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I have now started a new website at www.realmanmindset.com

Only Think About Sex - Key to Arousal

Alot of smart people are talk about arousal as being a state and I agree entirely. They mention Mirror neurons and how as human beings we have the ability to tap into other people states and emotions just by looking at them. As new aged Men you are taught to be less sexual and not to think of women as object of sex. The reality is as a Man in pursuit of a woman you only need them for sex and everything else is pure time wasting. The only time you need a woman for something other than sex is if she is a business partner or your wife (take care of your children).

This is a huge wake up call to all you men out there. Don't let a woman talk you out of sleeping with her, she will look down on you as a lesser man for not pursuing her to the bedroom.

I want you to do one thing and that is to be creative. I want you to imagine her pleasing you sexually. Giving you a blowjob, lying down naked on your bed with her ass in the air, kissing you passionately, and feeling the pleasure that you both are having in the company of each other.

I believe if you focus on her and make sure you are turned on by her then she will be too.

Just like a woman when her pussy gets wet, when your dick is hard your instincts take over and you both become aroused.

If by chance she does not become aroused and want you then you focus on another girl and feel into her femininity.

As advanced human beings we forget that we are animals. We too are part of the animal kingdom. Intimacy is a natural thing we need to allow ourselves to enjoy.

All the best

Dirty Talk - Whispering into her ear

All woman are beautiful creatures they are incredible Mothers and loyal lovers to the right man. Well who is this Man? What does he possess that makes her want to be his lover? It's simple. The man brings out the lover in her. He sees the Whore within her and bring it out in her. He know that if he doesn't then she will not be attracted towards him. But there is one problem. Social programming tell her that being a Whore in front of her friends and others will make her vulnerable to shaming, the very thing that subdues women from displaying attraction towards a man. 

For a Man who feels attraction towards a woman its important you know that in order to make her feel like a woman in your presence, you must protect her reputation as a good girl and be wild with her in private.

One way of doing this very thing is to make the attraction between you and her a secret. Build anticipation and build the fantasy in her mind.

Whispering into her left ear (left ear being tap to emotions) will evoke sensual feelings towards you. It will turn her on.

5 Tips for when Whisper into her left ear:

1) Examine her and pick up on what turns you on about her. Then let her know. It can be erotic or subtly erotic.

2) Does she smell girly and nice. Tell her she smells incredible. Smell in one thing girls love to know.

3) Speak slowly and commanding.

4) If you feel comfortable with her something to do is while looking her in the eyes use your finger brush her hair behind her ear before you whisper into her ear.

5) After you have whisper into her left ear. Hold eye contact with her and even have a cheeky smile on your face. If you are in a group setting continue conversation with others normally smiling and occasionally looking back at her. Or if you feel in total dominance you don't need to smile just remain unphased. You now hold a secret between both of you.

This will not only turn you on being in your power as a man towards her but will of course make her become turned on. She will react by being silent and non-resistant, start blushing or hold onto you more tightly in anticipation.

Pimp Mode - Be like Ice

You walk into the bar. Your sex drive is high and you have an air of dominance. In your mind you feel like the king and you want to have sex with a desirable girl. You act like the king. The king does not ask and demands. 

I'm laughing so hard at reading this right now and it sounds like some kind of animalistic thing you'd see on the discovery channel. But what I'd like you to do is tap into that sexual energy you have as a man. That energy that gives you focus and intent. The energy which makes you polarising to woman. These women enjoy looking at you in the eyes and feeling that manliness coming out of you. She feels how secure you are about yourself and begins to feel attraction.

You are in pimp mode. If you are working 9-5 job week days and you venture out into the night in the weekend and perhaps occasionally you go mid-week with friends and you want to be good with women, you need to harvest this energy. Expressing confidence and dominance from within yourself. I am Man and I am enough.

5 Tips to Conjure Sexual Confidence and get into Pimp Mode:

1) Stop watching Porn and stop masturbating. This will kill your sexual confidence and will give you terrible side-effects that will kill your drive for a woman.

2) Exercise. Go to the gym or do push-up and sit-ups at home. This increase testosterone which is the hormone in us Men that is linked to our own sex drive.

3) Self Love. There is not a person around you who is better than you. You are a magnet and chicks just love your manliness. Your masculinity makes them wet. Just being in the presence of a woman and looking into her eyes she becomes attracted to you. Harvest these beliefs and know that they are true. Love yourself well and others will too.

