SEX - The most important thing in a relationship

As men we are very black and white when it comes to expressing what we feel. We tell things straight up and don't beat around the bush. Well some of us! There are those who lie, who make things alot more confusing in a relationship. Then there are women. The one thing you learn with women is what they are saying isn't necessarily exactly what is reality. They come at things on an emotional level which changes like the wind. There is usually a deeper level and that deeper level is connected to SEX.

The one thing that solves relationships and makes things harmonious is SEX. Long passionate, filth rough, intimate slow, cheeky and daring. SEX solves everything in a relationship. I would say it solves 99% of the problems. When couples argue they talk about things that don't really matter very much. They beat around the bush and don't talk about SEX.

If you have ever been in a disruptive relationship where both are at each others throat arguing and bickering then next minute break out into passionate sex which rinses clear things until the next arguement.

We seek to fulfil our sexual desires by other means. Women watch what we consider to be junk television, getting their fix of drama and fantasy. While us men surf the internet looking for porn to satisfy their desires to dominate and procreate. Society has gone to the extreme allowing us to experience these things virtually without another person present. This is considered normal. We've become lazy and our desires are not met as they should be.

I know that when I'm in a relationship I would have sex 3 or 4 times a day if it was possible. My desire for the other person sexually is great and I find myself being compelled towards sex.

Communication is the key to our relationship. When it comes to satisfying each other sexually, each must communicate what they want from each other and be spontaneous and open to going for it. Sex is animalistic and should be a natural thing. Not too much thinking should come into it. As a man it is up to us to action and escalate things towards our mutual desire.

There needs not be a taboo when it comes to sex. Society created taboos and I believe it has hurt us more than set ourselves free.

As men we need to take precaution use protection and not fear sex rather we should enjoy it. We must remember that we hold the keys to having great sex and those keys hold the success to the relationship.

Enjoy

Mark

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