*Must Read* Only Dating and Relationship advice you need as a Man

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Don Jon - Watch & Learn about Masculine ways

One of the most interesting things about Don Jon is the transformation of Jon around Barbara. His cocky confident exterior changes from a guy who is very sure of himself and what he wants into a guy who satisfies Barbara needs and desires instead of his own to get in her pants again and again. The relationship gets worse as Jon has to cover up his habits simple because Barbara does not like it. Jons masculinity and purpose fades as he becomes less sure of himself and his frustrations.

The last dialogue between Jon and Barbara makes it all clear when he realises she's selfish and is out for only herself.

Ultimately the good woman that changes a man is not one like Barbara but rather a woman like Esther who gives lovingly and openly with trust in the man. It makes him feel like the Man he truly should, that being one who is present and happy.

Jon mentions that him and Esther might not be the picture perfect couple in the eyes of society yet its a relationship much more full than any other he has had before and he wishes to continue as long as it will last.

The one message I got from the movie is to keep on your purpose and never forget yourself as being important. Don't sacrifice your own self for the stake of the pursuit of lust and desire.

You must stay true to yourself and find the girl who recognises you for who you are and worships you for who you are.

That lady who comes into your life is worth keeping.

Only Think About Sex - Key to Arousal

Alot of smart people are talk about arousal as being a state and I agree entirely. They mention Mirror neurons and how as human beings we have the ability to tap into other people states and emotions just by looking at them. As new aged Men you are taught to be less sexual and not to think of women as object of sex. The reality is as a Man in pursuit of a woman you only need them for sex and everything else is pure time wasting. The only time you need a woman for something other than sex is if she is a business partner or your wife (take care of your children).

This is a huge wake up call to all you men out there. Don't let a woman talk you out of sleeping with her, she will look down on you as a lesser man for not pursuing her to the bedroom.

I want you to do one thing and that is to be creative. I want you to imagine her pleasing you sexually. Giving you a blowjob, lying down naked on your bed with her ass in the air, kissing you passionately, and feeling the pleasure that you both are having in the company of each other.

I believe if you focus on her and make sure you are turned on by her then she will be too.

Just like a woman when her pussy gets wet, when your dick is hard your instincts take over and you both become aroused.

If by chance she does not become aroused and want you then you focus on another girl and feel into her femininity.

As advanced human beings we forget that we are animals. We too are part of the animal kingdom. Intimacy is a natural thing we need to allow ourselves to enjoy.

All the best

Dirty Talk - Whispering into her ear

All woman are beautiful creatures they are incredible Mothers and loyal lovers to the right man. Well who is this Man? What does he possess that makes her want to be his lover? It's simple. The man brings out the lover in her. He sees the Whore within her and bring it out in her. He know that if he doesn't then she will not be attracted towards him. But there is one problem. Social programming tell her that being a Whore in front of her friends and others will make her vulnerable to shaming, the very thing that subdues women from displaying attraction towards a man. 

For a Man who feels attraction towards a woman its important you know that in order to make her feel like a woman in your presence, you must protect her reputation as a good girl and be wild with her in private.

One way of doing this very thing is to make the attraction between you and her a secret. Build anticipation and build the fantasy in her mind.

Whispering into her left ear (left ear being tap to emotions) will evoke sensual feelings towards you. It will turn her on.

5 Tips for when Whisper into her left ear:

1) Examine her and pick up on what turns you on about her. Then let her know. It can be erotic or subtly erotic.

2) Does she smell girly and nice. Tell her she smells incredible. Smell in one thing girls love to know.

3) Speak slowly and commanding.

4) If you feel comfortable with her something to do is while looking her in the eyes use your finger brush her hair behind her ear before you whisper into her ear.

5) After you have whisper into her left ear. Hold eye contact with her and even have a cheeky smile on your face. If you are in a group setting continue conversation with others normally smiling and occasionally looking back at her. Or if you feel in total dominance you don't need to smile just remain unphased. You now hold a secret between both of you.

This will not only turn you on being in your power as a man towards her but will of course make her become turned on. She will react by being silent and non-resistant, start blushing or hold onto you more tightly in anticipation.

Pimp Mode - Be like Ice

You walk into the bar. Your sex drive is high and you have an air of dominance. In your mind you feel like the king and you want to have sex with a desirable girl. You act like the king. The king does not ask and demands. 

I'm laughing so hard at reading this right now and it sounds like some kind of animalistic thing you'd see on the discovery channel. But what I'd like you to do is tap into that sexual energy you have as a man. That energy that gives you focus and intent. The energy which makes you polarising to woman. These women enjoy looking at you in the eyes and feeling that manliness coming out of you. She feels how secure you are about yourself and begins to feel attraction.

You are in pimp mode. If you are working 9-5 job week days and you venture out into the night in the weekend and perhaps occasionally you go mid-week with friends and you want to be good with women, you need to harvest this energy. Expressing confidence and dominance from within yourself. I am Man and I am enough.

5 Tips to Conjure Sexual Confidence and get into Pimp Mode:

1) Stop watching Porn and stop masturbating. This will kill your sexual confidence and will give you terrible side-effects that will kill your drive for a woman.

2) Exercise. Go to the gym or do push-up and sit-ups at home. This increase testosterone which is the hormone in us Men that is linked to our own sex drive.

3) Self Love. There is not a person around you who is better than you. You are a magnet and chicks just love your manliness. Your masculinity makes them wet. Just being in the presence of a woman and looking into her eyes she becomes attracted to you. Harvest these beliefs and know that they are true. Love yourself well and others will too.

4) Eye contact. When you are around attractive girls and communicating with them make sure you are looking at them in the eyes. You are the man, you've got nothing to hide. You are accepted for who you are and you are happy within yourself. She will love looking into your eyes and will become trusting of you.

5) Join a Club/sport/hobbyist group. This will get you outside your head. Being active and about will get you talking to other people. Connecting and conversing. You will be immersed in something you are passionate about and the people you meet will be like-minded sharing that passion.  

Men cultivate your sex drive, it is your force with this world. Go forth and be polarising.

Qualities of a Relationship Worthy Woman - The One you want to lock-in

Men are alot more simple than women in needs. The quality of a woman all comes down to the way she treats you as a Man. The one quality that makes a woman of high value to her man is how she respects him. Its the respect she shows towards him that makes her extremely worthy to a Man.

I always believe a woman tests you all the time. She tests for your strength and for your presence. When a Man demands respect from his woman she respects him. He must respect himself in order to demand respect from her. 

Here are a list of the most important things we look for in women who are relationship potential:

1) Respect: She respects him greatly and does not test him too much. Makes her more feminine to him which makes him very attracted towards her.

2) Trust: She trusts him and never questions his own freedom. She allows him to go about doing what he enjoys and encourages him.

3) Nurturing and caring: She is nurturing and caring towards others. this quality is something us men find worthy in a woman and when we see it we feel that she would be a good mother to our children.

4) Social circle: A womans social circle tells alot about her to us. When it comes to having a relationship a woman that has a healthy social circle is attractive. If she has a social circle and hangs out with alot of males we don't find her worthy of being a girlfriend unless she changes.