Showing posts with label confidence. Show all posts
Showing posts with label confidence. Show all posts
Wednesday, 18 June 2014
Tuesday, 14 January 2014
Don Jon - Watch & Learn about Masculine ways
One of the most interesting things about Don Jon is the transformation of Jon around Barbara. His cocky confident exterior changes from a guy who is very sure of himself and what he wants into a guy who satisfies Barbara needs and desires instead of his own to get in her pants again and again. The relationship gets worse as Jon has to cover up his habits simple because Barbara does not like it. Jons masculinity and purpose fades as he becomes less sure of himself and his frustrations.
The last dialogue between Jon and Barbara makes it all clear when he realises she's selfish and is out for only herself.
Ultimately the good woman that changes a man is not one like Barbara but rather a woman like Esther who gives lovingly and openly with trust in the man. It makes him feel like the Man he truly should, that being one who is present and happy.
Jon mentions that him and Esther might not be the picture perfect couple in the eyes of society yet its a relationship much more full than any other he has had before and he wishes to continue as long as it will last.
The one message I got from the movie is to keep on your purpose and never forget yourself as being important. Don't sacrifice your own self for the stake of the pursuit of lust and desire.
You must stay true to yourself and find the girl who recognises you for who you are and worships you for who you are.
That lady who comes into your life is worth keeping.
The last dialogue between Jon and Barbara makes it all clear when he realises she's selfish and is out for only herself.
Ultimately the good woman that changes a man is not one like Barbara but rather a woman like Esther who gives lovingly and openly with trust in the man. It makes him feel like the Man he truly should, that being one who is present and happy.
Jon mentions that him and Esther might not be the picture perfect couple in the eyes of society yet its a relationship much more full than any other he has had before and he wishes to continue as long as it will last.
The one message I got from the movie is to keep on your purpose and never forget yourself as being important. Don't sacrifice your own self for the stake of the pursuit of lust and desire.
You must stay true to yourself and find the girl who recognises you for who you are and worships you for who you are.
That lady who comes into your life is worth keeping.
Monday, 13 January 2014
Only Think About Sex - Key to Arousal
Alot of smart people are talk about arousal as being a state and I agree entirely. They mention Mirror neurons and how as human beings we have the ability to tap into other people states and emotions just by looking at them. As new aged Men you are taught to be less sexual and not to think of women as object of sex. The reality is as a Man in pursuit of a woman you only need them for sex and everything else is pure time wasting. The only time you need a woman for something other than sex is if she is a business partner or your wife (take care of your children).
This is a huge wake up call to all you men out there. Don't let a woman talk you out of sleeping with her, she will look down on you as a lesser man for not pursuing her to the bedroom.
I want you to do one thing and that is to be creative. I want you to imagine her pleasing you sexually. Giving you a blowjob, lying down naked on your bed with her ass in the air, kissing you passionately, and feeling the pleasure that you both are having in the company of each other.
I believe if you focus on her and make sure you are turned on by her then she will be too.
Just like a woman when her pussy gets wet, when your dick is hard your instincts take over and you both become aroused.
If by chance she does not become aroused and want you then you focus on another girl and feel into her femininity.
As advanced human beings we forget that we are animals. We too are part of the animal kingdom. Intimacy is a natural thing we need to allow ourselves to enjoy.
All the best
This is a huge wake up call to all you men out there. Don't let a woman talk you out of sleeping with her, she will look down on you as a lesser man for not pursuing her to the bedroom.
I want you to do one thing and that is to be creative. I want you to imagine her pleasing you sexually. Giving you a blowjob, lying down naked on your bed with her ass in the air, kissing you passionately, and feeling the pleasure that you both are having in the company of each other.
I believe if you focus on her and make sure you are turned on by her then she will be too.
Just like a woman when her pussy gets wet, when your dick is hard your instincts take over and you both become aroused.
If by chance she does not become aroused and want you then you focus on another girl and feel into her femininity.
As advanced human beings we forget that we are animals. We too are part of the animal kingdom. Intimacy is a natural thing we need to allow ourselves to enjoy.
All the best
Friday, 27 December 2013
Dirty Talk - Whispering into her ear
All woman are beautiful creatures they are incredible Mothers and loyal lovers to the right man. Well who is this Man? What does he possess that makes her want to be his lover? It's simple. The man brings out the lover in her. He sees the Whore within her and bring it out in her. He know that if he doesn't then she will not be attracted towards him. But there is one problem. Social programming tell her that being a Whore in front of her friends and others will make her vulnerable to shaming, the very thing that subdues women from displaying attraction towards a man.
For a Man who feels attraction towards a woman its important you know that in order to make her feel like a woman in your presence, you must protect her reputation as a good girl and be wild with her in private.
