A healthy man is attracted to the beauty of a woman. How many times can you recall seeing or talking to a woman and being in awe of her beauty. The way she looks and the way she smells. Her beauty and her feminine energy radiating off of her. But you refuse to see and feel her within you. You disregard and ignore the feeling rather than tap into it and utilise that sexual feeling you are having towards her and enjoy her.
Whether you are single, married, or in a relationship you should never stop admiring the beauty of a woman. I believe if you do, you die a little inside. Men were born to sow their seeds in many different fields and it does not mean we have to, yet we must understand that our minds are programmed to seek out and explore other women.
Women like to be desired by Men. They spend alot of time making themselves look pretty and beautiful. They want to attract you!
Women work hard for the attention of a Man. Every healthy women loves a genuine compliment from a Man.
So I'm telling you this for your own good.
Never stop admiring the beauty of a Woman.
Wednesday, 20 November 2013
Tuesday, 19 November 2013
LEAD, Follow or Get Out of the Way - Way of Life
When it comes to knowing thy self its about your own happiness. Taking care of your own self in order to stay in your own happiness. You know what you like and you know what you dislike. You LEAD your own life.
The perk to knowledge of self and knowledge of your own happiness is having a girl who joins you for the ride. You take full responsible and she greatly complies with what is going on as she trusts the man that you are.
There exists three forms of living. Following others, getting out of the way of others and Leading. The highest form of living is leading your own life and enjoying it with the ones you choose to have in your life.
The other two forms are lower in my opinion because as Men we are the ones who need to make decisions whether it be informed decisions or instinctual decisions. We are the ones who take responsibility.
When you follow others, you are at the whim of others decisions. Their decisions may not be in the best interest of yourself. You are therefore giving up your birth right as a man. You are giving up your own instincts which are to protect and be independent.
The cost of following is your own happiness, your freedom, your respect and your own manhood comes into question by females who will test you for your leadership and strength.
Following is worse than getting out of the way. If you are not in agreement with someone else's decisions you can get out of their way. You allow them to go forth and you signal to them you don't want any part of it.
I recommend you read my article on "Penis Identity - Formulation of Being a Man". In this article I discuss the need for yourself as a male to know what makes you a Man. Forming your own identity on what it is to be a Man and establish your role in moving through life. This is an integral part of leading is having a knowledge of yourself as a Man.
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The perk to knowledge of self and knowledge of your own happiness is having a girl who joins you for the ride. You take full responsible and she greatly complies with what is going on as she trusts the man that you are.
There exists three forms of living. Following others, getting out of the way of others and Leading. The highest form of living is leading your own life and enjoying it with the ones you choose to have in your life.
The other two forms are lower in my opinion because as Men we are the ones who need to make decisions whether it be informed decisions or instinctual decisions. We are the ones who take responsibility.
When you follow others, you are at the whim of others decisions. Their decisions may not be in the best interest of yourself. You are therefore giving up your birth right as a man. You are giving up your own instincts which are to protect and be independent.
The cost of following is your own happiness, your freedom, your respect and your own manhood comes into question by females who will test you for your leadership and strength.
Following is worse than getting out of the way. If you are not in agreement with someone else's decisions you can get out of their way. You allow them to go forth and you signal to them you don't want any part of it.
I recommend you read my article on "Penis Identity - Formulation of Being a Man". In this article I discuss the need for yourself as a male to know what makes you a Man. Forming your own identity on what it is to be a Man and establish your role in moving through life. This is an integral part of leading is having a knowledge of yourself as a Man.
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Monday, 18 November 2013
High Self Esteem - Key to Success - 10 ways to increase your own Self Esteem
A Man's happiness is his own doing. Attraction is being happy and contempt within yourself as a Man.
A man is happy when he is doing what he enjoys in life and is on the path of happiness. He is solid and robust in himself. He has a fearlessness, goes about being honest and is contempt in speaking his own mind. He connects with others through honesty. He communicate to others what he likes and through doing so remains in High Self Esteem.