4) Eye contact. When you are around attractive girls and communicating with them make sure you are looking at them in the eyes. You are the man, you've got nothing to hide. You are accepted for who you are and you are happy within yourself. She will love looking into your eyes and will become trusting of you.

5) Join a Club/sport/hobbyist group. This will get you outside your head. Being active and about will get you talking to other people. Connecting and conversing. You will be immersed in something you are passionate about and the people you meet will be like-minded sharing that passion.  

Men cultivate your sex drive, it is your force with this world. Go forth and be polarising.

Never Stop Admiring the Beauty of a Woman

A healthy man is attracted to the beauty of a woman. How many times can you recall seeing or talking to a woman and being in awe of her beauty. The way she looks and the way she smells. Her beauty and her feminine energy radiating off of her. But you refuse to see and feel her within you. You disregard and ignore the feeling rather than tap into it and utilise that sexual feeling you are having towards her and enjoy her.

Whether you are single, married, or in a relationship you should never stop admiring the beauty of a woman. I believe if you do, you die a little inside. Men were born to sow their seeds in many different fields and it does not mean we have to, yet we must understand that our minds are programmed to seek out and explore other women.

Women like to be desired by Men. They spend alot of time making themselves look pretty and beautiful. They want to attract you!

Women work hard for the attention of a Man. Every healthy women loves a genuine compliment from a Man.

So I'm telling you this for your own good.

Never stop admiring the beauty of a Woman.

LEAD, Follow or Get Out of the Way - Way of Life

When it comes to knowing thy self its about your own happiness. Taking care of your own self in order to stay in your own happiness. You know what you like and you know what you dislike. You LEAD your own life.

The perk to knowledge of self and knowledge of your own happiness is having a girl who joins you for the ride. You take full responsible and she greatly complies with what is going on as she trusts the man that you are.

There exists three forms of living. Following others, getting out of the way of others and Leading. The highest form of living is leading your own life and enjoying it with the ones you choose to have in your life.

The other two forms are lower in my opinion because as Men we are the ones who need to make decisions whether it be informed decisions or instinctual decisions. We are the ones who take responsibility.

When you follow others, you are at the whim of others decisions. Their decisions may not be in the best interest of yourself. You are therefore giving up your birth right as a man. You are giving up your own instincts which are to protect and be independent.

The cost of following is your own happiness, your freedom, your respect and your own manhood comes into question by females who will test you for your leadership and strength.

Following is worse than getting out of the way. If you are not in agreement with someone else's decisions you can get out of their way. You allow them to go forth and you signal to them you don't want any part of it.

I recommend you read my article on "Penis Identity - Formulation of Being a Man". In this article I discuss the need for yourself as a male to know what makes you a Man. Forming your own identity on what it is to be a Man and establish your role in moving through life. This is an integral part of leading is having a knowledge of yourself as a Man.

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Penis Identity - Formulation of Being a Man

When it comes to being a Man you can get very different opinions and views on what it is to act like a Man. Part of being a man is practicing honesty. Telling things to others that maybe hurtful. He defines honesty as being a man.

It is crucial to solidify what it is to be a Man in your own mind. This is called Penis identity. Identifying yourself as being a Man. You define yourself as a Man through your own beliefs as to what it is that makes a Man a Man.

My beliefs in being a Man is:

- One who is honest. No matter whether the truth hurts or rewards.
- Who knows what he likes and dislikes.
- Loves the company of a quality woman.
- Loves and respects his own himself.
- Keeps his life private from those he does not trust.
- Keeps his word and follows through on what he says.
- Loves those close to him. Family, friends etc.
- Takes responsibility in the relationship between himself and a woman. From sex, maintaining her reputations etc.
- Make a woman feel special.

These are a few things I define as being a man.

A good exercise is to write a list down of what it is to be a Man. Write down everything you deem to be true. You might test the ones you write down but get it out there. You might realise that the ones you've written down you end up crossing out as it does not relate to being a man. Others you may need to test. It might be something you need to address.

For example: I used to think that part of being a Man is pleasing a woman and making her happy. I believe this to be untrue. I have learnt that being a Man your duty is to make her feel special. Its her own job to make sure she is happy just as it is as a Man for his own self. By being present with a woman and allow her to be present with you.

Enjoy the exercise and allow yourself to love what it means to be a Man which you defined.