One way of doing this very thing is to make the attraction between you and her a secret. Build anticipation and build the fantasy in her mind.
Whispering into her left ear (left ear being tap to emotions) will evoke sensual feelings towards you. It will turn her on.
5 Tips for when Whisper into her left ear:
1) Examine her and pick up on what turns you on about her. Then let her know. It can be erotic or subtly erotic.
2) Does she smell girly and nice. Tell her she smells incredible. Smell in one thing girls love to know.
3) Speak slowly and commanding.
4) If you feel comfortable with her something to do is while looking her in the eyes use your finger brush her hair behind her ear before you whisper into her ear.
5) After you have whisper into her left ear. Hold eye contact with her and even have a cheeky smile on your face. If you are in a group setting continue conversation with others normally smiling and occasionally looking back at her. Or if you feel in total dominance you don't need to smile just remain unphased. You now hold a secret between both of you.
This will not only turn you on being in your power as a man towards her but will of course make her become turned on. She will react by being silent and non-resistant, start blushing or hold onto you more tightly in anticipation.
For a Man who feels attraction towards a woman its important you know that in order to make her feel like a woman in your presence, you must protect her reputation as a good girl and be wild with her in private.
One way of doing this very thing is to make the attraction between you and her a secret. Build anticipation and build the fantasy in her mind.
Whispering into her left ear (left ear being tap to emotions) will evoke sensual feelings towards you. It will turn her on.
5 Tips for when Whisper into her left ear:
1) Examine her and pick up on what turns you on about her. Then let her know. It can be erotic or subtly erotic.
2) Does she smell girly and nice. Tell her she smells incredible. Smell in one thing girls love to know.
3) Speak slowly and commanding.
4) If you feel comfortable with her something to do is while looking her in the eyes use your finger brush her hair behind her ear before you whisper into her ear.
5) After you have whisper into her left ear. Hold eye contact with her and even have a cheeky smile on your face. If you are in a group setting continue conversation with others normally smiling and occasionally looking back at her. Or if you feel in total dominance you don't need to smile just remain unphased. You now hold a secret between both of you.
This will not only turn you on being in your power as a man towards her but will of course make her become turned on. She will react by being silent and non-resistant, start blushing or hold onto you more tightly in anticipation.
Friday, 6 December 2013
Pimp Mode - Be like Ice
You walk into the bar. Your sex drive is high and you have an air of dominance. In your mind you feel like the king and you want to have sex with a desirable girl. You act like the king. The king does not ask and demands.
I'm laughing so hard at reading this right now and it sounds like some kind of animalistic thing you'd see on the discovery channel. But what I'd like you to do is tap into that sexual energy you have as a man. That energy that gives you focus and intent. The energy which makes you polarising to woman. These women enjoy looking at you in the eyes and feeling that manliness coming out of you. She feels how secure you are about yourself and begins to feel attraction.
You are in pimp mode. If you are working 9-5 job week days and you venture out into the night in the weekend and perhaps occasionally you go mid-week with friends and you want to be good with women, you need to harvest this energy. Expressing confidence and dominance from within yourself. I am Man and I am enough.
5 Tips to Conjure Sexual Confidence and get into Pimp Mode:
1) Stop watching Porn and stop masturbating. This will kill your sexual confidence and will give you terrible side-effects that will kill your drive for a woman.
2) Exercise. Go to the gym or do push-up and sit-ups at home. This increase testosterone which is the hormone in us Men that is linked to our own sex drive.
3) Self Love. There is not a person around you who is better than you. You are a magnet and chicks just love your manliness. Your masculinity makes them wet. Just being in the presence of a woman and looking into her eyes she becomes attracted to you. Harvest these beliefs and know that they are true. Love yourself well and others will too.
4) Eye contact. When you are around attractive girls and communicating with them make sure you are looking at them in the eyes. You are the man, you've got nothing to hide. You are accepted for who you are and you are happy within yourself. She will love looking into your eyes and will become trusting of you.
5) Join a Club/sport/hobbyist group. This will get you outside your head. Being active and about will get you talking to other people. Connecting and conversing. You will be immersed in something you are passionate about and the people you meet will be like-minded sharing that passion.
Men cultivate your sex drive, it is your force with this world. Go forth and be polarising.
I'm laughing so hard at reading this right now and it sounds like some kind of animalistic thing you'd see on the discovery channel. But what I'd like you to do is tap into that sexual energy you have as a man. That energy that gives you focus and intent. The energy which makes you polarising to woman. These women enjoy looking at you in the eyes and feeling that manliness coming out of you. She feels how secure you are about yourself and begins to feel attraction.