No other person can take away a mans happiness, only himself. Protecting his own happiness should be his primary objective. A Man who is happy is a man who is attractive and vibrant.
He holds a good energy within himself that he gives out to the world.
5 tips to raise and keep your Self Esteem high
1) Do the things that give you the most pleasure and joy. Eg. playing sport, going to gym, hanging out with friends.
2) Engage in male banter. Banter is testing each others ego. Ego check for guys. If you have a healthy ego you will remain unchanged and on your path. If you get knocked by banter you are not engaging in banter correctly.
3) Smile and enjoy everything you do. If you aren't enjoying the process of doing something then make it fun and enjoyable for yourself.
4) Listen to music that makes you tap or dance. The music that makes you feel alive inside.
5) Get outside in the sunlight. Sunlight gives our skin Vitamin D important for mental health.
6) Compliment others for things you like about them. eg. Compliment a woman for looking fantastic in your eyes and being desirable to you. Tell a friend something you respect about him in accordance to the way you like to live as well.
7) Do not allow people especially girls to mother you. A man's self esteem is his own. It is important that he is in control of his own self esteem. When someone mothers you, its often their own insecurities coming out onto you. You do what makes you happy. If others are giving you advice this is a red flag. They are trying to control your life or they are in the belief that you are unhappy or threatening their own. Healthy people give advice to others only in the objective of helping others to preserve their own happiness.
8) Be grateful to others who cater to your needs and desires.
9) Preserve your sexual energy and evoke it. You can preserve you sexual energy by not masturbating so much and eating healthy. Things like beer promote more testosterone. Evoke sexual energy by complimenting a woman on how she makes you feel and by enjoying her.
10) Knowledge of self. Know what you like and know what you dislike. The more you know what you like and dislike the more time you spend doing the things you enjoy.
With High Self Esteem you are bullet proof in a world full of people who are very insecure about themselves. When you are secure in yourself that energy is attractive to be around.
Its all about practising Self happiness and going about in the world. As hard as it may sound Nobody cares for you, only you can care for yourself. You should be deeply in love with yourself. Every successful person in life has become successful through the love from themselves. When you love yourself and are secure with yourself you have a greater connection with others who can feel that energy coming off you.
Go forth and enjoy every single thing you do is this world and do everything for yourself.
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A man is happy when he is doing what he enjoys in life and is on the path of happiness. He is solid and robust in himself. He has a fearlessness, goes about being honest and is contempt in speaking his own mind. He connects with others through honesty. He communicate to others what he likes and through doing so remains in High Self Esteem.
No other person can take away a mans happiness, only himself. Protecting his own happiness should be his primary objective. A Man who is happy is a man who is attractive and vibrant.
He holds a good energy within himself that he gives out to the world.
5 tips to raise and keep your Self Esteem high
1) Do the things that give you the most pleasure and joy. Eg. playing sport, going to gym, hanging out with friends.
2) Engage in male banter. Banter is testing each others ego. Ego check for guys. If you have a healthy ego you will remain unchanged and on your path. If you get knocked by banter you are not engaging in banter correctly.
3) Smile and enjoy everything you do. If you aren't enjoying the process of doing something then make it fun and enjoyable for yourself.
4) Listen to music that makes you tap or dance. The music that makes you feel alive inside.
5) Get outside in the sunlight. Sunlight gives our skin Vitamin D important for mental health.
6) Compliment others for things you like about them. eg. Compliment a woman for looking fantastic in your eyes and being desirable to you. Tell a friend something you respect about him in accordance to the way you like to live as well.
7) Do not allow people especially girls to mother you. A man's self esteem is his own. It is important that he is in control of his own self esteem. When someone mothers you, its often their own insecurities coming out onto you. You do what makes you happy. If others are giving you advice this is a red flag. They are trying to control your life or they are in the belief that you are unhappy or threatening their own. Healthy people give advice to others only in the objective of helping others to preserve their own happiness.