Mark

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The Ultimate Goal - Be a Man of Value

Your birth right is to become a Man. Your ultimate quest in life is to become a Man of Value.

To understand what it means to be a Man of Value we need to dig deep and unearth things to gain clarity and understanding.

We have talked about being a Man, we've defines what it is to be a Man and we've discussed about having your needs and desires met.

A Man of Value is a man who lives his life in his own principles, isn't afraid to let others know what they are and is mature and open minded when it comes to other peoples affairs.

He does not get caught up in emotions or gossip for the sake of making others look bad he does not need to engage in that at all.

I have listen to a few dating mentors who have offered valid advice on women and manhood.
They all offer the same advice when taking the journey of becoming a Man of principle.

Traits found in a Man of Value:

1) Believes he is the most important person in the relationship not the woman.

2) Thinks for himself. Does not try to please the woman for his own benefit.

3) Does not lie.

4) Tells the truth. Live fully honest.

5) Is not afraid of what others might think of him.

6) Does not engage in gossip. Has trust of others and is accepting.

7) Does not engage in bad mouthing others.

In the presence of a Woman:

8) Will not discuss past relationships with other women and politely says "I do not talk about other women" and keeps his relationships private. Giving women trust in himself that whatever happens he will not talk to others about what happened.

9) Takes full responsibility of what happens between himself and the woman. From Wearing protections, initiating sex etc. Even explains to her that he is of full responsibility for what ever happens in the interaction.

10) Is not afraid to discipline what he sees to be unfit behaviours of a women in a non-violent way. Also rewards good behaviour which is just as important.


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Mind Reader Solution - 3 Tips to get the girl

So I've been talking alot about sex, manhood and women. Today I want to speak into the mind of the highly intelligent guys out there who second guess approaching women and go into paralysis by analysis. It can happen to the best of us!

I'd like to call it "Mind reading". We become mind readers and believe we know everything about her. We stop ourselves doing the first thing we are meant to do. We hurt ourselves through generating fear and anxiety over a girl we don't even know yet.

Wouldn't you call this insanity? Except we think its normal. But the reality is...if we keep doing this we die a little each day.

We don't have to go over to the girl and win her over be entertaining her or by making her like us by acting a certain way. We have to be normal and honest. There is no need for fear.

F - False
E - Evidence
A - Appearing
R - Real

We create this illusion all in our mind that we are not good enough for her. We tell ourselves that she wouldn't like a guy like me. The pure reality is that you are enough for any girl. You just have to love yourself and lead with your dick. When you lead with your dick your feet move towards the girl you want. You strike a harmony between your dick and your feet. Action baby!

Here are 3 tips to help you out when it comes to spotting that girl you like the look of:

1) You see her. Smile and wave at her. Poke a face. Let her know you spotted her.

2) Don't think about her twice. Walk towards her and let her know you like her. She will think you are confidence and be drawn into you.

3) Give her your number and direct her to contact you. Tell her what you would like to do. eg. Go on a date or meet for coffee.

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SEX - The most important thing in a relationship

As men we are very black and white when it comes to expressing what we feel. We tell things straight up and don't beat around the bush. Well some of us! There are those who lie, who make things alot more confusing in a relationship. Then there are women. The one thing you learn with women is what they are saying isn't necessarily exactly what is reality. They come at things on an emotional level which changes like the wind. There is usually a deeper level and that deeper level is connected to SEX.

The one thing that solves relationships and makes things harmonious is SEX. Long passionate, filth rough, intimate slow, cheeky and daring. SEX solves everything in a relationship. I would say it solves 99% of the problems. When couples argue they talk about things that don't really matter very much. They beat around the bush and don't talk about SEX.

If you have ever been in a disruptive relationship where both are at each others throat arguing and bickering then next minute break out into passionate sex which rinses clear things until the next arguement.

We seek to fulfil our sexual desires by other means. Women watch what we consider to be junk television, getting their fix of drama and fantasy. While us men surf the internet looking for porn to satisfy their desires to dominate and procreate. Society has gone to the extreme allowing us to experience these things virtually without another person present. This is considered normal. We've become lazy and our desires are not met as they should be.

I know that when I'm in a relationship I would have sex 3 or 4 times a day if it was possible. My desire for the other person sexually is great and I find myself being compelled towards sex.