You are in pimp mode. If you are working 9-5 job week days and you venture out into the night in the weekend and perhaps occasionally you go mid-week with friends and you want to be good with women, you need to harvest this energy. Expressing confidence and dominance from within yourself. I am Man and I am enough.
5 Tips to Conjure Sexual Confidence and get into Pimp Mode:
1) Stop watching Porn and stop masturbating. This will kill your sexual confidence and will give you terrible side-effects that will kill your drive for a woman.
2) Exercise. Go to the gym or do push-up and sit-ups at home. This increase testosterone which is the hormone in us Men that is linked to our own sex drive.
3) Self Love. There is not a person around you who is better than you. You are a magnet and chicks just love your manliness. Your masculinity makes them wet. Just being in the presence of a woman and looking into her eyes she becomes attracted to you. Harvest these beliefs and know that they are true. Love yourself well and others will too.
4) Eye contact. When you are around attractive girls and communicating with them make sure you are looking at them in the eyes. You are the man, you've got nothing to hide. You are accepted for who you are and you are happy within yourself. She will love looking into your eyes and will become trusting of you.
5) Join a Club/sport/hobbyist group. This will get you outside your head. Being active and about will get you talking to other people. Connecting and conversing. You will be immersed in something you are passionate about and the people you meet will be like-minded sharing that passion.
Men cultivate your sex drive, it is your force with this world. Go forth and be polarising.
Tuesday, 19 November 2013
LEAD, Follow or Get Out of the Way - Way of Life
When it comes to knowing thy self its about your own happiness. Taking care of your own self in order to stay in your own happiness. You know what you like and you know what you dislike. You LEAD your own life.
The perk to knowledge of self and knowledge of your own happiness is having a girl who joins you for the ride. You take full responsible and she greatly complies with what is going on as she trusts the man that you are.
There exists three forms of living. Following others, getting out of the way of others and Leading. The highest form of living is leading your own life and enjoying it with the ones you choose to have in your life.
The other two forms are lower in my opinion because as Men we are the ones who need to make decisions whether it be informed decisions or instinctual decisions. We are the ones who take responsibility.
When you follow others, you are at the whim of others decisions. Their decisions may not be in the best interest of yourself. You are therefore giving up your birth right as a man. You are giving up your own instincts which are to protect and be independent.
The cost of following is your own happiness, your freedom, your respect and your own manhood comes into question by females who will test you for your leadership and strength.
Following is worse than getting out of the way. If you are not in agreement with someone else's decisions you can get out of their way. You allow them to go forth and you signal to them you don't want any part of it.
I recommend you read my article on "Penis Identity - Formulation of Being a Man". In this article I discuss the need for yourself as a male to know what makes you a Man. Forming your own identity on what it is to be a Man and establish your role in moving through life. This is an integral part of leading is having a knowledge of yourself as a Man.
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The perk to knowledge of self and knowledge of your own happiness is having a girl who joins you for the ride. You take full responsible and she greatly complies with what is going on as she trusts the man that you are.
There exists three forms of living. Following others, getting out of the way of others and Leading. The highest form of living is leading your own life and enjoying it with the ones you choose to have in your life.
The other two forms are lower in my opinion because as Men we are the ones who need to make decisions whether it be informed decisions or instinctual decisions. We are the ones who take responsibility.
When you follow others, you are at the whim of others decisions. Their decisions may not be in the best interest of yourself. You are therefore giving up your birth right as a man. You are giving up your own instincts which are to protect and be independent.
The cost of following is your own happiness, your freedom, your respect and your own manhood comes into question by females who will test you for your leadership and strength.
Following is worse than getting out of the way. If you are not in agreement with someone else's decisions you can get out of their way. You allow them to go forth and you signal to them you don't want any part of it.
I recommend you read my article on "Penis Identity - Formulation of Being a Man". In this article I discuss the need for yourself as a male to know what makes you a Man. Forming your own identity on what it is to be a Man and establish your role in moving through life. This is an integral part of leading is having a knowledge of yourself as a Man.
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Monday, 18 November 2013
High Self Esteem - Key to Success - 10 ways to increase your own Self Esteem
A Man's happiness is his own doing. Attraction is being happy and contempt within yourself as a Man.
A man is happy when he is doing what he enjoys in life and is on the path of happiness. He is solid and robust in himself. He has a fearlessness, goes about being honest and is contempt in speaking his own mind. He connects with others through honesty. He communicate to others what he likes and through doing so remains in High Self Esteem.
No other person can take away a mans happiness, only himself. Protecting his own happiness should be his primary objective. A Man who is happy is a man who is attractive and vibrant.
He holds a good energy within himself that he gives out to the world.