8) Be grateful to others who cater to your needs and desires.
9) Preserve your sexual energy and evoke it. You can preserve you sexual energy by not masturbating so much and eating healthy. Things like beer promote more testosterone. Evoke sexual energy by complimenting a woman on how she makes you feel and by enjoying her.
10) Knowledge of self. Know what you like and know what you dislike. The more you know what you like and dislike the more time you spend doing the things you enjoy.
With High Self Esteem you are bullet proof in a world full of people who are very insecure about themselves. When you are secure in yourself that energy is attractive to be around.
Its all about practising Self happiness and going about in the world. As hard as it may sound Nobody cares for you, only you can care for yourself. You should be deeply in love with yourself. Every successful person in life has become successful through the love from themselves. When you love yourself and are secure with yourself you have a greater connection with others who can feel that energy coming off you.
Go forth and enjoy every single thing you do is this world and do everything for yourself.
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Wednesday, 13 November 2013
Act normal - Be Yourself
You might have had that discussion with a Father, Uncle or elder where you ask them the big question: How do you get girls to like me? You get a really mind fucking answer. Be Yourself. Something that girls preach to guys.
I say its a mind fuck because to the nice guys out there it will keep you being the same. To all the asshole and jerks out there. Rock on. You've got more of a chance with being yourself and attracting girls.
In my last article Penis Identity - Formulation of Being a Man we explained the importance knowing what it means to be a Man and I gave out an important exercise to do. If you've not read this article I'd like you to read it.
Be Yourself. What does that mean? It means that you must be a Man and you must show your own character.
Live honest and be the person you are meant to be. Be true to yourself. When it comes to interacting with people be normal. Act normal.
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I say its a mind fuck because to the nice guys out there it will keep you being the same. To all the asshole and jerks out there. Rock on. You've got more of a chance with being yourself and attracting girls.
In my last article Penis Identity - Formulation of Being a Man we explained the importance knowing what it means to be a Man and I gave out an important exercise to do. If you've not read this article I'd like you to read it.
Be Yourself. What does that mean? It means that you must be a Man and you must show your own character.
Live honest and be the person you are meant to be. Be true to yourself. When it comes to interacting with people be normal. Act normal.
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Penis Identity - Formulation of Being a Man
When it comes to being a Man you can get very different opinions and views on what it is to act like a Man. Part of being a man is practicing honesty. Telling things to others that maybe hurtful. He defines honesty as being a man.
It is crucial to solidify what it is to be a Man in your own mind. This is called Penis identity. Identifying yourself as being a Man. You define yourself as a Man through your own beliefs as to what it is that makes a Man a Man.
My beliefs in being a Man is:
- One who is honest. No matter whether the truth hurts or rewards.
- Who knows what he likes and dislikes.
- Loves the company of a quality woman.
- Loves and respects his own himself.
- Keeps his life private from those he does not trust.
- Keeps his word and follows through on what he says.
- Loves those close to him. Family, friends etc.
- Takes responsibility in the relationship between himself and a woman. From sex, maintaining her reputations etc.
- Make a woman feel special.
These are a few things I define as being a man.
A good exercise is to write a list down of what it is to be a Man. Write down everything you deem to be true. You might test the ones you write down but get it out there. You might realise that the ones you've written down you end up crossing out as it does not relate to being a man. Others you may need to test. It might be something you need to address.
For example: I used to think that part of being a Man is pleasing a woman and making her happy. I believe this to be untrue. I have learnt that being a Man your duty is to make her feel special. Its her own job to make sure she is happy just as it is as a Man for his own self. By being present with a woman and allow her to be present with you.
Enjoy the exercise and allow yourself to love what it means to be a Man which you defined.