Communication is the key to our relationship. When it comes to satisfying each other sexually, each must communicate what they want from each other and be spontaneous and open to going for it. Sex is animalistic and should be a natural thing. Not too much thinking should come into it. As a man it is up to us to action and escalate things towards our mutual desire.

There needs not be a taboo when it comes to sex. Society created taboos and I believe it has hurt us more than set ourselves free.

As men we need to take precaution use protection and not fear sex rather we should enjoy it. We must remember that we hold the keys to having great sex and those keys hold the success to the relationship.

Enjoy

Mark

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Must read books for Men

There is alot of junk out here on the internet. People telling absolute junk when it comes to advice on anything. The internet has bought people together and closer. It has allowed people to share their ideas and philosophies. Our mind expands when we take in all the content we read and come across.

There are people who have dedicate their life to studying particular things and share their knowledge. I like a balance between reading articles on the world wide web and through books. We are lucky to now have kindles, ebook readers and audio books making it easier for our own consumption.

Below are a list of books that I have read and highly recommend to others.

The Ultra Mind Solution

Radical Honesty

The Power of Self-Confidence

*Must Read* Stages of Self - Dependence, Independence and Interdependence

We all have a life journey which can be considered very similar. We are born to a Mother and Father who we depend upon. Who teaches us the ways of being. As men our fathers teach us what it is to be a Man and what it means to carry the family name.
Our life has a natural cycle of self and connection with your chosen partner. Alot of Men out there are stuck in dependence and are seeking a relationship with a woman going straight into Interdependence. This is not going to happen. As a Man you have to stand on your own feet. You have to be able to live without a woman and become independent in order to meet a girl who will move you into Interdependence. Interdependence is a relationship where both individuals are independent and come together to share themselves with each other with an understanding that their own happiness is their own responsibility.

Signs of being in Dependence:
- Listening to others opinions
- Caring what others think of you
- Are in group-think
- Does not like being alone
- Seeks comfort in unfamiliar places

Signs of being in Independence:
- Has formed own set of rules in life
- Enjoys his own company
- Loves own self and does not need to be validation
- Feels they are enough
- Fearless
- Makes own decisions
- Leads own life
- Does not think for others
- Believes he is the most important person in his life.

Signs of being in Interdependence:
- Still independent
- Able to make decision for both in the relationship.
- Does not jeopardise own happiness in relationship.


Stages of Life

1st                           2nd                            3rd
Dependence => Independence => Interdependence

If you are wanting to attract a woman you must be a strong independent man who is on his own path and journey in his life. If you are stuck in dependence you must transform yourself and life into Independence. With Independence comes confidence and belief in ones own self. Love who you are, set boundaries around you, enjoy your own freedom and be in control of your own self. Men who are independent minded are naturally more attractive, safe, secure, likeable, trustworthy, own their what they say, have purpose and have a compass in life. All the qualities and hallmarks of a Man.

Mark

Always Compliment a Woman - 5 tips to help you become fearless

Guy are attracted by beauty and girls are attracted to how a guy makes them feel. Honesty is the best way forward.

When a guy sees a woman and something about the way she appears to him makes his desires run wild this is a good thing, this is natural.

Somewhere guys thought it was wrong to compliment a woman. I believe if you are genuine and come from a honest place then your compliments will be always spot on.

You like what you see and you let her know what you like about her.

A woman's beauty is a fantastic thing and needs to be admired. Women go to lengths to pretty themselves up for guys.

They make themselves look great for you and you don't even notice? There has to be something wrong when as a Man can't speak his mind.

Let her know what you think about her. Tell her what you like about the way she looks. If you are attracted to her then you let her know! Whatever comes into your mind when you see her come right out and say it to her.

I've only ever had girls blush when I tell them how they look to me. I've never been hit or loud mouthed back. You speak the truth, you have nothing to fear.

Honesty can turn a girl on.


Here are 5 tips to help you when complimenting a woman:

1) Examine her. Take in her beauty.

2) Let her run into your body. Allow your mind to wander and be turned on by her presence.

3) Don't think what she might think about your compliment. Don't second guess yourself. There is no such thing as fear. She is just a woman and you don't need to put her on a pedestal. 

4) Tell her what you like about her. Give her that compliment. Compliment is anything that you like about her.

5) Enjoy her and don't fall back on what you say. Own what you've said, no need to defend yourself and if she blushes that's perfect. You've just hit her sweet spot where she doesn't know what to say and her mind has come out of autopilot response.