5 tips to raise and keep your Self Esteem high
1) Do the things that give you the most pleasure and joy. Eg. playing sport, going to gym, hanging out with friends.
2) Engage in male banter. Banter is testing each others ego. Ego check for guys. If you have a healthy ego you will remain unchanged and on your path. If you get knocked by banter you are not engaging in banter correctly.
3) Smile and enjoy everything you do. If you aren't enjoying the process of doing something then make it fun and enjoyable for yourself.
4) Listen to music that makes you tap or dance. The music that makes you feel alive inside.
5) Get outside in the sunlight. Sunlight gives our skin Vitamin D important for mental health.
6) Compliment others for things you like about them. eg. Compliment a woman for looking fantastic in your eyes and being desirable to you. Tell a friend something you respect about him in accordance to the way you like to live as well.
7) Do not allow people especially girls to mother you. A man's self esteem is his own. It is important that he is in control of his own self esteem. When someone mothers you, its often their own insecurities coming out onto you. You do what makes you happy. If others are giving you advice this is a red flag. They are trying to control your life or they are in the belief that you are unhappy or threatening their own. Healthy people give advice to others only in the objective of helping others to preserve their own happiness.
8) Be grateful to others who cater to your needs and desires.
9) Preserve your sexual energy and evoke it. You can preserve you sexual energy by not masturbating so much and eating healthy. Things like beer promote more testosterone. Evoke sexual energy by complimenting a woman on how she makes you feel and by enjoying her.
10) Knowledge of self. Know what you like and know what you dislike. The more you know what you like and dislike the more time you spend doing the things you enjoy.
With High Self Esteem you are bullet proof in a world full of people who are very insecure about themselves. When you are secure in yourself that energy is attractive to be around.
Its all about practising Self happiness and going about in the world. As hard as it may sound Nobody cares for you, only you can care for yourself. You should be deeply in love with yourself. Every successful person in life has become successful through the love from themselves. When you love yourself and are secure with yourself you have a greater connection with others who can feel that energy coming off you.
Go forth and enjoy every single thing you do is this world and do everything for yourself.
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A man is happy when he is doing what he enjoys in life and is on the path of happiness. He is solid and robust in himself. He has a fearlessness, goes about being honest and is contempt in speaking his own mind. He connects with others through honesty. He communicate to others what he likes and through doing so remains in High Self Esteem.
No other person can take away a mans happiness, only himself. Protecting his own happiness should be his primary objective. A Man who is happy is a man who is attractive and vibrant.
He holds a good energy within himself that he gives out to the world.
5 tips to raise and keep your Self Esteem high
1) Do the things that give you the most pleasure and joy. Eg. playing sport, going to gym, hanging out with friends.
2) Engage in male banter. Banter is testing each others ego. Ego check for guys. If you have a healthy ego you will remain unchanged and on your path. If you get knocked by banter you are not engaging in banter correctly.
3) Smile and enjoy everything you do. If you aren't enjoying the process of doing something then make it fun and enjoyable for yourself.
4) Listen to music that makes you tap or dance. The music that makes you feel alive inside.
5) Get outside in the sunlight. Sunlight gives our skin Vitamin D important for mental health.
6) Compliment others for things you like about them. eg. Compliment a woman for looking fantastic in your eyes and being desirable to you. Tell a friend something you respect about him in accordance to the way you like to live as well.
7) Do not allow people especially girls to mother you. A man's self esteem is his own. It is important that he is in control of his own self esteem. When someone mothers you, its often their own insecurities coming out onto you. You do what makes you happy. If others are giving you advice this is a red flag. They are trying to control your life or they are in the belief that you are unhappy or threatening their own. Healthy people give advice to others only in the objective of helping others to preserve their own happiness.
8) Be grateful to others who cater to your needs and desires.
9) Preserve your sexual energy and evoke it. You can preserve you sexual energy by not masturbating so much and eating healthy. Things like beer promote more testosterone. Evoke sexual energy by complimenting a woman on how she makes you feel and by enjoying her.
10) Knowledge of self. Know what you like and know what you dislike. The more you know what you like and dislike the more time you spend doing the things you enjoy.
With High Self Esteem you are bullet proof in a world full of people who are very insecure about themselves. When you are secure in yourself that energy is attractive to be around.
Its all about practising Self happiness and going about in the world. As hard as it may sound Nobody cares for you, only you can care for yourself. You should be deeply in love with yourself. Every successful person in life has become successful through the love from themselves. When you love yourself and are secure with yourself you have a greater connection with others who can feel that energy coming off you.
Go forth and enjoy every single thing you do is this world and do everything for yourself.