Mark
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It is crucial to solidify what it is to be a Man in your own mind. This is called Penis identity. Identifying yourself as being a Man. You define yourself as a Man through your own beliefs as to what it is that makes a Man a Man.
My beliefs in being a Man is:
- One who is honest. No matter whether the truth hurts or rewards.
- Who knows what he likes and dislikes.
- Loves the company of a quality woman.
- Loves and respects his own himself.
- Keeps his life private from those he does not trust.
- Keeps his word and follows through on what he says.
- Loves those close to him. Family, friends etc.
- Takes responsibility in the relationship between himself and a woman. From sex, maintaining her reputations etc.
- Make a woman feel special.
These are a few things I define as being a man.
A good exercise is to write a list down of what it is to be a Man. Write down everything you deem to be true. You might test the ones you write down but get it out there. You might realise that the ones you've written down you end up crossing out as it does not relate to being a man. Others you may need to test. It might be something you need to address.
For example: I used to think that part of being a Man is pleasing a woman and making her happy. I believe this to be untrue. I have learnt that being a Man your duty is to make her feel special. Its her own job to make sure she is happy just as it is as a Man for his own self. By being present with a woman and allow her to be present with you.
Enjoy the exercise and allow yourself to love what it means to be a Man which you defined.
Mark
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Honesty - The Language of being an Attractive Man
If you were told to only learn just one thing to do well with life and women. It's always be honest. I remember an old acquaintance once told me a story. He told me when he was growing up he admired his grandfather. He had his life in order and was loved by those who cared about him and also had fewer good friends. One day he asked his Grandfather what is the secret to be him. He told him being a Man. Major part of being a Man is being honest.
"You must be able to look a person in the eyes and tell them what you honesty think about them."
I like to think of this as the key to anyone life. Always be honest. People talk about having good body language, improving confidence and being an attractive guy. You might as well forget it. You have to master honesty in order to be a better person. You have to communicate what you are thinking about.
Always be honest! Sometimes you might not say what you are thinking but allow yourself to think it. I know this sounds completely stupid. But media and social pressure can suppress our thoughts.
Allow yourself to have any thoughts. Allow them to surface.
Be honest. If you find this hard? I have an exercise for you.
A day of honesty - Honest exercise
Commit to a day of being honest with the objective of only being honest not being pleasing (only being honest). Speak your mind. Whatever you say stand behind it. If you say you will do something go through with it and do it. Become honest then people trust your character, your consistency and can trust you.
You might realise that you lie alot. You say the exact opposite of what you are thinking. Due to guilt or a fear of being judged. DO NOT HAVE THIS! It not only imprisons you, it imprisons those around you and makes them feel like they can say whatever they are thinking.
The more honest you are the more you find people are exactly the same as you. You realise people are being suppressed and by your very nature of being unfiltered you release them. Suppression leads to anxiety which causes havoc on your body. You will have a much more relaxed life, you will have the people in your life who fulfils yours needs. People who you thought were good friends may drift apart with you naturally and you realise they weren't serving you at all.
Honesty brings out boldness, kindness, genuine compliments, creativity, intelligence, and all the good things. Honesty also tells others what you don't like. Tells other about your own personal boundaries crucial to getting respect from others.
Mark
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"You must be able to look a person in the eyes and tell them what you honesty think about them."
I like to think of this as the key to anyone life. Always be honest. People talk about having good body language, improving confidence and being an attractive guy. You might as well forget it. You have to master honesty in order to be a better person. You have to communicate what you are thinking about.
Always be honest! Sometimes you might not say what you are thinking but allow yourself to think it. I know this sounds completely stupid. But media and social pressure can suppress our thoughts.
Allow yourself to have any thoughts. Allow them to surface.
Be honest. If you find this hard? I have an exercise for you.
A day of honesty - Honest exercise
Commit to a day of being honest with the objective of only being honest not being pleasing (only being honest). Speak your mind. Whatever you say stand behind it. If you say you will do something go through with it and do it. Become honest then people trust your character, your consistency and can trust you.
