn't necessarily exactly what is reality. They come at things on an emotional level which changes like the wind. There is usually a deeper level and that deeper level is connected to SEX.

The one thing that solves relationships and makes things harmonious is SEX. Long passionate, filth rough, intimate slow, cheeky and daring. SEX solves everything in a relationship. I would say it solves 99% of the problems. When couples argue they talk about things that don't really matter very much. They beat around the bush and don't talk about SEX.

If you have ever been in a disruptive relationship where both are at each others throat arguing and bickering then next minute break out into passionate sex which rinses clear things until the next arguement.

We seek to fulfil our sexual desires by other means. Women watch what we consider to be junk television, getting their fix of drama and fantasy. While us men surf the internet looking for porn to satisfy their desires to dominate and procreate. Society has gone to the extreme allowing us to experience these things virtually without another person present. This is considered normal. We've become lazy and our desires are not met as they should be.

I know that when I'm in a relationship I would have sex 3 or 4 times a day if it was possible. My desire for the other person sexually is great and I find myself being compelled towards sex.

Communication is the key to our relationship. When it comes to satisfying each other sexually, each must communicate what they want from each other and be spontaneous and open to going for it. Sex is animalistic and should be a natural thing. Not too much thinking should come into it. As a man it is up to us to action and escalate things towards our mutual desire.

There needs not be a taboo when it comes to sex. Society created taboos and I believe it has hurt us more than set ourselves free.

As men we need to take precaution use protection and not fear sex rather we should enjoy it. We must remember that we hold the keys to having great sex and those keys hold the success to the relationship.

Enjoy

Mark

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Confident Men - Part 1: External Confidence Seeker

Here is part one of the two part articles that I am releasing to my readers about male confidence and the fact that there exists two types. The External Confidence seeker and the Internal Confident Man.

External Confidence Seeker

Referred to as The "Nice guy", "The Friend" and the "Beta male".

What you are about to read is the honest truth and will set you free in the world. Once you realise that you fit into this archetype, realise its been programmed into you and you can become aware of what's happening and change things for yourself.

The external confidence seeker is a guy who is reactive to the environment he exists within. He is totally at odds with what is going on around him and reacts to what comes his way. He will not only be emotionally attached to girls, he will believe he can read minds of people and be afraid to speak his own mind to those around him. Because of this he tends to be silent and lash out on those closest to him and loves to complain and vent his frustrations of others. Why?
Because he believes that if he invests his time and money into others, he believes that they owe his for that. He believes giving his resources out to the world makes him entitled by others. There is a huge problem...he doesn't communicate very well so those around him, people view him as being very passive and at times erratic in his mood. If things don't go his way eventually this type of guy gets angry and frustrated.

Girls know that there are guys out there that will buy them what they want to be with them. They know that these guys will try buy their validation as a worth sexual partner and she will happily continue dating this guy for his gifts and money. He will not fulfil her need for his leadership and her sexual desire to be wild. But the most important thing is...he will not be overtly sexual with her. This is bad for him. He won't know if she finds him attractive, he doesn't communicate that he is sexually interested in her and instead acts friendly towards her and turns the girl off sexually or worst of all the girl sees him as an opportunity to use him for his money.

5 things these guys need to know:

1) Don't be afraid of what a woman will say to you.

2) Say whats on your mind and tell them what you are thinking. Honesty!

3) Don't use your money or invest into the girl before you get to know her alot better and that means sexually.

4) Don't be afraid of thinking dirty thoughts about her, she will be thinking the same thing so let her know and unleash her wild side.

5) Compliment her on how she looks and look her up and down like you are studying every part of her body. Allow yourself to be turned on by her. A girl likes a guy who likes the way they look.

Remember: When a guy doesn't communicate or be firm with a woman then she will play up on him. She will order him around and demand respect by disrespecting him and if he doesn't stand up his happiness is in jeopardy. He needs to command respect from her by being upfront and honest while remaining in a controlled state of mind (A man's happiness is his own.) It's not your job to make her happy, its your job to make her feel special and sexy.

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Equality and effect on Men in society

When it comes to attraction beauty is in the eye of the beholder. A man will like the look of one woman and another man will not. We are animals and our instincts run deep within our own DNA. However in a society where Men are becoming less dominant and where women are becoming more dominant some men are suffering silently. Genetically Men and women are different. Their purpose for living are different. Men are born to procreate or sow the seed and women are born to nurture the offspring. Both Men and Women enjoy sex for pleasure and each derive fulfilment from partaking in the act of good sex.

Society today has become very pro female and more and more Men are being forgotten or overlooked. This hurts the males of the future in the way that their minds develop and the way they are taught to interact with the opposite sex.

Equality gave females the rights that men are given from birth. Facts are there are more single women today who are suffering from anxiety and depression than there has ever been since equality was placed in society. Now I don't want to come off as being a female hater because I am anything but one. I love females very much so. But it is apparent that some things are not working in harmony with the way they are supposed to. Rather than being equals women have become more powerful than men. Women have more rights than men particularly when it comes to parenthood or marriage divorce. This isn't just hurting men its hurt women.

Studies into primitive tribes who still exist today show that they are much more happier and functional than our own modern social structure. These tribes live in a harmony between tradition and simple structure. Manhood is gained when a boy reaches puberty, is taken away from the family environment, goes through traditional men only rituals and set forth to fend for himself and create a family of this own. In a western society we lack this structure and often males never reach Manhood and don't understand what it is to be a man operating in the world creating his own reality.

The battling of equality creates alot of friction between the sexes when the fact remains that our biology is unchanged. Women give birth and nurture the young and men are the providers. However this being said with equality parenthood has changed. Both parents work, sending their kids to someone else to look after and raise them and his can cause dysfunction to that child in itself. That's a whole other topic and I don't want to touch on that.

If you have a view on anything raised in this article please leave a comment.

Regard
Mark

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