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Wednesday, 13 November 2013
Honesty - The Language of being an Attractive Man
If you were told to only learn just one thing to do well with life and women. It's always be honest. I remember an old acquaintance once told me a story. He told me when he was growing up he admired his grandfather. He had his life in order and was loved by those who cared about him and also had fewer good friends. One day he asked his Grandfather what is the secret to be him. He told him being a Man. Major part of being a Man is being honest.
"You must be able to look a person in the eyes and tell them what you honesty think about them."
I like to think of this as the key to anyone life. Always be honest. People talk about having good body language, improving confidence and being an attractive guy. You might as well forget it. You have to master honesty in order to be a better person. You have to communicate what you are thinking about.
Always be honest! Sometimes you might not say what you are thinking but allow yourself to think it. I know this sounds completely stupid. But media and social pressure can suppress our thoughts.
Allow yourself to have any thoughts. Allow them to surface.
Be honest. If you find this hard? I have an exercise for you.
A day of honesty - Honest exercise
Commit to a day of being honest with the objective of only being honest not being pleasing (only being honest). Speak your mind. Whatever you say stand behind it. If you say you will do something go through with it and do it. Become honest then people trust your character, your consistency and can trust you.
You might realise that you lie alot. You say the exact opposite of what you are thinking. Due to guilt or a fear of being judged. DO NOT HAVE THIS! It not only imprisons you, it imprisons those around you and makes them feel like they can say whatever they are thinking.
The more honest you are the more you find people are exactly the same as you. You realise people are being suppressed and by your very nature of being unfiltered you release them. Suppression leads to anxiety which causes havoc on your body. You will have a much more relaxed life, you will have the people in your life who fulfils yours needs. People who you thought were good friends may drift apart with you naturally and you realise they weren't serving you at all.
Honesty brings out boldness, kindness, genuine compliments, creativity, intelligence, and all the good things. Honesty also tells others what you don't like. Tells other about your own personal boundaries crucial to getting respect from others.
Mark
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"You must be able to look a person in the eyes and tell them what you honesty think about them."
I like to think of this as the key to anyone life. Always be honest. People talk about having good body language, improving confidence and being an attractive guy. You might as well forget it. You have to master honesty in order to be a better person. You have to communicate what you are thinking about.
Always be honest! Sometimes you might not say what you are thinking but allow yourself to think it. I know this sounds completely stupid. But media and social pressure can suppress our thoughts.
Allow yourself to have any thoughts. Allow them to surface.
Be honest. If you find this hard? I have an exercise for you.
A day of honesty - Honest exercise
Commit to a day of being honest with the objective of only being honest not being pleasing (only being honest). Speak your mind. Whatever you say stand behind it. If you say you will do something go through with it and do it. Become honest then people trust your character, your consistency and can trust you.
You might realise that you lie alot. You say the exact opposite of what you are thinking. Due to guilt or a fear of being judged. DO NOT HAVE THIS! It not only imprisons you, it imprisons those around you and makes them feel like they can say whatever they are thinking.
The more honest you are the more you find people are exactly the same as you. You realise people are being suppressed and by your very nature of being unfiltered you release them. Suppression leads to anxiety which causes havoc on your body. You will have a much more relaxed life, you will have the people in your life who fulfils yours needs. People who you thought were good friends may drift apart with you naturally and you realise they weren't serving you at all.
Honesty brings out boldness, kindness, genuine compliments, creativity, intelligence, and all the good things. Honesty also tells others what you don't like. Tells other about your own personal boundaries crucial to getting respect from others.
Mark
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Thursday, 31 October 2013
*Must Read* Stages of Self - Dependence, Independence and Interdependence
We all have a life journey which can be considered very similar. We are born to a Mother and Father who we depend upon. Who teaches us the ways of being. As men our fathers teach us what it is to be a Man and what it means to carry the family name.
Our life has a natural cycle of self and connection with your chosen partner. Alot of Men out there are stuck in dependence and are seeking a relationship with a woman going straight into Interdependence. This is not going to happen. As a Man you have to stand on your own feet. You have to be able to live without a woman and become independent in order to meet a girl who will move you into Interdependence. Interdependence is a relationship where both individuals are independent and come together to share themselves with each other with an understanding that their own happiness is their own responsibility.
Signs of being in Dependence:
- Listening to others opinions
- Caring what others think of you
- Are in group-think
- Does not like being alone
- Seeks comfort in unfamiliar places
Signs of being in Independence:
- Has formed own set of rules in life
- Enjoys his own company
- Loves own self and does not need to be validation
- Feels they are enough
- Fearless
- Makes own decisions
- Leads own life
- Does not think for others
- Believes he is the most important person in his life.
Signs of being in Interdependence:
- Still independent
- Able to make decision for both in the relationship.
- Does not jeopardise own happiness in relationship.