You might realise that you lie alot. You say the exact opposite of what you are thinking. Due to guilt or a fear of being judged. DO NOT HAVE THIS! It not only imprisons you, it imprisons those around you and makes them feel like they can say whatever they are thinking.
The more honest you are the more you find people are exactly the same as you. You realise people are being suppressed and by your very nature of being unfiltered you release them. Suppression leads to anxiety which causes havoc on your body. You will have a much more relaxed life, you will have the people in your life who fulfils yours needs. People who you thought were good friends may drift apart with you naturally and you realise they weren't serving you at all.
Honesty brings out boldness, kindness, genuine compliments, creativity, intelligence, and all the good things. Honesty also tells others what you don't like. Tells other about your own personal boundaries crucial to getting respect from others.
Mark
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Tuesday, 12 November 2013
The Ultimate Goal - Be a Man of Value
Your birth right is to become a Man. Your ultimate quest in life is to become a Man of Value.
To understand what it means to be a Man of Value we need to dig deep and unearth things to gain clarity and understanding.
We have talked about being a Man, we've defines what it is to be a Man and we've discussed about having your needs and desires met.
A Man of Value is a man who lives his life in his own principles, isn't afraid to let others know what they are and is mature and open minded when it comes to other peoples affairs.
He does not get caught up in emotions or gossip for the sake of making others look bad he does not need to engage in that at all.
I have listen to a few dating mentors who have offered valid advice on women and manhood.
They all offer the same advice when taking the journey of becoming a Man of principle.
Traits found in a Man of Value:
1) Believes he is the most important person in the relationship not the woman.
2) Thinks for himself. Does not try to please the woman for his own benefit.
3) Does not lie.
4) Tells the truth. Live fully honest.
5) Is not afraid of what others might think of him.
6) Does not engage in gossip. Has trust of others and is accepting.
7) Does not engage in bad mouthing others.
In the presence of a Woman:
8) Will not discuss past relationships with other women and politely says "I do not talk about other women" and keeps his relationships private. Giving women trust in himself that whatever happens he will not talk to others about what happened.
9) Takes full responsibility of what happens between himself and the woman. From Wearing protections, initiating sex etc. Even explains to her that he is of full responsibility for what ever happens in the interaction.
10) Is not afraid to discipline what he sees to be unfit behaviours of a women in a non-violent way. Also rewards good behaviour which is just as important.
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To understand what it means to be a Man of Value we need to dig deep and unearth things to gain clarity and understanding.
We have talked about being a Man, we've defines what it is to be a Man and we've discussed about having your needs and desires met.
A Man of Value is a man who lives his life in his own principles, isn't afraid to let others know what they are and is mature and open minded when it comes to other peoples affairs.
He does not get caught up in emotions or gossip for the sake of making others look bad he does not need to engage in that at all.
I have listen to a few dating mentors who have offered valid advice on women and manhood.
They all offer the same advice when taking the journey of becoming a Man of principle.
Traits found in a Man of Value:
1) Believes he is the most important person in the relationship not the woman.
2) Thinks for himself. Does not try to please the woman for his own benefit.
3) Does not lie.
4) Tells the truth. Live fully honest.
5) Is not afraid of what others might think of him.
6) Does not engage in gossip. Has trust of others and is accepting.
7) Does not engage in bad mouthing others.
In the presence of a Woman:
8) Will not discuss past relationships with other women and politely says "I do not talk about other women" and keeps his relationships private. Giving women trust in himself that whatever happens he will not talk to others about what happened.
9) Takes full responsibility of what happens between himself and the woman. From Wearing protections, initiating sex etc. Even explains to her that he is of full responsibility for what ever happens in the interaction.
10) Is not afraid to discipline what he sees to be unfit behaviours of a women in a non-violent way. Also rewards good behaviour which is just as important.
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