The Ultimate Goal - Be a Man of Value

Your birth right is to become a Man. Your ultimate quest in life is to become a Man of Value.

To understand what it means to be a Man of Value we need to dig deep and unearth things to gain clarity and understanding.

We have talked about being a Man, we've defines what it is to be a Man and we've discussed about having your needs and desires met.

A Man of Value is a man who lives his life in his own principles, isn't afraid to let others know what they are and is mature and open minded when it comes to other peoples affairs.

He does not get caught up in emotions or gossip for the sake of making others look bad he does not need to engage in that at all.

I have listen to a few dating mentors who have offered valid advice on women and manhood.
They all offer the same advice when taking the journey of becoming a Man of principle.

Traits found in a Man of Value:

1) Believes he is the most important person in the relationship not the woman.

2) Thinks for himself. Does not try to please the woman for his own benefit.

3) Does not lie.

4) Tells the truth. Live fully honest.

5) Is not afraid of what others might think of him.

6) Does not engage in gossip. Has trust of others and is accepting.

7) Does not engage in bad mouthing others.

In the presence of a Woman:

8) Will not discuss past relationships with other women and politely says "I do not talk about other women" and keeps his relationships private. Giving women trust in himself that whatever happens he will not talk to others about what happened.

9) Takes full responsibility of what happens between himself and the woman. From Wearing protections, initiating sex etc. Even explains to her that he is of full responsibility for what ever happens in the interaction.

10) Is not afraid to discipline what he sees to be unfit behaviours of a women in a non-violent way. Also rewards good behaviour which is just as important.


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Mind Reader Solution - 3 Tips to get the girl

So I've been talking alot about sex, manhood and women. Today I want to speak into the mind of the highly intelligent guys out there who second guess approaching women and go into paralysis by analysis. It can happen to the best of us!

I'd like to call it "Mind reading". We become mind readers and believe we know everything about her. We stop ourselves doing the first thing we are meant to do. We hurt ourselves through generating fear and anxiety over a girl we don't even know yet.

Wouldn't you call this insanity? Except we think its normal. But the reality is...if we keep doing this we die a little each day.

We don't have to go over to the girl and win her over be entertaining her or by making her like us by acting a certain way. We have to be normal and honest. There is no need for fear.

F - False
E - Evidence
A - Appearing
R - Real

We create this illusion all in our mind that we are not good enough for her. We tell ourselves that she wouldn't like a guy like me. The pure reality is that you are enough for any girl. You just have to love yourself and lead with your dick. When you lead with your dick your feet move towards the girl you want. You strike a harmony between your dick and your feet. Action baby!

Here are 3 tips to help you out when it comes to spotting that girl you like the look of:

1) You see her. Smile and wave at her. Poke a face. Let her know you spotted her.

2) Don't think about her twice. Walk towards her and let her know you like her. She will think you are confidence and be drawn into you.

3) Give her your number and direct her to contact you. Tell her what you would like to do. eg. Go on a date or meet for coffee.

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Self Confidence - Critical to any Success

As I am writing this article I have a relaxed smile upon my face thinking of all the things that make life plain and simply good. All the bullshit of life goes way and you think "damn this life is good". Simple is better. I think we always knew that from the very start of our beginning in life. Along the way our mind picks up on things, we absorb the things that defines us. Maturity is knowing thy self and going into the world unafraid pursuing what we want with confidence.

The one problem today is its so damn noisey. As we are bombarded with things through media and other peoples opinions. We begin to buy into what others tell us to be the right way. Our freedom is dictated by external matters and we begin to not know thy self and rely on others opinions of us to form who we are.

It can be great at the top of the world and then one day you will find yourself come crashing down burning crying like a baby who has had his favourite toy stolen from him and wants it back! External gratification is a dangerous thing. Those who seek it can potentially go insane or soon realise its not all that it plays out to be.

You don't have to take my word for it just have a look at celebrities and their relationship with the media. The media makes them gods then the next day takes it all away leaving them to seek more godliness from them. This is not healthy this is insanity built on hype.

Ones self should be a constant. A man must be a constant in his own world and must love himself to receive love from others. How do you define confidence? Well I believe there is two forms of it. One is fleeting and the other is constant. But the paradox is that the constant interacts with a fleeting world and the fleeting interacts with fleeting chance hoping for a constant.

Those men that rely on external sources for confidence run into more problems then those who self generate from within in a constant wave. The two are miles apart in their own quest. First one wants validation and wants to know he is valid in the world externally and the other believes he is valid and goes forth in his own belief that he is enough.

I would like to address both these two forms of confidence (External confidence and Internal confidence) in further articles. In both these artcles you will gain a greater understand of yourself as a man and you will become conscious in yourself. The purpose is for you to learn and become a more fulfilled individual with greater understanding.

Why is Confidence important?
To be able to interact in the world you must have a level of self confidence. Confidence is attractive and magnetic. Real confidence shows to another person that deep down you have a healthy level of love and respect for your own yourself.

I strongly suggest you read The Fountainhead by Ayn Rand as you will probably have one of those aha moments. For those who are not into reading long books then this is not the book for you. Alternatively you can get a copy of the audiobook listen in your down time or dismiss it all together. Ayn Rand is a fantastic advocate of men being in love with themselves first in order to receive love from women. She wrote many books that preach this whole heartedly.

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Mark