Stages of Life
1st 2nd 3rd
Dependence => Independence => Interdependence
If you are wanting to attract a woman you must be a strong independent man who is on his own path and journey in his life. If you are stuck in dependence you must transform yourself and life into Independence. With Independence comes confidence and belief in ones own self. Love who you are, set boundaries around you, enjoy your own freedom and be in control of your own self. Men who are independent minded are naturally more attractive, safe, secure, likeable, trustworthy, own their what they say, have purpose and have a compass in life. All the qualities and hallmarks of a Man.
Mark
Our life has a natural cycle of self and connection with your chosen partner. Alot of Men out there are stuck in dependence and are seeking a relationship with a woman going straight into Interdependence. This is not going to happen. As a Man you have to stand on your own feet. You have to be able to live without a woman and become independent in order to meet a girl who will move you into Interdependence. Interdependence is a relationship where both individuals are independent and come together to share themselves with each other with an understanding that their own happiness is their own responsibility.
Signs of being in Dependence:
- Listening to others opinions
- Caring what others think of you
- Are in group-think
- Does not like being alone
- Seeks comfort in unfamiliar places
Signs of being in Independence:
- Has formed own set of rules in life
- Enjoys his own company
- Loves own self and does not need to be validation
- Feels they are enough
- Fearless
- Makes own decisions
- Leads own life
- Does not think for others
- Believes he is the most important person in his life.
Signs of being in Interdependence:
- Still independent
- Able to make decision for both in the relationship.
- Does not jeopardise own happiness in relationship.
Stages of Life
1st 2nd 3rd
Dependence => Independence => Interdependence
If you are wanting to attract a woman you must be a strong independent man who is on his own path and journey in his life. If you are stuck in dependence you must transform yourself and life into Independence. With Independence comes confidence and belief in ones own self. Love who you are, set boundaries around you, enjoy your own freedom and be in control of your own self. Men who are independent minded are naturally more attractive, safe, secure, likeable, trustworthy, own their what they say, have purpose and have a compass in life. All the qualities and hallmarks of a Man.
Mark
Monday, 28 October 2013
Always Compliment a Woman - 5 tips to help you become fearless
Guy are attracted by beauty and girls are attracted to how a guy makes them feel. Honesty is the best way forward.
When a guy sees a woman and something about the way she appears to him makes his desires run wild this is a good thing, this is natural.
Somewhere guys thought it was wrong to compliment a woman. I believe if you are genuine and come from a honest place then your compliments will be always spot on.
You like what you see and you let her know what you like about her.
A woman's beauty is a fantastic thing and needs to be admired. Women go to lengths to pretty themselves up for guys.
They make themselves look great for you and you don't even notice? There has to be something wrong when as a Man can't speak his mind.
Let her know what you think about her. Tell her what you like about the way she looks. If you are attracted to her then you let her know! Whatever comes into your mind when you see her come right out and say it to her.
I've only ever had girls blush when I tell them how they look to me. I've never been hit or loud mouthed back. You speak the truth, you have nothing to fear.
Honesty can turn a girl on.
Here are 5 tips to help you when complimenting a woman:
1) Examine her. Take in her beauty.
2) Let her run into your body. Allow your mind to wander and be turned on by her presence.
3) Don't think what she might think about your compliment. Don't second guess yourself. There is no such thing as fear. She is just a woman and you don't need to put her on a pedestal.
4) Tell her what you like about her. Give her that compliment. Compliment is anything that you like about her.
5) Enjoy her and don't fall back on what you say. Own what you've said, no need to defend yourself and if she blushes that's perfect. You've just hit her sweet spot where she doesn't know what to say and her mind has come out of autopilot response.
You should only compliment a woman when it is genuine and when there is something about her that turns you on. Hallow compliments women easily see through. Only give genuine compliments to a woman. Honesty spoken allows great things to happen.
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When a guy sees a woman and something about the way she appears to him makes his desires run wild this is a good thing, this is natural.
Somewhere guys thought it was wrong to compliment a woman. I believe if you are genuine and come from a honest place then your compliments will be always spot on.
You like what you see and you let her know what you like about her.
A woman's beauty is a fantastic thing and needs to be admired. Women go to lengths to pretty themselves up for guys.
They make themselves look great for you and you don't even notice? There has to be something wrong when as a Man can't speak his mind.
Let her know what you think about her. Tell her what you like about the way she looks. If you are attracted to her then you let her know! Whatever comes into your mind when you see her come right out and say it to her.
I've only ever had girls blush when I tell them how they look to me. I've never been hit or loud mouthed back. You speak the truth, you have nothing to fear.
Honesty can turn a girl on.