You should only compliment a woman when it is genuine and when there is something about her that turns you on. Hallow compliments women easily see through. Only give genuine compliments to a woman. Honesty spoken allows great things to happen.

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Building Confidence - Self Love

I AM ENOUGH. 

This statement is never truer when it comes to gaining respect from others. You must love yourself more than others love you. You are the only person who can love yourself. People who say life is important are right. No one else thinks your life is important only you know it is.

Time is precious. You have little time on this earth so you have to enjoy every minute of it. When you love yourself you demonstrate to others how you want to be treated. A lack of confidence allows others to walk right over you with no hesitation or remorse. They see your value as less than their own. You enjoy any banter and you never lose your self confidence. You are "The Man" you know yourself better than anyone else. 

Its not surprising that girls number one attribute in a male is confidence. With self confidence you have less fear and you go for what you want. Having self confidence makes you feel like you are on top of the world. You are always feeling your best.

5 Tips for building self confidence. Do the things you love and make you feel positive.

1) Join a gym or work out at home. It's important for men to be physical and get exercise.

2) Play a sport.

3) Join some kind of club.

4) Eat healthy. Food is huge factor in state of mind.

5) Go out more. Be positive and meet new people. Compliment women tell them what you like about how they look. First impressions count.

The key to confidence is getting out of your head and walking around in a positive mood, allow yourself to appreciate things and communicate to others what you are thinking. Honesty goes a long way. You shouldn't be afraid of what others are thinking. You can only think for yourself.

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The Rules of meeting

As males with testosterone pumping through our body when it comes to meeting a girl we act like a bull behind a gate already to unleash ourselves on them. We want to get the girl right away and bed her as soon as possible. This can be detrimental when it comes to getting with woman.

We forget our manners. We forget she's a person. We also forget she's got things other than you on her mind. 

When meeting a woman for the first time you have to always be considerate towards her while directing her towards your ultimate goal of being with her. When your mum said that manners are important. She was right. Particularly when you meet an attractive girl for the first time. You meet her, you then talk to her and then you direct her by giving your number and telling her what you'd like to do next with her. Then she has the power to pursuit you if she liked you.

1)Meet

Hi my name is.... 

2)Talk

I couldn't help take my eyes off you and had to come say hello.

3)Direct

Here is my number I'd like to hang out with you some time. Enjoy the rest of your evening.

Simple and authentic. Doing this makes a statement and takes away any games that girls like to play with a guy.

Mark

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Learn to say No - The importance of boundaries

You are obligated to live a fulfilled life according to you own needs and desires. Knowledge of your needs and wants is knowing thy self. Knowledge of what you want and what you don't want. This is crucial to being a Man. For he who knows what he wants focuses on them and forgets the rest.

Saying no is crucial when interacting in the world. Achieving your desired outcome happens by focusing on the goal and moving towards that goal and sticking to the path you originally set out. As men you live in no grey zone. You live in Black and white. Clear cut.

Knowledge of needs and desires = Knowledge of self = Act towards fulfilment of desires

If the desire is towards a woman and it is not met. The process starts again with the pursuit of the desires being met by another woman who wants the same desires as you.
Abundance is the correct mentality. You don't force something to happen. It requires both to have the same desire and need to make the natural click.

You want a Ferrari, you walk into a car yard selling Honda's you have lost already. You want a Ferrari you go to the dealership that sells Ferraris. Or else you will be sold a Honda and you have to deal with the fact that it wasn't what you wanted. This should be a fail. However you might walk into a dealership that sells both Ferrari's and Honda's.
"Sir we have a great Honda Civic that you can drive away today"
"No I have come to look at your Ferrari's"
"Ahh ok then please come this way sir"

Man to Woman communication.

You: "Wow you a god damn sexy" give her a twirl
Her: "How about you buy me a drink"
You: "No I'm not buying you a drink..we are having a dance"
If she follows your lead. You know she likes you. If She doesn't and resists you. You walk. She's not the girl you need. You've heard that cliché before. Watch out she's taking you for your money. These girls exist. They prey on guys who give them things. You refuse to be one of these men by saying no and having boundaries. A woman wants a man who has these boundaries because she can respect him.