Here are 5 tips to help you when complimenting a woman:
1) Examine her. Take in her beauty.
2) Let her run into your body. Allow your mind to wander and be turned on by her presence.
3) Don't think what she might think about your compliment. Don't second guess yourself. There is no such thing as fear. She is just a woman and you don't need to put her on a pedestal.
4) Tell her what you like about her. Give her that compliment. Compliment is anything that you like about her.
5) Enjoy her and don't fall back on what you say. Own what you've said, no need to defend yourself and if she blushes that's perfect. You've just hit her sweet spot where she doesn't know what to say and her mind has come out of autopilot response.
You should only compliment a woman when it is genuine and when there is something about her that turns you on. Hallow compliments women easily see through. Only give genuine compliments to a woman. Honesty spoken allows great things to happen.
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Sunday, 27 October 2013
Building Confidence - Self Love
I AM ENOUGH.
This statement is never truer when it comes to gaining respect from others. You must love yourself more than others love you. You are the only person who can love yourself. People who say life is important are right. No one else thinks your life is important only you know it is.
Time is precious. You have little time on this earth so you have to enjoy every minute of it. When you love yourself you demonstrate to others how you want to be treated. A lack of confidence allows others to walk right over you with no hesitation or remorse. They see your value as less than their own. You enjoy any banter and you never lose your self confidence. You are "The Man" you know yourself better than anyone else.
Its not surprising that girls number one attribute in a male is confidence. With self confidence you have less fear and you go for what you want. Having self confidence makes you feel like you are on top of the world. You are always feeling your best.
5 Tips for building self confidence. Do the things you love and make you feel positive.
1) Join a gym or work out at home. It's important for men to be physical and get exercise.
2) Play a sport.
3) Join some kind of club.
4) Eat healthy. Food is huge factor in state of mind.
5) Go out more. Be positive and meet new people. Compliment women tell them what you like about how they look. First impressions count.
The key to confidence is getting out of your head and walking around in a positive mood, allow yourself to appreciate things and communicate to others what you are thinking. Honesty goes a long way. You shouldn't be afraid of what others are thinking. You can only think for yourself.
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Thursday, 24 October 2013
The Rules of meeting
As males with testosterone pumping through our body when it comes to meeting a girl we act like a bull behind a gate already to unleash ourselves on them. We want to get the girl right away and bed her as soon as possible. This can be detrimental when it comes to getting with woman.
We forget our manners. We forget she's a person. We also forget she's got things other than you on her mind.
When meeting a woman for the first time you have to always be considerate towards her while directing her towards your ultimate goal of being with her. When your mum said that manners are important. She was right. Particularly when you meet an attractive girl for the first time. You meet her, you then talk to her and then you direct her by giving your number and telling her what you'd like to do next with her. Then she has the power to pursuit you if she liked you.
1)Meet
Hi my name is....
2)Talk
I couldn't help take my eyes off you and had to come say hello.
3)Direct
Here is my number I'd like to hang out with you some time. Enjoy the rest of your evening.
Simple and authentic. Doing this makes a statement and takes away any games that girls like to play with a guy.
Mark
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The Lion - Rules of Attraction
The qualities of a Lion are admirable. He is the king of his pride and he only eats and has sex with any of the females who fulfil his need. He runs the pride based on his presence. He doesn't even need to hunt for his food, he has his females to do that for him. This is the kingdom of the animal. This is the way of life.
We forget that we are no different. We choose to believe as human males we are different from the lion. The truth is we are no different at all. For most of us males we have forgotten the simple fact that we are the lion, that same kind of animal and is within us Men. We are the kings. We are the champions of our own lives. The rulers of our own state of mind. Our mind is of an animal and its only modern society that has complicated our minds, its our minds that have complicated attraction and it is our own animalistic mind that sets us free.
The secret is no secret at all. Switch your thinking off and allow your animal mind to take over. When you do that you go straight up to a woman and tell her what you are thinking. You feel it in your body. She makes you call to the wild. Feel how she makes you excited. You walk up to her and express how you feel.
When you think, you stop that animal in you. You think more than you have to and you die. You die inside. That animal knows it. When you she a female who turns you on and you feel turned on. She's entered your animal body. Get out of your animals way and let the animal go forth and express. You leave her with your contact details and you leave. She knows you like her, you make her feels different just by your approach which is mindless and coming from the lion heart, then you walk off and leave her be. You aren't like most guys out there. You are a champion. You are a Lion.
You take her power away and she has to come to you. You who is the king of your realm.
Just like a Vampire who needs to be invited in. She lets you know. The lion in you takes care of the rest.
Enjoy Gentlemen
Always remember that you are the lion. You are the king of the wilderness. Go looking for the Queen who can take care of your needs and desires. Everything else is silly games that need not be played. You hold all the cards. You are "The Man" that every woman wants to be with.