Know what you want from any relationship with a woman and go forth to the path of fulfilment. Don't forget that she is just like you. She has the same wants and desires. Man to woman communication is always towards sex. Both Men and Women have the driving need for sex. A woman might have wants for others things to fulfil her own happiness. This is her own pursuit endeavour . Your job is to only focus on the need for sex that you both have. Its your job to make her feel special by treating her as woman who has that need.

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The Lion - Rules of Attraction

The qualities of a Lion are admirable. He is the king of his pride and he only eats and has sex with any of the females who fulfil his need. He runs the pride based on his presence. He doesn't even need to hunt for his food, he has his females to do that for him. This is the kingdom of the animal. This is the way of life.

We forget that we are no different. We choose to believe as human males we are different from the lion. The truth is we are no different at all. For most of us males we have forgotten the simple fact that we are the lion, that same kind of animal and is within us Men. We are the kings. We are the champions of our own lives. The rulers of our own state of mind. Our mind is of an animal and its only modern society that has complicated our minds, its our minds that have complicated attraction and it is our own animalistic mind that sets us free. 

The secret is no secret at all. Switch your thinking off and allow your animal mind to take over. When you do that you go straight up to a woman and tell her what you are thinking. You feel it in your body. She makes you call to the wild. Feel how she makes you excited. You walk up to her  and express how you feel.

When you think, you stop that animal in you. You think more than you have to and you die. You die inside. That animal knows it. When you she a female who turns you on and you feel turned on. She's entered your animal body. Get out of your animals way and let the animal go forth and express. You leave her with your contact details and you leave. She knows you like her, you make her feels different just by your approach which is mindless and coming from the lion heart, then you walk off and leave her be. You aren't like most guys out there. You are a champion. You are a Lion.

You take her power away and she has to come to you. You who is the king of your realm.

Just like a Vampire who needs to be invited in. She lets you know. The lion in you takes care of the rest.

Enjoy Gentlemen

Always remember that you are the lion. You are the king of the wilderness. Go looking for the Queen who can take care of your needs and desires. Everything else is silly games that need not be played. You hold all the cards. You are "The Man" that every woman wants to be with.

Any other thoughts going through you mind is false and isn't needed. So get rid of it. Only think like the Lion.

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Confident Men - Part 1: External Confidence Seeker

Here is part one of the two part articles that I am releasing to my readers about male confidence and the fact that there exists two types. The External Confidence seeker and the Internal Confident Man.

External Confidence Seeker

Referred to as The "Nice guy", "The Friend" and the "Beta male".

What you are about to read is the honest truth and will set you free in the world. Once you realise that you fit into this archetype, realise its been programmed into you and you can become aware of what's happening and change things for yourself.

The external confidence seeker is a guy who is reactive to the environment he exists within. He is totally at odds with what is going on around him and reacts to what comes his way. He will not only be emotionally attached to girls, he will believe he can read minds of people and be afraid to speak his own mind to those around him. Because of this he tends to be silent and lash out on those closest to him and loves to complain and vent his frustrations of others. Why?
Because he believes that if he invests his time and money into others, he believes that they owe his for that. He believes giving his resources out to the world makes him entitled by others. There is a huge problem...he doesn't communicate very well so those around him, people view him as being very passive and at times erratic in his mood. If things don't go his way eventually this type of guy gets angry and frustrated.

Girls know that there are guys out there that will buy them what they want to be with them. They know that these guys will try buy their validation as a worth sexual partner and she will happily continue dating this guy for his gifts and money. He will not fulfil her need for his leadership and her sexual desire to be wild. But the most important thing is...he will not be overtly sexual with her. This is bad for him. He won't know if she finds him attractive, he doesn't communicate that he is sexually interested in her and instead acts friendly towards her and turns the girl off sexually or worst of all the girl sees him as an opportunity to use him for his money.

5 things these guys need to know:

1) Don't be afraid of what a woman will say to you.

2) Say whats on your mind and tell them what you are thinking. Honesty!

3) Don't use your money or invest into the girl before you get to know her alot better and that means sexually.

4) Don't be afraid of thinking dirty thoughts about her, she will be thinking the same thing so let her know and unleash her wild side.

5) Compliment her on how she looks and look her up and down like you are studying every part of her body. Allow yourself to be turned on by her. A girl likes a guy who likes the way they look.

Remember: When a guy doesn't communicate or be firm with a woman then she will play up on him. She will order him around and demand respect by disrespecting him and if he doesn't stand up his happiness is in jeopardy. He needs to command respect from her by being upfront and honest while remaining in a controlled state of mind (A man's happiness is his own.) It's not your job to make her happy, its your job to make her feel special and sexy.