Any other thoughts going through you mind is false and isn't needed. So get rid of it. Only think like the Lion.
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Monday, 21 October 2013
Confident Men - Part 1: External Confidence Seeker
Here is part one of the two part articles that I am releasing to my readers about male confidence and the fact that there exists two types. The External Confidence seeker and the Internal Confident Man.
External Confidence Seeker
What you are about to read is the honest truth and will set you free in the world. Once you realise that you fit into this archetype, realise its been programmed into you and you can become aware of what's happening and change things for yourself.
The external confidence seeker is a guy who is reactive to the environment he exists within. He is totally at odds with what is going on around him and reacts to what comes his way. He will not only be emotionally attached to girls, he will believe he can read minds of people and be afraid to speak his own mind to those around him. Because of this he tends to be silent and lash out on those closest to him and loves to complain and vent his frustrations of others. Why?
Because he believes that if he invests his time and money into others, he believes that they owe his for that. He believes giving his resources out to the world makes him entitled by others. There is a huge problem...he doesn't communicate very well so those around him, people view him as being very passive and at times erratic in his mood. If things don't go his way eventually this type of guy gets angry and frustrated.
Girls know that there are guys out there that will buy them what they want to be with them. They know that these guys will try buy their validation as a worth sexual partner and she will happily continue dating this guy for his gifts and money. He will not fulfil her need for his leadership and her sexual desire to be wild. But the most important thing is...he will not be overtly sexual with her. This is bad for him. He won't know if she finds him attractive, he doesn't communicate that he is sexually interested in her and instead acts friendly towards her and turns the girl off sexually or worst of all the girl sees him as an opportunity to use him for his money.
5 things these guys need to know:
1) Don't be afraid of what a woman will say to you.
2) Say whats on your mind and tell them what you are thinking. Honesty!
3) Don't use your money or invest into the girl before you get to know her alot better and that means sexually.
4) Don't be afraid of thinking dirty thoughts about her, she will be thinking the same thing so let her know and unleash her wild side.
5) Compliment her on how she looks and look her up and down like you are studying every part of her body. Allow yourself to be turned on by her. A girl likes a guy who likes the way they look.
Remember: When a guy doesn't communicate or be firm with a woman then she will play up on him. She will order him around and demand respect by disrespecting him and if he doesn't stand up his happiness is in jeopardy. He needs to command respect from her by being upfront and honest while remaining in a controlled state of mind (A man's happiness is his own.) It's not your job to make her happy, its your job to make her feel special and sexy.
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External Confidence Seeker
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| Referred to as The "Nice guy", "The Friend" and the "Beta male". |
The external confidence seeker is a guy who is reactive to the environment he exists within. He is totally at odds with what is going on around him and reacts to what comes his way. He will not only be emotionally attached to girls, he will believe he can read minds of people and be afraid to speak his own mind to those around him. Because of this he tends to be silent and lash out on those closest to him and loves to complain and vent his frustrations of others. Why?
Because he believes that if he invests his time and money into others, he believes that they owe his for that. He believes giving his resources out to the world makes him entitled by others. There is a huge problem...he doesn't communicate very well so those around him, people view him as being very passive and at times erratic in his mood. If things don't go his way eventually this type of guy gets angry and frustrated.
Girls know that there are guys out there that will buy them what they want to be with them. They know that these guys will try buy their validation as a worth sexual partner and she will happily continue dating this guy for his gifts and money. He will not fulfil her need for his leadership and her sexual desire to be wild. But the most important thing is...he will not be overtly sexual with her. This is bad for him. He won't know if she finds him attractive, he doesn't communicate that he is sexually interested in her and instead acts friendly towards her and turns the girl off sexually or worst of all the girl sees him as an opportunity to use him for his money.
5 things these guys need to know:
1) Don't be afraid of what a woman will say to you.
2) Say whats on your mind and tell them what you are thinking. Honesty!
3) Don't use your money or invest into the girl before you get to know her alot better and that means sexually.
4) Don't be afraid of thinking dirty thoughts about her, she will be thinking the same thing so let her know and unleash her wild side.
5) Compliment her on how she looks and look her up and down like you are studying every part of her body. Allow yourself to be turned on by her. A girl likes a guy who likes the way they look.
Remember: When a guy doesn't communicate or be firm with a woman then she will play up on him. She will order him around and demand respect by disrespecting him and if he doesn't stand up his happiness is in jeopardy. He needs to command respect from her by being upfront and honest while remaining in a controlled state of mind (A man's happiness is his own.) It's not your job to make her happy, its your job to make her feel special and sexy.
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