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Equality and effect on Men in society

When it comes to attraction beauty is in the eye of the beholder. A man will like the look of one woman and another man will not. We are animals and our instincts run deep within our own DNA. However in a society where Men are becoming less dominant and where women are becoming more dominant some men are suffering silently. Genetically Men and women are different. Their purpose for living are different. Men are born to procreate or sow the seed and women are born to nurture the offspring. Both Men and Women enjoy sex for pleasure and each derive fulfilment from partaking in the act of good sex.

Society today has become very pro female and more and more Men are being forgotten or overlooked. This hurts the males of the future in the way that their minds develop and the way they are taught to interact with the opposite sex.

Equality gave females the rights that men are given from birth. Facts are there are more single women today who are suffering from anxiety and depression than there has ever been since equality was placed in society. Now I don't want to come off as being a female hater because I am anything but one. I love females very much so. But it is apparent that some things are not working in harmony with the way they are supposed to. Rather than being equals women have become more powerful than men. Women have more rights than men particularly when it comes to parenthood or marriage divorce. This isn't just hurting men its hurt women.

Studies into primitive tribes who still exist today show that they are much more happier and functional than our own modern social structure. These tribes live in a harmony between tradition and simple structure. Manhood is gained when a boy reaches puberty, is taken away from the family environment, goes through traditional men only rituals and set forth to fend for himself and create a family of this own. In a western society we lack this structure and often males never reach Manhood and don't understand what it is to be a man operating in the world creating his own reality.

The battling of equality creates alot of friction between the sexes when the fact remains that our biology is unchanged. Women give birth and nurture the young and men are the providers. However this being said with equality parenthood has changed. Both parents work, sending their kids to someone else to look after and raise them and his can cause dysfunction to that child in itself. That's a whole other topic and I don't want to touch on that.

If you have a view on anything raised in this article please leave a comment.

Regard
Mark

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Self Confidence - Critical to any Success

As I am writing this article I have a relaxed smile upon my face thinking of all the things that make life plain and simply good. All the bullshit of life goes way and you think "damn this life is good". Simple is better. I think we always knew that from the very start of our beginning in life. Along the way our mind picks up on things, we absorb the things that defines us. Maturity is knowing thy self and going into the world unafraid pursuing what we want with confidence.

The one problem today is its so damn noisey. As we are bombarded with things through media and other peoples opinions. We begin to buy into what others tell us to be the right way. Our freedom is dictated by external matters and we begin to not know thy self and rely on others opinions of us to form who we are.

It can be great at the top of the world and then one day you will find yourself come crashing down burning crying like a baby who has had his favourite toy stolen from him and wants it back! External gratification is a dangerous thing. Those who seek it can potentially go insane or soon realise its not all that it plays out to be.

You don't have to take my word for it just have a look at celebrities and their relationship with the media. The media makes them gods then the next day takes it all away leaving them to seek more godliness from them. This is not healthy this is insanity built on hype.

Ones self should be a constant. A man must be a constant in his own world and must love himself to receive love from others. How do you define confidence? Well I believe there is two forms of it. One is fleeting and the other is constant. But the paradox is that the constant interacts with a fleeting world and the fleeting interacts with fleeting chance hoping for a constant.

Those men that rely on external sources for confidence run into more problems then those who self generate from within in a constant wave. The two are miles apart in their own quest. First one wants validation and wants to know he is valid in the world externally and the other believes he is valid and goes forth in his own belief that he is enough.

I would like to address both these two forms of confidence (External confidence and Internal confidence) in further articles. In both these artcles you will gain a greater understand of yourself as a man and you will become conscious in yourself. The purpose is for you to learn and become a more fulfilled individual with greater understanding.

Why is Confidence important?
To be able to interact in the world you must have a level of self confidence. Confidence is attractive and magnetic. Real confidence shows to another person that deep down you have a healthy level of love and respect for your own yourself.

I strongly suggest you read The Fountainhead by Ayn Rand as you will probably have one of those aha moments. For those who are not into reading long books then this is not the book for you. Alternatively you can get a copy of the audiobook listen in your down time or dismiss it all together. Ayn Rand is a fantastic advocate of men being in love with themselves first in order to receive love from women. She wrote many books that preach this whole heartedly.

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Mark